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Li Tianyi's crime and Li Shuangjiang's despair
In 2013, Li Tianyi was sentenced to prison for a crime, which plunged Li Shuangjiang into despair. As a father, Li Shuangjiang's dream of a son Jackie Chan was completely shattered, and he seemed to have aged a lot in an instant.
At this time, the eldest son Li He, who had been neglected, took the initiative to appear by his side.
Li He came quietly, and his words made Li Shuangjiang cry like rain. He has always been by his father's side and has given Li Shuangjiang warmth and care.
Looking back on Li Shuangjiang's growth process, it is not difficult to find that he loved music since he was a child, but was strongly opposed by his father. His father wanted him to concentrate on his studies and become a stable doctor.
Under the persecution of his father, Li Shuangjiang had to give up the music he loved and embarked on the road of medicine.
But not long after Li Shuangjiang entered the campus, the admissions team of the Central Conservatory of Music came to his hometown of Harbin. This opportunity gave Li Shuangjiang finally the opportunity to chase his music dream.
With his own efforts and the support of his mother, he successfully passed the exam and started a new journey in the pursuit of knowledge.
After graduation, Li Shuangjiang was assigned to work in the Xinjiang Song and Dance Troupe. In this magical land, he met his wife, Ding Ying, and the two fell in love and became husband and wife. In the continuous performance cooperation, Ding Ying discovered Li Shuangjiang's talent and firm belief, and the relationship between the two became stronger and stronger like a blooming flower.
Soon, Li He was born, this lovely son, became a new member of the family. In order to take care of the family wholeheartedly, Ding Ying temporarily put down the job she loved and devoted herself to housework.
She takes care of the whole family, making everyone feel endless love and warmth.
At this time, Li Shuangjiang's career was booming, and he was transferred from distant Xinjiang to the Beijing General Political Song and Dance Troupe. With his outstanding performance, he won the warm applause of the audience and the high praise of the judges, and his career took off enviably.
However, as his fame grew, Li Shuangjiang gradually alienated himself from his family. He began to look for a new love life, and his relationship with his wife Ding Ying gradually deteriorated, and eventually led to divorce.
Despite the hardships of divorce, Li Shuangjiang's career is still thriving, and his glorious road continues.
This man, who was once forgotten by his family, warmed his father's darkest moments with his actions, which made people feel moved.
Ding Ying raised Li He alone and regained her dream of dancing
After the divorce, Ding Ying raised her eldest son Li He alone, and she did not choose to enter the marriage hall again, but devoted herself to the cultivation of her son. Despite the blow of divorce, Ding Ying did not take the conflict out of the child, but used her love and patience to raise this boy who was once neglected by his family.
Ding Ying often told Li He that although his parents were independent, they still cherished him very much. She didn't interfere too much with the communication between her son and his father, but gave them plenty of space.
However, because Shuangjiang was too busy, Li He was always careful not to disturb his father, and only sent warm greetings to his father on the occasion of the festival.
In order to take care of her son wholeheartedly, Ding Ying is determined to regain her past dream of dancing. Despite her growing age and not being involved in dance for a long time, her foundation is still strong.
Under the careful guidance of his mother, the sensible Li He gradually grew into a hardworking and kind man, not only excelling in his studies, but also often sharing housework for his mother, which made Ding Ying feel gratified.
After graduating from university, Li He firmly chose to return to his homeland and refused the opportunity to be hired abroad with a high salary. He understands that only here can he take better care of his mother and contribute to his family.
So, he got a job in his father Li Shuangjiang's work unit and opened a new chapter in his life.
Perhaps, it is precisely because of Ding Ying's tolerance and teachings that Li He's filial character has been created. She used her wisdom and patience to guide the healthy growth of this once neglected child, and finally in exchange for Li He's meticulous care of his parents.
This filial piety from the heart is exactly the reward that Li Shuangjiang deserves, and it is also a compensation for his early negligence by fate.
Li Shuangjiang remarried and doted on his second son Li Tianyi
At the same time as Li Shuangjiang's career took off, he also started a new love life. One day in 1988, fate once again arranged for Li Shuangjiang and Mengge, who was 27 years younger than him, to meet in the substitute classroom of his alma mater.
At a glance, this beautiful girl made his heart surge. When he learned that the girl was extremely talented in music, he did not hesitate to recruit her to teach her vocal skills.
Despite the huge age gap between the two, the romance remains unstoppable. Mengge still warmly and bravely chose to marry this man, even in the face of strong opposition from his parents and questioning eyes from all walks of life.
At the beautiful and solemn wedding scene of the two, the eldest son Li He, who had been neglected, came as promised and offered his most sincere congratulations to his father.
After marriage, Li Shuangjiang was full of affection for this young and delicate wife, and gave her endless care and love. It was also at this time that Li Shuangjiang ushered in the birth of his second child------ second son Li Tianyi.
Perhaps in order to make up for the neglect of his eldest son Li He, Li Shuangjiang doted on this youngest son in every way.
Whether it is sending him to the world's top schools for further study, or modifying a luxury sports car worth up to 270,000 yuan for him, Li Shuangjiang is always using money and resources to meet all the needs of his son.
He even connived at Li Tianyi's bad behavior, thinking, "How can a child not make mistakes? With a father, everything will go smoothly."
Such excessive laissez-faire undoubtedly fueled Li Tianyi's arrogance and conceit. When he was in elementary school, Li Tianyi once pushed his classmates down the stairs, but his father Li Shuangjiang only took immediate action to solve the problem and did not criticize and teach him harshly.
Later, when Li Tianyi went to study in an overseas aristocratic school, he still did not restrain himself, and was finally expelled from the school for bad behavior. In 2011, Li Tianyi, who had not obtained a driver's license, had a dispute with others and beat the two victim couples to the ground and could not move.
