"Do you have people around you who are highly educated but have a miserable life?"
More than 10,000 messages were asked in one sentence:
After graduating from Peking University with a doctorate, he went crazy and couldn't work and live a normal life;
985 bachelor's and master's degrees, with a monthly salary of more than 3,000;
211 graduated with bachelor's and master's degrees and worked as community workers;
985 bachelor's degree with a monthly salary of 3,000......
It turns out that there are so many people with high education but living a miserable life.
This doesn't seem to match our usual perception, isn't it true that the better your grades are in school, the better you will be as an adult?
Many people around them have obviously changed their fate because of the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, from rural children to first-tier cities, found good jobs, bought houses and cars, and lived a middle-class life that they could not imagine before.
The vast majority of people educate their children in this way: study hard, strive to be admitted to a good university, and then find a good job and live a happy life from now on!
If the difference between the ideal and the reality is too great, why do you have to work hard to roll the baby.
From the message, I saw that the experience of a few people was really miserable, I felt distressed while reading, and I wanted to hammer my thigh: alas, it should have been a smooth life, but I broke it all my life!
I, as a reader, feel this way, their parents are probably going to break their hearts, right?
Netizen "The relief of the imperial court has come down" said:
I'm male, and my education is not high, but it's definitely miserable. Bachelor's and master's degree 211, a sub-provincial urban native, graduated and went ashore directly in his hometown and city, worked for a year, resigned and went to Xinjiang to find a partner to live a small life. In the northwest for two years, during the written examination through an ordinary prefecture-level city in the northwest civil servant written examination, the subject's family felt that this is a small place without development, I directly gave up the opportunity to interview, what is more bloody is that after breaking up, after returning to his hometown, he joined a branch of a central enterprise, and then joined the headquarters of the central enterprise a year later, and then resigned and went home, and is now a hard-pressed community worker. Looking back, everything today is the stupidity and stubbornness of the past, I am such a fool!
This comrade, you can't hit the south wall once, you must hit it twice or three times! You really rely on your "strength" to play a good hand of cards to a pulp!
If you knew this was the case, why did you spend time and effort studying for a master's degree in the first place? Your parents spent half their lives laying down the country, and you paid it back in a few years.
I can't help but think of a story about how the old lady asked the old man to take a cow to the market to sell, but the old man couldn't settle accounts and couldn't bear the fools of others, so he exchanged "cow" for "sheep", "sheep" for "chicken", and finally went home with a bag of "rotten apples".
There is also a postdoctoral girl at Peking University, because she met someone unladylike, after getting married and having children, she lived a miserable life, but fortunately, she woke up and was about to get rid of:
This girl is not only a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University, but her parents are both university professors.
The ex-husband's conditions are actually very good: he is the only child of a postdoctoral fellow of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and his emotions are very stable.
But the quality is too poor. He found that the girl and her parents were very good, so he bargained everywhere: not only did he not have a house when he got married, he didn't even have a wedding, and he didn't pay for living expenses after marriage. The mother-in-law planned to make a down payment to buy a house in Beijing, but her in-laws were still crying poor, saying that she was laid off and had no money, and her father-in-law would not give her money, and the girl was born prematurely by her crying.
The girl's bad days are not over: her husband found a teaching position at C9 in the south, and she also found the same but with a different major, he didn't let her go, and let her rent a house to live with his mother in Beijing. The mother-in-law said that she couldn't cook, the child had just been born at the time, she was very shocked, her husband forced her to compromise, first hit her head against the wall, then self-harm, jumped off the building, the girl was frightened, had to take the child back to her parents' house....... Later, the two finally secretly hired a lawyer to sue.
Fortunately, as long as the girl gets out of this marriage, the future should still be good.
Actually, I also have a relative who is quite highly educated, and later mixed up quite badly. In the 90s, a graduate of Zhejiang University, at that time, the work package was assigned, but he disdained the work assigned by the Personnel Bureau, resigned to start a business in the south, but because of emotional intelligence and ability, he failed repeatedly, and finally accepted the ordinary after his 40s, and found a job with a monthly salary of several thousand.
We always think that a diploma is like a magic pass, which can pave a smooth and unhindered path for our life. However, while a diploma is important, it is not the key to everything, and it cannot open all doors.
Academic qualifications can improve a person's cultural level and prove a person's IQ level, but it cannot fully measure a person's overall level.
A high degree of education does not necessarily lead to a happy life, and a low education level does not necessarily mean that life is embarrassing, and some people have not gone to much school, but they are also very happy and make a lot of money.
Life is multi-dimensional and complex, with outstanding pure intelligence and incompatible other abilities, resulting in "serious deviation", and the total score will not be high.
The real success of life requires us to use quality, wisdom and courage to overcome obstacles in order to reach the other side of success!
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