Tang Longjian remembers very well that on the afternoon of October 8, 1999, he made a mistake that he still can't forgive himself: in order to play cards, he lost his own son!
Even if he called the police at the first time, his son disappeared into the vast sea of people as if he had evaporated from the world.
For so many years, he has been decadent and escaped, but the loss of his son has always been like a needle in his heart.
Tang Longjian, who was reinvigorated, tried every means, and finally even appeared on CCTV's "Waiting for Me" family search program, and with the help of all walks of life, he finally found his son. What's even more surprising is that now his son is walking with him!
How did Tang Longjian's son get lost? What kind of twists and turns has the lost son experienced over the years?
Today, I will clear the fog for everyone and restore the truth of the year!
The son lost it and couldn't accept the facts, so he went to an Internet café to play games to evade responsibility
As a parent, because of his carelessness, his son was abducted, Tang Longjian couldn't forgive himself at all!
In that era when communication was not developed, his two-year-old son was taken away by traffickers, and this time it was more than ten years, and in countless dark nights, Tang Longjian couldn't easily close his eyes.
Because he was afraid that in his dream, he would see his son with that lovely face on his head, shouting "Dad" again and again!
Even though Tang Longjian walked all over the streets and alleys of the village, posted missing notices, and asked for help from all walks of life, he could not find his son in the city of Xi'an.
During the Chinese New Year that year, other people's homes were full of lively reunions, but Tang Longjian's home was cold and lifeless, and their son's loss made their family almost collapse, Tang Longjian couldn't accept this fact at all!
In order to escape the responsibility he coped with, Tang Longjian, who was only in his twenties at the time, chose to escape from real life by playing video games to numb his uncovered scar.
Tang Longjian often didn't go home for a few days, and he stayed in the Internet café all night playing games until he was exhausted, and he was about to collapse physically and mentally.
He was never able to face his wife, and even if she found an Internet café, he chose to turn a blind eye. At that time, in order to make a living, my wife had to smile at customers, but in fact, she was already overwhelmed.
The son was lost, the couple became strangers, Tang Longjian's wife missed her son too much, had a nervous breakdown and wanted to find a short time, and even wrote a suicide note!
The son was lost, and the family was scattered. At night, Tang Longjian would always think of all the things that happened on the day his son went missing, like a tree rooted in his heart, and he couldn't pull it out at all!
I forgot the time when I chatted with my friends and played cards, but I lost my son
On the afternoon of October 8, 1999, the sun was just breezy and dry, Tang Longjian took his two-year-old son Tang Cong and walked out of the house to play as usual, and even on the way back, the two of them were still unsatisfied.
When he was going home, Tang Longjian and his son happened to pass by his cousin and cousin's restaurant, and Tang Longjian, who was on a whim, wanted to go in and say hello.
There were two children at the door of the hotel, Tang Longjian and their parents knew each other, so they also let go of their own Tang Cong's hand and let them go to play together.
At that time, Tang Longjian didn't think much about it, his son was accompanied by the children of acquaintances and friends, and he was at the door of his cousin's hotel, what could happen to his son?
I didn't care about my son, and I walked into the house and chatted with the chef in the restaurant, because the conversation was up and even played cards, and gradually left behind the fact that my son was still outside.
After two hours passed, I remembered that my son was still at the door of the hotel, and when I hurriedly walked out of the hotel to check, I found that my son was gone!
At this time, Tang Longjian understood the seriousness of the matter, and hurriedly asked the families of the two children, who knew that other people's children had already been taken away by their families, but their own children did not know where to go.
Tang Longjian, who was anxious, hurried home, but the child was not sent home, and when he heard the news, the whole family was like being struck by lightning, and hurriedly searched from house to house, but found nothing.
Every time he thinks of this scene, Tang Longjian is heartbroken, if it weren't for his own negligence, his son would not have left his side, and he would not have lived in a world of self-blame every day.
Obviously, at that time, he and his children were separated by a few rooms in a hotel, so where could a two-year-old child go, and could the family be reunited?
After learning the whereabouts of his son, the father repented and changed his decadence to become a rich man
Congcong's disappearance made Tang Longjian face what is called the real "wife separation". The feeling of powerlessness that calls the heavens and the earth is not spiritual, tortures him all the time!
The couple tried everything they could, just to see their son and hear their son's voice again, maybe God took pity on the miserable couple, or let the kind people tell them where their son was going in the end.
The couple posted a search notice from door to door, looking for them one by one, and finally met a fellow villager on a construction site, and finally knew where his son had gone from her mouth.