This incident finally gave Li Tianyi a taste of setback.
However, just as Li Tianyi returned to society, Li Shuangjiang did not hesitate to give him a luxury sports car worth up to 1.3 million yuan as a sign of consolation. This kind of connivance undoubtedly contributed to Li Tianyi's eyes, and he frequently violated the law on the subsequent road of life, and walked step by step towards the abyss of crime.
On the day when Li Tianyi was finally sentenced fairly, Li Shuangjiang seemed to have entered his twilight years in an instant, and his pale hair and tired eyes made people feel emotional. This sudden change undoubtedly reflects the sadness and guilt in Li Shuangjiang's heart.
His neglect of his eldest son and his excessive doting on his second son eventually created a completely different ending in his life, and it also became his irreparable regret.
Li Tianyi's behavior was bad and he violated the law one after another
Li Shuangjiang's excessive doting on his second son Li Tianyi eventually fueled Li Tianyi's arrogance and conceit. When he was in elementary school, Li Tianyi once pushed a classmate down the stairs, which not only seriously hurt others, but also reflected his lack of basic moral bottom line.
However, when Li Shuangjiang learned of the incident, he did not severely criticize and educate his son, but immediately took action to solve the problem and check to confirm whether his son was safe and sound.
After that, when Li Tianyi went to study in an overseas aristocratic school, he still had no restraint and still acted recklessly. Eventually, he was officially expelled from school for bad behavior.
However, this blow did not change Li Tianyi, but made him more unsightly.
In 2011, Li Tianyi, who did not obtain a driver's license, had a dispute with others and beat the two victims and his wife to the ground and could not move. This incident finally gave Li Tianyi a taste of setback, and it also became the beginning of his violation of the law.
However, just as Li Tianyi returned to society, Li Shuangjiang did not hesitate to give him a luxury sports car worth up to 1.3 million yuan as a sign of consolation. This kind of connivance undoubtedly contributed to Li Tianyi's lack of connivance.
On the subsequent road of life, Li Tianyi frequently violated the law and was finally sentenced to prison.
This series of events also put Li Shuangjiang in a desperate situation. As a father, his original dream of wanting his son to become a dragon was completely shattered, and he seemed to have aged a lot in an instant.
For his long-term excessive doting and indulgence of his second son, he is undoubtedly full of deep self-blame and remorse.
Li He took the initiative to take care of his parents
On the day when Li Tianyi was finally sentenced fairly, Li Shuangjiang seemed to have entered his twilight years in an instant, and his pale hair and tired eyes made people feel emotional. At this time, Li He, the eldest son in the family who had always been regarded as insignificant by him, took the initiative to contact him and said the touching words: "Dad, don't worry, I will support you."
These words made Li Shuangjiang sigh that this son, who had always been snubbed by himself, would take the initiative to lend a helping hand and give him the warmest care.
From then on, Li He kept in touch with his father more and more frequently, especially during the days when Li Tianyi was not around, he dutifully took care of his father, which made Li Shuangjiang feel relieved.
It was under the intimate care of the eldest son Li He that the emotions of both parties gradually returned to stability, and Li Shuangjiang was able to return to work to continue to struggle.
Since then, Li He has kept in touch with his father more and more frequently, giving Li Shuangjiang the most sincere care.
In the face of his son Li He's meticulous care for his father, he couldn't help but sigh deeply: "Only a mother with a broad mind can cultivate a child with the same inclusive beauty!" This man, who was once forgotten by his family, now warms his father's darkest moments with his actions, which is moving.
Looking back on the life experiences of the two sons, it is really embarrassing. One has been carefully cared for since childhood, for fear of suffering the slightest injury; The other is always in a forgotten corner, but he gave his father the most sincere care and warmth when he was most tired.
These two very different life endings undoubtedly reflect the importance of parenting styles. Perhaps, it is precisely because of the tolerance and teachings of his mother Ding Ying that Li He has such a filial character.
And Li Shuangjiang's excessive doting on his second son Li Tianyi fueled his arrogance and conceit, resulting in irreparable regrets.
Now, under the careful care of the eldest son Li He, Li Shuangjiang's family has finally regained a peaceful life. This man, who was once snubbed by his family, now warms his father Li Shuangjiang's darkest moment with his actions, and people can't help but sigh at the wisdom of his mother Ding Ying's education.
Ding Ying raised Li He alone, regained his dream of dancing with his own efforts, and cultivated a sensible and filial son. And Li Shuangjiang doted too much on his second son Li Tianyi and connived at his reckless behavior, which eventually led to the tragedy.
These two very different life endings undoubtedly reflect the importance of parental education.
Perhaps, it is precisely because of Ding Ying's tolerance and teachings that Li He's filial character has been created. He took the initiative to provide care and care for his tired father, and gave Li Shuangjiang the warmest support.
This filial piety from the heart is exactly the reward that Li Shuangjiang deserves, and it is also a compensation for his early negligence by fate.
And Li Shuangjiang's excessive doting on his second son Li Tianyi fueled his arrogance and conceit, resulting in irreparable regrets. When he was in elementary school, Li Tianyi's bad behavior appeared repeatedly, but he was not criticized and educated as he should be; Later, he went overseas, but still acted recklessly, and finally broke the law, which brought a huge blow to his family.
Looking back on the very different life experiences of the two sons, we have to sigh that the road to raising children is often not easy, and parents need wisdom and patience to guide their children to grow up healthily.
Only a mother with a broad mind like Ding Ying can raise children with the same inclusive beauty.
Perhaps, this is the true meaning of life, not money and status, but to resolve with love and accept with tolerance. I believe that as long as we treat life with a sincere heart, we will be able to usher in a better tomorrow of our own.