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As a music superstar born in Harbin in 1939, Li Shuangjiang has shown extraordinary singing talent since he was a child. Whether it is in the neighborhood chatter or the recording of the local radio station, as long as they hear Li Shuangjiang's warm and beautiful singing, everyone is fascinated and admired.
Such an outstanding talent naturally attracted the attention of the people around him, and even Li Shuangjiang's father specially borrowed a radio radio, hoping that his son could improve his singing skills through a lot of practice.
It was this long-term unremitting effort that finally helped Li Shuangjiang successfully enter the Central Conservatory of Music. Here, his musical talent was further explored and developed.
Even more legendary, Li Shuangjiang was once favored by the famous music master Jiang Ying, who accepted him as a closed disciple and personally guided him. With the help of such mentors and friends, Li Shuangjiang's musical path has been a long way, even in the context of the times full of war and waves at that time, it has not stopped his footsteps.
After graduation, Li Shuangjiang went to Xinjiang, where he spent a very important stage of his life. In this era full of opportunities and challenges, Li Shuangjiang met his first girlfriend Ding Ying.
As a dance artist of the General Political Song and Dance Theater, Ding Ying is not only outstanding, but also flamboyant, passionate and energetic. It was such a young woman who attracted Li Shuangjiang, who was at the peak of his career, and the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand in 1966.
It can be said that this family environment, which is full of artistic cells, should create a superior and carefree life for the children of Li Shuangjiang and Ding Ying. However, the real world is far from that simple.
After the birth of his eldest son, Li He, Li Shuangjiang's family environment could no longer return to the calm and harmony of the past. is like the last "fig leaf" that has been torn apart, and the marital status of Li Shuangjiang and Ding Ying is unreservedly presented in front of everyone.
Since he was a child, Li He clearly felt that his father Li Shuangjiang did not seem to have sincere love for his mother Ding Ying. In order to save the family, Ding Ying had to gradually adjust the focus of her life and contribute to the family wholeheartedly.
And Li Shuangjiang is like a broken kite lost in the sky, and the distance between him and his family is getting farther and farther away.
As time passed, many contradictions in their marriage gradually surfaced, and their views on many major decisions were completely different. After a long period of family reconciliation, in the end, the two adults had to make a difficult decision: divorce.
And Li He was raised by his mother Ding Ying in this family environment. Regarding this divorce, Ding Ying always remained calm and rational, not to blame right and wrong, but to tell Li He how good and difficult his father Li Shuangjiang is, and how to love his children deeply.
Li He, who grew up in this family background, has always been regarded as a gentle, kind, and well-cultivated child. He never lost his affection for his father due to the trauma of his parents' divorce, on the contrary, he has always paid close attention to his father's life and career.
Even after his father Li Shuangjiang remarried and welcomed a stepmother Mengge and a younger brother Li Tianyi, Li He still did not show any dissatisfaction or jealousy.
He always pays attention to the growth of his younger brother Li Tianyi, and feels very sad and tormented by his younger brother's various misbehaviors. It is this kind of brother-like care and love that makes Li He and his younger brother Li Tianyi form a world-wide difference in life trajectory.
Just when Li He grew into a child with a strong heart and a sense of responsibility, Li Shuangjiang's life also took a major turn. In 1987, the 49-year-old Li Shuangjiang met his dream lover Dream Pigeon for the first time in a class.
At that time, Li Shuangjiang was often full of seats, and his popularity was hot, and he was deeply respected and loved by the majority of students. As an excellent music student, Mengge felt unsatisfied after listening to this class, and she was reluctant to leave until the bell rang at the end of the class.
Dream Pigeon's soft and beautiful singing voice is like a natural sound, and the performance is very infectious, attracting the audience to applaud again and again. Since then, Mengge and Li Shuangjiang have been inseparable on campus, as close as lovers.
Finally, during an outdoor activity, when everyone reached the top of the mountain, Li Shuangjiang suddenly stopped and announced loudly: "I have decided to spend the rest of my life hand in hand with Dream Pigeon!" In this way, in the warm call of the teacher and the student, Li Shuangjiang and Mengge entered the palace of marriage.
After the pain of two miscarriages, the 30-year-old Mengge finally gave birth to a healthy baby boy for the 57-year-old Li Shuangjiang in 1990 - Li Tianyi.
Since then, Li Tianyi has been living in a warmer, which has further inspired Li Shuangjiang, who has been absent for a long time, to dote on his son. Li Shuangjiang, who is at the peak of his career, regards this precious son who is adding Ding in his later years as a treasure and takes good care of him.
