Preface
AIDS is a terrifying virus, and once infected, a person's immunity will be reduced, which will lead to various problems.
To this day, there are no means or drugs that can effectively cure AIDS, so it is like a flood of beasts, and even when they see these three words, people are afraid to avoid it.
However, there was a male prostitute in Thailand who said thank you for choosing me.
Then we saw that the account of Xinjiang Tiantong Public Welfare published a similar article on 2022-06-27, which also told about this incident, so what did he experience in his life?
The worrying AIDS situation in Thailand
When it comes to the most open country in Southeast Asia, Thailand is definitely on the list.
They not only have an open attitude towards sexual minorities, but also have many performances of the 18th ban and the embrace of special groups.
Because of this prevalence, Thailand is also an AIDS-prone region, and their government is constantly fighting AIDS.
There are also many non-governmental organizations that help people fight AIDS, and the protagonist of today's story is the founder of such an organization, who interprets the famous saying with practical actions: If you are drenched in the rain, you must help others hold an umbrella.
A difficult life
His name was Bangbon, and as soon as he was born, he was destined to not be able to live a safe and healthy life like other children.
In addition to the chaos in the industry, the gangsters in Thailand are also a major problem in society. Unfortunately, Bangbon is the son of a gang boss who has lived in the shadow of violence since he was a child.
He lacked the company of his parents and barely experienced the love of his family. His father beat and scolded him, while his mother regarded him as a transparent person, and when he was sensible, she witnessed his father's arrest.
Several policemen pushed the father to the ground and sent him to the police station. Seeing this scene, Bangbon did not hate the police for hurting his father, but deeply realized that he was the son of a criminal, and made him have strong self-doubt.
However, at this critical juncture of psychological guidance, his mother did not give him the right guidance, but discarded him as garbage.
It turned out that Bangbon's mother did not have any skills, but had always relied on men to live. After Bangbon's dad was arrested, she lost her financial resources and had to go pounding new big money.
However, the man liked Bangbon's mother, but he didn't like Bangbon. In order to stabilize the man, his mother left Bangbon alone in the old house and only gave him a few hundred yuan a month for living expenses.
You know, it is very difficult for an adult to live on 300 yuan a month in China, let alone a Thai child with no life experience.
Naturally, you can't go to school, and Bangbon tried to go to his mother, but almost lost his life because of it.
The stepfather hated Bangbon extremely much, not only verbally insulting him, but also beating him at every turn. He was even threatened with death, saying that he would kill him and throw him into the river to feed the fish.
The other party's words reminded Bangbon of psychological shadows, and he knew that the other party's words were not a joke.
In order to survive, at the age of fifteen, he decided to go out to work. He doesn't know anything, he just wants to rely on his own strength to eat, but the people he meets either think he is too young and thin and don't want him, or they cheat him.
At a young age, he tasted the hardships of society. However, one night, a man's "kindness" takes him down a different path. From then on, he will face the second half of his life in great pain.
Deceived and led astray
When a man sees Bangbon huddled in the street, and seeing how handsome he looks, evil thoughts arise in the man's mind.
He walked up to Bangbon and asked if he needed help. Seeing the man in front of him, Bangbon was a little timid, saying that he was looking for a job, but he didn't expect the man to directly take out a wad of money, saying that he could take him on the road to getting rich.
For a moment, Bangbon, who was eager to find a job, stopped thinking and followed the man to his residence. He thought that the other party wanted him to help with chores, but he didn't expect that what was waiting for him was a man's sexual assault.
During the process, Bangbon was terrified and kept struggling. But the other party is tall and big, and he is in his home, and it may be dangerous to resist, so he can only give in.
After the incident, the other party gave him some money, and said to the crying Bangbon that changed his life, he felt that since Bangbon has no ability to make a living, why not just do this business? Bangbon is young and delicate, it will definitely attract many men, and when the time comes, are you afraid that you will run out of money?
Frustrated, Bangbon felt that his life was a bad one, even if he was a duck, so he embarked on this road of no return, constantly tossing and turning on the man's bed, just to earn a mouthful of food.
Among them, foreign men are especially fond of him, often giving him a lot of tips, and asking not to do any safety measures.
In order to earn more money, Bangbon agreed to the guests' requests, but what he didn't know was that such behavior was very dangerous, and he lacked knowledge of physiology and hygiene, although he was vaguely uneasy about it, but he did not expect that it would kill him.
It was in this process that Bangbon unknowingly contracted HIV. He accidentally learned about it and had a nervous breakdown on the spot. But at that time, he was not yet sixteen years old.
Soon after, his mother arrived, and when she saw the results of her son's examination, she was like a bolt from the blue, and the belated mother's love finally arrived, but Bangbon could not forgive her, and for a long time, he did not want to talk to his mother.
After contracting AIDS, he often committed suicide, but he was rescued. Gradually, his mindset changed, and he felt that he had to live to make a change.
Since he had been treated unfairly by fate, there was nothing he could do but reconcile with his suffering. In the ward, he saw other AIDS patients, whose experiences were equally heartbreaking.
As he learned about HIV/AIDS, he found that there was a lot of stereotype about HIV/AIDS in society, and he was even more afraid of avoiding it. But in fact, AIDS is not so scary, and people can still communicate with patients normally.
So he decided to set up the Bangkok AIDS Center to help people who had or were at risk of HIV. This organization has even received help from the government to provide positive support to the society under Bangbon's leadership.
He found self-worth in the process of helping his fellow people, and he once said a touching sentence: "Thank you for this virus finding me and allowing me to help more people." It was because of this pattern that he was able to find himself after being diagnosed with AIDS.
epilogue
Bangbon's life is regrettable, but his mentality is worth learning from everyone, hoping that there will be fewer and fewer people in society who have gone astray, and that AIDS can be effectively solved so that people can live in a better environment.
Information sources:
Beiqing.com - Thailand has about 9,000 new cases of HIV infection every year2023-12-02 17:30
Xinjiang Tiantong Public Welfare - Thailand's "Male Duck King": Thank you HIV for choosing me, so that I can save more people2022-06-27 12:18