Text: Jing Ma
My cousin went to the hospital to give birth, and we were all waiting for her to report the good news in the family-level group, but I didn't expect to wait for two days without any response, so I quietly asked my cousin: What's the matter? Haven't you given birth yet?My cousin said: I gave birth, but it's so ugly, I don't dare to show it, and I want to stuff him back if it's ugly......
And many mothers also feel that the newborn is so ugly when it is born, so ugly that the mother can't bear to look at it.
It is normal for a child to be ugly when he is born, his skin is red, his head is pointy, his mouth is sharp-beaked, his skin is wrinkled by amniotic fluid, like a little old man, his eyes have not yet opened, like a squint, and his nose is a little collapsed...... In short, how to look at it is not pleasing to the eye.
If you don't do it well, it may really lead to the child all the way to the ugly to the big, and if you do a good job, your child will definitely look better and better.
The "5 face projects" of newborns are very important, and if they are not done correctly, it will affect the appearance of the child
No. 1: Don't cut your child's fetal hair casually
When children are born, some children have a lot of hair, and some children have very little hair, which is related to genetics and the nutrition of the child in the mother's belly.
But don't cut the fetal hair casually, because the child's scalp is very delicate, a careless cut in the fetal hair may hurt the child's scalp, and even hurt the hair follicle, once the hair follicle is injured, the hair follicle may be injured part of the child's hair will never grow, which will really become ugly.
No. 2: Don't squeeze your child's acne on his face, and don't use breast milk
The child's face may be slightly puffy when it is born, and under the influence of estrogen in the mother's body, the sebaceous gland secretion will be very vigorous, and there will be some white or yellow miliaria the size of a grain of yellow rice on the cheeks, chin, and nose, which is also called neonatal acne, or what we often call acne and pimples.
As the estrogen in the baby's body declines, these acne will naturally subside, probably in the child's 2~3 weeks of age, do not squeeze it with your hands, it may be infected, and do not use breast milk to coat, it may cause acne to grow more.
No. 3: Don't flatten your child's head
When the newborn is born, the back of his occipital is also round, of course, the head may be a little pointed, this is mainly due to the birth canal squeezing the child's head during normal delivery, resulting in a slight deformation of the head. This deformation will return to normal as the child grows older.
The normal head shape of the child is slightly rounder, but some parents have heard the elderly say that the child should sleep on a pillow when he is born, or even sleep on a hard pillow, and sleep on the child's head flat. In fact, if the child's head is flattened, it will hurt the child's appearance very much
Before, a netizen left a message in my comment area, and also posted a photo of his flat head, saying that he was slept with by his grandmother when he was a child, and now he is ugly with any haircut, and he feels very inferior.
In addition, overly flattening of the head can also affect the bones of the child's face.
Number 4: Do not pinch the bridge of your child's nose
The bridge of the child's nose is not very high when it is born, and many parents say that they should pinch the bridge of the child's nose, and the bridge of the child's nose can grow higher in the future, which is nonsense.
Whether the child's nose bridge is high or not is related to genetics, and pinching the child's nose bridge when the child is just born, an accident may lead to the child's nasal infection, and even cause the child's bones to be affected.
Number 5: Don't cut your child's eyelashes casually
The child's eyes can't even open when they are born, parents don't just break the child's eyes, and the child's eyelashes are long or short is also related to genetics, some parents listen to the old people say that the eyelashes grow longer after the child is young, which is also nonsense.
Cutting your child's eyelashes can accidentally poke your child's eyes, which can hurt your child's eyes.
I used to have a colleague who had a red piece of his eye, and later learned that when he was young, his grandmother helped him cut his eyelashes, and accidentally poked his eyes with scissors, so now there is a red piece in his eye, which directly affects his appearance.
Whether a child looks good or not is mainly related to genetics, and children whose parents are good-looking are likely to look better.
Of course, if you want your child to look better than your parents in the future, then you should let your child clean and clean when you are young, avoid skin infection, and slowly let your child grow up, let your child exercise more, when the child exercises more, his body will be more symmetrical, his figure will be more upright, and he will look more temperamental.
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