At the same time, Li Tianyi has shown a strong interest and talent in music and sports. At the age of four, he had already studied piano with a renowned piano educator; At the age of eight, his calligraphy and painting attainments were also guided by masters; What's even more amazing is that Li Tianyi, who is only ten years old, has successfully ranked among the national ice hockey teams.
Under the influence of such a family environment and educational resources, Li Tianyi is undoubtedly a talented boy who has sprung up.
However, the good times did not last long. When Li Tianyi's 14th birthday came, Li Shuangjiang waved his hand and bought an out-of-print sports car for him with his daughter, so as to condone some of his son's wayward behavior.
Li Tianyi gladly accepted this expensive gift, and personally modified and upgraded the vehicle, which was quite satisfying.
However, one day in 2011, when Li Tianyi was driving the sports car on the road, he got out of the car and clashed with the driver in front of him because of his dissatisfaction, and finally forcibly pulled the other person out of the car and beat him.
After treatment in the hospital, Li Tianyi's anger was calmed down. It was expected that this incident would be a wake-up call for Li Tianyi, but fate was unpredictable, and in February 2013, a sudden cyber bomb once again caused a global shock.
The occurrence of this tragedy has aroused strong concern and condemnation from all walks of life. What is outrageous is that at this critical moment, Li Tianyi's mother------ music educator Ms. Mengge, actually denied it in every possible way in an interview with the media, slandering the victim for taking the initiative to seduce Li Tianyi, making Li Tianyi unable to control himself, but her son was innocent, and blamed the woman for being too seductive.
Mengge never even expressed the slightest regret for the victim, let alone publicly apologized. This dispute also brought out Li Tianyi's sister Ding Ying and uncle Li He, which was also their little-known public appearance before, which had a great shock to public opinion.
Time flies, and it's fleeting. Years have passed, Li Tianyi has been imprisoned for his crimes, while Li He, who is also the son of Li Shuangjiang, has faced all this in a completely different way.
Regarding Li Tianyi's various misdeeds, Li He did not accuse his father Li Shuangjiang of connivance, but took the initiative to go to the hospital and take care of his sick father and stepmother.
Years of care and service have comforted Li Shuangjiang, who has been deeply affected, and has also allowed Li He to occupy an important position in his father's heart and feel very cordial.
This kind of world-wide contrast of fates can't help but make people wonder: What is the reason why the two brothers, who are both the sons of Li Shuangjiang, have embarked on such a disparity in life? Looking back on the growth process of the two, it is really embarrassing.
Born into a family of talented artists, Li He was supposed to have a carefree childhood and youth. However, the parents' marital conflicts and eventual divorce brought great trauma to the child's psyche.
But even in this difficult environment, Li He was still able to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, not to blame his father, but to take the initiative to care for and love him. This kind of kindness and responsibility is undoubtedly touching.
In contrast, the younger brother Li Tianyi enjoyed it can be said to be smooth sailing. Since he was a child, he has been pampered by his father Li Shuangjiang, receiving top educational resources, and his quality in all aspects is far beyond ordinary people.
However, this pampered child is lost in the whirlpool of material and pleasure, constantly breaking the law and hurting others. Even at the critical moment when family conflicts were on the verge of erupting, his mother Mengge failed to give due education and guidance, but instead slandered and justified the victims, which was outrageous.
However, to completely resolve the conflict in this family, I am afraid it will take longer and effort. For Li Tianyi's actions, Li Shuangjiang was undoubtedly heartbroken, and even fell into despair for a while.
However, at this time, Li He, the eldest son who has always cared about his father, carefully avoided the accusations against his younger brother, and instead tried to comfort his father and share this heavy burden with him.
Li He clearly knew that even though his younger brother had committed such a serious crime, his father still had a deep affection for him. As the eldest son, Li He also understands that he has a responsibility to help his father through this difficult time.
So, he often went to the hospital to visit Li Shuangjiang, who was paralyzed in bed, patiently took care of his father's daily life and diet, and did his best to soothe his father's scarred heart.
Such care and dedication undoubtedly comforted the painful Li Shuangjiang. Although the Li family suffered great trauma, the actions of the eldest son Li He successfully resolved the contradictions within the family, so that Li Shuangjiang gradually came out of the haze.
Li Shuangjiang was naturally furious at what his son Li Tianyi did, but under the careful care of his eldest son Li He, Li Shuangjiang finally chose to forgive and tolerate.
The passage of time finally allowed this originally broken family to find the strength to reunite. Even if it suffered a huge blow, as long as there is a kind and responsible eldest son like Li He, the Li family will be able to get out of the haze and regain happiness sooner or later.
It may take a long time and a lot of effort to do this, but as long as there is love, all contradictions will be resolved.