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Peach Blossom Eyes
Peach Blossom Eyes
Preamble:
Does a person always have to go through hardships in his life to achieve happiness?
When the haze of fate is shrouded, who can wait by his side and tide over the difficulties hand in hand? Let us walk into the story of Yan Weiwen and feel the responsibility and affection of a military husband.
An unhappy childhood: saddled with the brand of a "capitalist".
Yan Weiwen was born in a small workshop family in Pingyao County, Shanxi Province.
In that special era, his family was classified as "capitalists", and this label was like an imprint deep in Yan Weiwen's young heart.
As a child, he was always subjected to the strange eyes and cynicism of others, and his heart was tormented.
However, a kind mother became Yan Weiwen's spiritual support.
She taught him to face it calmly, not to be humble or arrogant, and to treat the world with tolerance and forbearance.
His mother's words and deeds made Yan Weiwen develop a humble and generous character, and the grace of a drop of water will be reciprocated.
One summer day when he was five years old, little Yan Weiwen followed his mother up the mountain to pick sea buckthorn.
Seeing his mother and older siblings working hard, he came up with the idea of sharing the family.
Taking advantage of the adults' unpreparedness, Yan Weiwen ran to the mountain alone, standing on tiptoe to reach the barbed sea buckthorn.
Under the scorching sun, sweat soaked his immature face, and his little hands were stabbed with blood, but Yan Weiwen always gritted his teeth and persevered.
When he took the hard-picked sea buckthorn and exchanged it for five cents and put it in his mother's hand, the mother hugged the sensible child tightly and tears came out of her eyes.
Music grew up with me: from the Shanxi Song and Dance Troupe to the Propaganda Team of the Military Region
The poor and difficult life did not crush Yan Weiwen, but tempered his tenacious will.
In order to get rid of the label of "capitalist" offspring, he worked harder than ordinary people.
In school, he found that singing brought him happiness and courage, and whenever he faced injustice and bullying, Yan Weiwen would run to a secluded place to sing loudly, using his singing voice to vent the depression in his chest.
At the age of 13, with his extraordinary talent and hard work, Yan Weiwen was admitted to the Shanxi Provincial Song and Dance Troupe.
Although he has a weak foundation in dance, he is not discouraged, and often when others practice the movements once, he has to practice them ten more times.
The hard work paid off, and two years later, Yan Weiwen was already a leader in the song and dance troupe.
At the age of 15, he stepped into the propaganda team of the Shanxi Provincial Military Region and started his military career.
Here, a special girl walked into Yan Weiwen's life.
Liu Weixing is not only his dance teacher, but also his confidante.
Although due to military discipline, the two can only bury their love in their hearts, but they have long recognized each other as the love of their lives.
Love Run: Thousands of miles to follow just to stay with you
In 1979, Yan Weiwen entered the General Political Song and Dance Troupe and started a long-distance relationship with Liu Weixing.
Although the two are separated from Beijing and Qinhuangdao, they still convey their affection through letters.
In this way, love is heating up day by day in waiting.
Fortunately, a piece of paper not long after made Liu Weixing come to Yan Weiwen's side.
got along day and night, and the relationship between the two deepened.
Finally, in 1982, Yan Weiwen and Liu Weixing entered the marriage hall hand in hand and became husband and wife.
A year later, the crystallization of their love - their daughter Yan Jingjing fell to the ground.
In order to create a better life for his wife and daughter, Yan Weiwen worked harder in his career.
In 1984, he began to emerge, and in 1988, he appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and reached the peak of his career.
The Test of Love: Fighting Cancer Side by Side with Your Wife
In 1988, when Yan Weiwen participated in the 3rd CCTV Young Singer TV Grand Prix, a bad news shattered his dream.
His wife, Liu Weixing, was diagnosed with breast cancer, and the couple fell into great grief.
Faced with the invasion of illness, Yan Weiwen chose to give up the game without hesitation and took care of his wife wholeheartedly.
But Liu Weixing insisted that he continue to compete, she said: "I will actively treat my illness, and it is not contradictory to you to compete."
If you don't get good grades, I'm going to die. "
In the end, Yan Weiwen complied with his wife's wishes, returned to the competition, and won the first prize of national singing.
But the honor of the competition was no longer important, and he couldn't wait to return to his wife and began a years-long journey against cancer.
During Liu Weixing's treatment, Yan Weiwen accompanied him every step of the way.
He personally cooks nutritious meals for his wife, learns nursing knowledge, and works tirelessly to take care of his wife's daily life.
In this way, under the meticulous care of her husband, Liu Weixing's condition finally improved.
Who knows, the nightmare still strikes again.
In 1996, Liu Weixing's cancer recurred, and his condition was more serious than before.
Despair and pain made Liu Weixing want to give up treatment for a while.
It was Yan Weiwen's unwavering companionship and encouragement that rekindled Liu Weixing's desire for life.
Under the careful care of her husband, Liu Weixing regained her confidence and actively cooperated with the treatment.
Yan Weiwen not only accompanied his wife to undergo chemotherapy, but also searched for famous doctors everywhere, and did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to buy imported special drugs.
In 2003, the doctor informed Liu that his condition had been brought under control and that the chance of recurrence was very small.
In order to help his wife get out of the shadow of illness, he not only asked a psychiatrist for counseling, but also poured all his love into his wife.
Yan Weiwen interprets "seeing the truth in adversity" with actions, he is the most solid support for his wife, and he is also a good husband who is "affectionate and unswerving".
Happy twilight years: children and grandchildren around the knees, love is undiminished
In the blink of an eye, the stormy years are gone.
In 2009, his daughter Yan Jingjing got married, and at the wedding, Yan Weiwen sang "Husband and Wife Love" affectionately, singing his original intention for his wife.
Now, Yan Weiwen, who is already in his old age, has been upgraded to become a grandfather.
With children and grandchildren around his knees, the sunset is red, he and his wife have been together for 50 years, and they are a veritable "golden couple".
Looking back on the past, Yan Weiwen was full of emotion.
In his heart, accompanying his family to spend his old age in peace is the greatest happiness in this life.
Yan Weiwen's military career has forged his high-spirited and tenacious character; Although he is not from a professional class, with his extraordinary perseverance and hard work, he has achieved the style of a generation of singers; When his wife was ill, he composed a tear-jerking "hymn of love" with tenderness and sweetness.
Yan Weiwen is a star like a star, but he is also a good husband with affection and righteousness.
However, Yan Weiwen's life was not all smooth sailing.
The negative press about the training class once cast a shadow on his image.
However, we should not simply make conclusions, but also examine them with a rational and objective attitude.
Epilogue:
Yan Weiwen's ups and downs in life is a touching and inspirational legend.
With his noble character, he interpreted the integrity that a soldier should have; With persistent artistic pursuit, he performed an immortal hymn to life; With the love that never leaves, he has written the immortal myth of "the prince of heaven and earth".
His life is an impassioned march, sometimes low and solemn, sometimes high-pitched and loud.
We believe that Yan Weiwen's story is not over yet, and a new movement will be played.
Let's wait and see the continuation of a legend.