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A family happiness index is crucial for children.
Nowadays, there are still many children who are depressed, introverted, and rebellious, and these children also suffer from the pain brought by the family, which has an impact on the children's psychology.
In terms of the importance of family, children's mental health is often the most easily affected, so creating a good family environment is key, and parents also play an important role.
There are 3 types of families that are not treated by the baby, and parents should also self-check to rule out these situations to avoid affecting the mental health of their children, and don't take it seriously.
1. Families who are prone to depression in their children
Depressed children are often overstimulated and cannot decide on these things themselves.
Domestic violence is common in life, whether it is parental violence or violence committed against children, which can cause children to be extremely depressed.
After all, children are young and may not have good expression skills to tell their grievances, and there is another situation that is afraid of being hurt and chooses to be silent, and after a long time, such children are prone to depression.
Therefore, the family should be harmonious and loving, so that the family will not be psychologically traumatized to the children.
2. Families that are prone to inferiority complex in children
Excessive requirements for children and lack of family can easily cause children to have excessive inferiority.
Some children have low self-esteem because they can't meet their parents' expectations of themselves.
Some children are single-parent families, and they may have low self-esteem in front of children of the same age.
Some parents always like to expose their children's shortcomings, so that the child completely loses face, such a child will also have extreme inferiority, so the child should encourage more, do not belittle their children for a while.
3. Families that are prone to rebellious children
Excessive interference with the child's privacy will cause the child to rebel
After the child enters primary school, parents are always suspicious and create anxiety for the child, and they are afraid that the child will fall in love early or make bad friends, so they always interfere with the child's privacy and ask some questions that make the child disgusted, and the child will slowly become rebellious.
In particular, left-behind children are more likely to have the above problems because they lack the care of their parents and the warmth of their families. The way grandparents take care of their babies is far from modernization, so children's mental health should be paid more attention.