It turned out that the son couldn't find Tang Longjian at that time, and walked to the door of the University of Architecture and Technology while crying, at this time, the two young men saw that there was no one around their son, and after realizing that their son was lost, they told their son to help him find his mother.
At that time, the young Tang Cong was crying in a panic, so he asked the two of them to hold hands to find his mother, the child was too young to know that he had embarked on the road of being abducted and trafficked at this moment!
Hearing this news, Tang Longjian gritted his teeth even more, he hated these traffickers who separated his wife to the extreme!
Know the whereabouts of your son as soon as possible, but in the vast sea of people, when will you be able to find your son. For ten years, Tang Longjian has been living in a world of escape, giving up on himself.
Time will numb a person, but it will definitely not numb the heart of a father who has lost his son!
Tang Longjian, who has been decadent for many years, has even forgotten the memories of the child in his mind, and one day when he suddenly looked at his son's photos, suddenly time froze at that moment!
He began to think of everything his son had in his mind, he would think of his decadent self, he would think of his tired wife, all of this, the responsibility was caused by him, and at this moment he completely woke up.
Although his son was not by his side, Tang Longjian regained his confidence at this time, he believed that his son would return to his side one day, and he always believed that that day would come.
He wants his son to know: you will come home and we will all be better!
After regaining his confidence, Tang Longjian decided to discuss with his cousin to open a restaurant together.
Almost wherever someone is needed to work, Tang Longjian will appear, and during that time, Tang Longjian has become more and more aware of the difficulties of his wife in his decadent time.
Tang Longjian tried to communicate with his wife, although his wife also hated him, but life still had to go on, in order to wait for his son to come back, seeing that Tang Longjian was on the right track a little bit, he also chose to forgive him.
In this way, the man who used to only hide in the Internet café to escape life and escape the facts, returned all the love he owed to his son to his family.
After years of hard work, Tang Longjian has become a shareholder of more than 20 restaurants and has become a billionaire worth tens of millions.
The career went well, the family became harmonious again, and the couple even ushered in a new love crystallization of their daughter. But the absence of his son is still the biggest scar in his heart.
After their son was lost, the family moved to the same place where they lost their son and never left for more than 20 years.
After the family became rich, there were more ways to find the son, and in order to find the son who had been lost for 24 years, Tang Longjian even took the family to appear on the CCTV "Waiting for Me" program.
Will their family finally be reunited?
Knock on the door of hope and finally return to the embrace of the family!
The hard work paid off, and with the help of the program team, more and more people joined the action to help Tang Longjian find his son's footprints.
According to the missing person notice posted by Tang Longjian on the platform:
The son's name is Tang Cong, he was only about two years old when he was lost, he was wearing a red sweater when he was lost that day, and the lower half of his body was paired with a key yellow wool pants, and his son had a round face and single eyelids, and was abducted by two traffickers.
These important clues immediately made the police also start to investigate, but in Xi'an, Shaanxi, there were no valuable clues.
It wasn't until 2018 that Tang Longjian suddenly received a call from the police that he finally made a major breakthrough!
In Xinyang, Henan Province, there is a child named Ni Zheng whose characteristics are very consistent with Tang Cong, and after going to Ni Zheng's place to take blood samples for genetic comparison, Tang Cong, who has been lost for more than 20 years, was finally recovered.
On the stage of the show, after Tang Cong appeared on the stage, the audience found that he looked exactly like his father Tang Longjian, and immediately made the pair cry with joy, and the long-lost son was finally recovered, and the stone hanging on his heart finally fell to the ground.
When asked about Tang Cong's experience over the years, they knew that they couldn't make up for the debt they owed to their son in this life!
After being abducted, Tang Cong was sold to his adoptive parents in Xinyang, Henan, and in his adoptive parents' house, Tang Cong never felt the warmth of his family, perhaps he had long understood that he might not belong to this family.
When I was a teenager, I entered the society early and worked hard, and I suffered a lot. But to everyone's surprise, Tang Cong actually inherited his father's talent and became a chef!
epilogue
After decades of searching for his son, Tang Longjian finally knew that the most important mission of a man is to take responsibility!
Now that the family is finally reunited, I hope that the sins they have suffered and suffered with each other over the years can make them complain to each other, and I also hope that the children who have been lost all day can return to the arms of their biological parents!
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Resources:
"19 Years Ago, I Lost My Son, I Found My Son and Wanted to Say to Him Dad Was Wrong"-CCTV [Waiting for Me] Program-2019-03-13
Text/Editor: Lucky Chubby