Sunshine News (Yang Bo, reporter Liang Yongfei) Wei Lianxue, director of Jiangyin Kindergarten in Baqiao District, Xi'an City, brought a parent lecture with the theme of "Back to the Beginning, Re-look at the Children's World" for parents and friends, opening a wonderful prelude to the experience and interaction around "the impact of children's sensitive period on their lives".
Oral sensitivity period
Peculiarity:
When children are young, the "mouth" becomes the center of the infant's life and interests during this period, and it becomes a tool to explore the world. If this sensitive period is not handled well, it will lead to bad habits such as children who like to eat fingers and pens in the future.
Suggestion:
Try to ensure the hygiene and safety of all toys for young children, let the baby explore to the fullest, at this time the baby's motor muscle groups and muscle control ability have been coordinated with each other, mutual coordination, intelligence has also developed, and at the same time will get a sense of satisfaction and happiness.
Space-sensitive period
Peculiarity:
I like to build high, three-dimensional, drill boxes, etc. During the space-sensitive period, children like to throw things around, like to throw toys, pillows, socks, books, etc. everywhere, and they also like to delve into holes, holes and other spaces.
They like to build and then destroy, they like to push chairs around the house, they like to climb and jump, they like to play peek-a-boo, etc., these are the characteristics of the sensitive period of space, and they feel the space through these behaviors.
Suggestion:
You can provide more similar toys, and at the same time, you can learn a variety of geometry at this opportunity, and lay a foundation for your interest in learning geometry in the future.
Sensitive period of the hand
Peculiarity:
"Eating hands" is the germination of the sensitive period of the hands. At 6~8 months, the sensitivity and flexibility of the baby's hands have improved significantly, and they begin to stretch out their hands to all corners of life, pressing, pinching, grabbing, tearing paper, throwing things, turning around, pulling, digging...... These help your baby build strength in his upper limbs and explore the space around him.
Suggestion:
We should provide abundant, clean objects for the baby to grasp, let the baby explore freely, and do not control the baby's above behaviors.
Sensitive period of limbs
Peculiarity:
Before the age of 0-1 and a half years is the sensitive period of limb movement and vision, 1 and a half years is the sensitive period of fine motor movement, 1-2 years old is the sensitive period of walking, and 3-6 years old is the sensitive period of gross motor movement.
Manifested as: hide and seek, climbing up and down, burrowing into the quilt, throwing things repeatedly, pushing down blocks......
Suggestion:
Strengthening the exercise of gross motor and fine motor skills during the sensitive period can promote the rapid and healthy development of children's physical development on the one hand, and on the other hand, because the action is the executor of the brain command, the agility of the action directly reflects the thinking status from the brain, so the intellectual development can be greatly promoted through the training of the movement.
From an adult's point of view, children in a sensitive period, we often can't understand certain behaviors, and even misunderstandings "children are willful, temperamental, impulsive, and unobedient...... We only see the child's appearance, but we can't see the child's heart. Director Wei recreated the scene to solve the doubts in the hearts of parents, what kind of education concept, what kind of education method. Poor parenting can cause great psychological damage to children.
Authoritarian brutality
Parents are authoritarian, unreasonable, and consider themselves saints and teachers, and parents who hold this style of parenting have simple and rude education methods, often beating and scolding their children, without taking into account their children's self-esteem, and children are prone to form inferiority complex and withdrawal psychology, and will also lead children to lie, sabotage and other behaviors.
Apathy
Some parents are keen on their own careers, or because of the bad relationship between husband and wife, resulting in lax discipline of their children, or lack of care for their children, and children are prone to form indifferent, selfish, timid, lonely and other personalities.
Dodging sex
It is mainly reflected in the fact that parents never go against the will of their children, regardless of whether their children's requirements are reasonable or unreasonable, give what they want, and do what they want. Blindly satisfying the child's requirements, it is the child himself who suffers directly. Over time, children are prone to develop willful, selfish, domineering and other personalities.
Director Wei said in the summary that the sensitive period is very important, because children are through the sensitive period to continue to learn a skill, one ability, if once hindered, then the development of children's ability will be limited, just like a tiger cub, if released into the wild, you can learn a variety of survival skills, if in a cage, like a big cat, will only "sit back and enjoy". In fact, children are the same, trapped in a fence and running freely, the difference must be undeniable.
Understanding the sensitive period is to help us better understand the "child's sincerity", accept, respect, understand, let go, and return the child's freedom, and may every child be treated gently.