The five words "habitual son is like killing a son" are a thorn in Li Shuangjiang's heart no matter when.
As the top singer in the country, he should have enjoyed endless preferential treatment and the love of the audience.
Unexpectedly, when he was 72 years old, he became a street rat because of his son's charges of beating others and violating girls.
During this period, Li Shuangjiang's eldest son Li He, who had not received a day of father's love, chose to be filial piety in front of the bed regardless of his previous suspicions and became his father's spiritual pillar.
is also the son of Li Shuangjiang, why is the difference so big?
The old man is endlessly spoiled
If Li Tianyi hadn't punched and kicked passers-by without saying a word, completely stimulating his blood, I think their happy family would be the object of praise from countless netizens.
When Li Shuangjiang was born, Li Shuangjiang was nearly sixty years old. It is said that the next generation is pro-generational, so Li Shuangjiang is the same for this grandchild's son, we can feel the high hopes for the child just from the name "Li Tianyi".
Like many parents who are old enough to have children, Li Tianyi has lived a life of clothes and food since he was a child, and his various needs will be met by parents as parents as a child.
And children who grow up in this kind of family also have a common problem of taking others for granting their kindness to him.
However, Li Tianyi's child is not without merit, because his father is a national-level singer, and his mother Mengge also graduated from the China Conservatory of Music, so Li Tianyi showed his proud talent at a very young age.
Coupled with the influence of his parents, Li Tianyi is quite interested in music, and his parents also have the intention to cultivate and often carry Li Tianyi on stage during performances, exercising his courage since he was a child.
Coupled with his parents' connections, Li Tianyi studied piano with Professor Han Jianming, who taught at the Central Conservatory of Music, when he was four years old. The teacher who studied calligraphy also came from Tsinghua University.
It can be said that Li Tianyi has taken up all kinds of resources, and the height of his birth is beyond the reach of his peers.
Whether it is Li Tianyi's parents, or relatives and friends around him, they all have high hopes for him, but they didn't expect that because of a beating incident in 2011, the family's situation has changed dramatically.
The son was imprisoned and became angry and ill
In 2011, Li Tianyi was only 15 years old, and for the victim and his wife, what happened at that time was even more unjustified.
On that day, the victim, Mr. Peng, drove his wife and children home as usual. According to the scene described by the security guards of the community at the beginning, Mr. Peng was driving too fast and applied emergency braking when entering the community.
In addition, Li Tianyi and his friends followed too closely, and there was a rear-end collision. In fact, this situation occurs from time to time during the driving of the vehicle, and both parties are considerate of each other, call the police or deal with it privately.
But when Mr. Peng got out of the car to understand the situation, he was scolded by Li Tianyi, a group of underage boys, and the two sides couldn't bear it anymore, and the two sides stalemate, and even one of them made the first move.
When Mr. Peng's wife saw this posture, she quickly got out of the car and persuaded her to fight, but she didn't imagine that she was also pulled into this scuffle, and she also received a few punches in the head.
At this time, although there were security guards on the side, they couldn't pull a few young men who were angry, and Mr. Peng's children watched their parents being beaten and sat in the car crying, which attracted many neighbors to watch.
When someone wanted to call the police, they were loudly reprimanded by Li Tianyi and his party, "Whoever calls the police will not be finished with whom!" And their eyes were even more vicious when they shouted this sentence, and everyone also smelled the smell of alcohol on their group of young people during this period.
After that, there were more and more onlookers, and Li Tianyi and his party had to leave this chaotic scene, but the onlookers couldn't stop it in every way.
Even the victims, Mr. Peng and his wife, stood in front of the car, but failed to force the car driven by Li Tianyi and his friends, and were stunned to hit them.
In the end, Li Tianyi, who was 15 years old and drove without a license, was investigated and punished by the Beijing Municipal Public Security Bureau, but because of his young age, he was only sent to a detention center.
thought that after this matter was over, Li Tianyi would be able to be good, and Li Shuangjiang, as his father, would also be strictly controlled.
No one expected that after the expiration of the one-year reform period, in less than half a year, Li Tianyi once again violated the forbidden area of the law, and this time it was even more serious.
During the Spring Festival in 2013, a girl came to the police station to report that she had been assaulted by Li Tianyi and other men in a bar two nights before.
And this incident also caused a sensation among netizens across the country at that time, and even foreign media reported on this incident.
During this period, Li Tianyi still insisted that he was not a strong man, but instead beat a rake and said that the victim was a wine girl. But it didn't take long for Li Tianyi's accomplice to confess to the police that Li Tianyi was the first to assault the victim.
Of the five accomplices, including Li Tianyi, only Li Tianyi always insisted on his innocence.
But paper can never contain the fire, and in the end, under the confirmation of many parties, Li Tianyi was convicted and sentenced to ten years in prison, and the rest of the accomplices were also punished to varying degrees.
In everyone's opinion, it is a sure thing, but Li Tianyi is still dying and continues to appeal, but fortunately, the court maintains the verdict of the first instance, and Li Tianyi can spend the past ten years in prison.
And during this period, watching Li Tianyi's crime confirmed, someone inevitably came to pour oil.
