In this family dispute, the mother-in-law's behavior has sparked a series of contradictions and controversies. First of all, as a mother-in-law, Li Xiuqin's attitude towards her daughter-in-law and daughter is obviously unfair. She secretly took away the ingredients that her daughter bought for her daughter-in-law and gave them to her daughter, completely ignoring her daughter-in-law's needs and rights. This partiality led to anger and dissatisfaction among the daughter-in-law, which brought the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to an impasse. Mother-in-law should be aware of her own prejudice and unfairness, adjust her attitude in time, and treat her daughter-in-law and daughter equally in order to maintain family harmony.
Secondly, the mother-in-law's behavior also involves the obligation to support her daughter-in-law. According to the relevant provisions of the Civil Code, adult children should fulfill the obligation of support, but this obligation is based on family affection and morality and should not become an imposed pressure. The daughter-in-law's obligation to support her in-laws should be based on understanding and respect between the two parties, rather than unilateral demands and coercion. If the daughter-in-law is unwilling to fulfill the maintenance obligation because of a family dispute, then the mother-in-law should reflect on her behavior and actively mediate the family relationship instead of taking strong measures.
In addition, from a legal point of view, although the mother-in-law's unfair attitude towards her daughter-in-law does not violate the law, it violates public order and good customs. In family relations, equality and respect are fundamental principles, and neither party should be treated unfairly. The mother-in-law should be aware that her behavior may have a negative impact on the family relationship, and should adjust her attitude in time to avoid further escalation of the conflict.
To sum up, the mother-in-law should be aware of the negative impact that her behavior may have on the family relationship, adjust her attitude in time, treat her daughter-in-law and daughter equally, and jointly maintain the harmony and stability of the family. Only on the basis of mutual respect and understanding can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be improved and the family truly achieve harmony and happiness.