At the beginning, the screenwriter of the TV series "Ma Yongzhen" broke the news to everyone on the Internet that Li Tianyi was not as innocent as he said, on the contrary, he also had the title of "Haidian Silver Gun Little Overlord", and even liked to do it to some little girls.
Now that there is an accurate verdict in this matter, Li Tianyi's true face can be regarded as completely exposed.
However, during this period, Li Tianyi's father Li Shuangjiang was also heartbroken.
In addition to reducing the influence of public opinion and the fermentation of the incident, he also excused his son when blocking information. But in the end, because he was too tired, he collapsed.
Although his wife Mengge was still young, because he was also trapped in the back of the child's arrest and imprisonment at that time, and he was unable to take care of Li Shuangjiang, he suddenly remembered his eldest son Li He.
大儿子尽孝湋不initially
The eldest son, Li He, was born to Li Shuangjiang and his first wife Ding Ying.
Li Shuangjiang, who was with Ding Ying at the beginning, was still a little singer who was not famous, but Ding Ying was a few years older because of Li Shuangjiang, and he was famous as a dancer.
The two can be regarded as united by love, even if Li Shuangjiang didn't even give Ding Ying a decent wedding, Ding Ying didn't hesitate at all.
After the two got married, Ding Ying also helped Li Shuangjiang a lot, Li Shuangjiang's singing career rose steadily during this period, and they also had their own children.
At this time, they were faced with a family and career dilemma, judging from the current situation, Ding Ying made a regression and chose to fulfill the responsibility of taking care of the children at home, while Li Shuangjiang was responsible for working hard outside.
At the beginning, although the marriage between the two was less together and more separated, even if Ding Ying did not dare to disturb Li Shuangjiang too much in the days when she gave birth, she was also very affectionate because her heart was in one place.
The relationship between their young couple was also seen by Li Shuangjiang's leaders, and when the time was ripe, Li Shuangjiang was transferred back to Beijing from Xinjiang to work, so that their family of three could be reunited.
But such days lasted for a while, but they were destined not to last long.
Sure enough, because Li Shuangjiang's career is becoming more and more prosperous, and the number of times he goes home is getting less and less, Ding Ying, as a wife who is very considerate of her husband, also asked Li Shuangjiang if he could take time to accompany his son when he couldn't bear it.
Obviously, Li Shuangjiang never took it to heart, and Ding Ying didn't ask for anything after that.
However, their son Li He, although he can always see the shadow of his husband in him, is not a little bored with reading his son, but educates his son very seriously.
and will also tell white lies to excuse Li Shuangjiang who did not return home.
Finally, under the stalemate between the two, their marriage came to an end, and it was more decent to say divorce.
I have to say that Li He is a competitive child, even if he has not been accompanied by his father since he was a child, he has grown up very well under his mother's education.
He was even admitted to a foreign university, and during this period, he also studied and worked part-time to reduce the burden of life for his mother.
Without Li Shuangjiang's help, Li He and his mother also lived very well, but because the mother and son were too kind, after Li Tianyi was imprisoned, he learned that his father and even Li Tianyi's mother Mengge were in a very bad state, so he took the initiative to take care of them.
In addition to enlightening them and preventing them from making extreme choices, he even promised to take care of the two of them, which can be said to be benevolent.
And all this is still thanks to Ding Ying, a good wife and mother, she will never implicate the grievances of the previous generation on her children, so Li He has no resentment towards this father who has no feelings since childhood.
On the contrary, when Li Shuangjiang was in danger, Li He did not hesitate to come to his side. Knowing this, Li Shuangjiang was ashamed of his actions in his early years.
But I thought that after this, I thought that Li Shuangjiang would realize the failure of his education of Li Tianyi and make up for it after Li Tianyi was released from prison. Unexpectedly, when Li Shuangjiang was released from prison last year, he didn't know how to keep a low profile, but instead held a banquet, which caused strong dissatisfaction among netizens.
And now Li Shuangjiang and his wife can only perform on stage on some small occasions because of their son, barely making a living.
If there is another chance to choose, I wonder if Li Shuangjiang will still be endlessly doting on his youngest son Li Shuangjiang, and thus neglect his care for his eldest son Li He?
"A habitual son is like a murderer", these five words are not only a thorn in Li Shuangjiang's heart, but also a warning to all parents.
In the process of educating children, we should not blindly spoil and indulge, but should focus on cultivating children's character and quality, so that they can become useful people in society.
Only in this way can we avoid repeating the mistakes of Li Shuangjiang and make our families and society more harmonious and beautiful.
Information sources:
1. Nanhai Net: Beijing Times, 2011. Li Shuangjiang's 15-year-old son drove a BMW and beat people, shouting who dares to hit 110 (picture)
2. CCTV: 2011.9.16 Li Shuangjiang's son picked quarrels and provoked troubles and was taken into custody and re-education for one year
3. People's Daily Online: 2013.2.3 Li Tianyi was accused of playing with post-90s women and was nicknamed "Haidian Silver Gun Little Overlord"
4. People's Daily Online: The final trial of Li's case upheld the original verdict for 10 years, and the presiding judge explained the five focuses
5. Baidu Encyclopedia - Li Shuangjiang, Li Guanfeng (original name: Li Tianyi)
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