I believe that the TV series "Family with Children" must be familiar to everyone, and in this TV series, a large number of stars have been popular.
When the popular traffic xiaosheng Yang Zi, with "fragrant honey sinks like frost" and became famous, since then smooth transformation, costume drama is also soft.
And Zhang Yishan also proved that although he is young, he is also a powerful faction with superb acting skills with many popular dramas such as "Residual Sin" and "Seven Me".
Song Dandan, not to mention, the resident guest of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in the 90s has not diminished in popularity and has always appeared in the audience's field of vision.
And what we want to talk about today is the amiable, kind and kind "grandmother" Sun Guitian in "Family with Children".
Speaking of Sun Guitian's growth experience, it can also be regarded as a legend.
The little girl is just growing up
In 1942, Sun Guitian was born in a wealthy merchant in Hebei, and his father had been engaged in business in other places for many years, so the women around him were also changed and changed, and her father had three wives.
However, none of the three wives bore a son for his father, except that the third wife gave birth to a daughter, and this Sun Guitian was the daughter of these three wives.
However, when she was 2 years old, her biological mother died prematurely due to illness, and she has been raised in the name of her eldest wife ever since.
As the only daughter in the family, Sun Guitian naturally set her love from an early age, and all the people in the family were obedient to her.
But when she was 10 years old, the days when she came to open her mouth suddenly came to an abrupt end.
My father, the only source of income for the family, died of illness.
After that, the business of Sun Guiying's family was also worse than a day, and gradually the family became increasingly declining.
In less than two years, the family's savings were spent on nothing, and the eldest wife was also pampered and accustomed to this life, and she would not do any housework, so Sun Guitian's food and clothing were a big problem.
The well-meaning leader occasionally saw her and would give her some food, and the eldest lady also earned some money by helping others with children, but this money could only solve the problem of the moment.
Sun Guitian thought that this was not a long-term solution, and she decided to earn money to find a way out.
At this time, his uncle, who was singing opera in the northeast, sent good news, saying that there was a literary troupe in beidahuang that was recruiting students, and asked Sun Guitian if he would like to try it.
Sun Guitian thought in his heart: Learning is also a skill, and it is not a bad thing to try it.
Therefore, Sun Guitian left Beijing and embarked on the road of learning art in northeast China.
In the northeast, Sun Guitian's uncle taught her about opera by hand.
Although the learning is also ambiguous, Sun Guitian's appearance when he was a child is very outstanding, and a pair of bright eyes look very spirited.
In this way, Sun Guitian was successfully admitted to the literary and art propaganda team, and she was 16 years old that year.
It was also in the troupe that she met her first husband, Teacher Yan.
Sun Guitian's bumpy love history
Teacher Yan in the troupe is 6 years older than Sun Guitian, and has a good reputation in the troupe, and the important thing is to take great care of Sun Guitian.
The people in the group saw that Teacher Yan was interested in Sun Guitian, and they also helped to match up in the open and in the dark, and after a long time, the two were together.
Soon after they were together, the two reached the point of talking about marriage, but because Sun Guitian's parents had long passed away, they could only let their uncle help preside over the marriage.
The uncle saw that Teacher Yan was mature and stable, so he agreed to this marriage, so Sun Guitian married Teacher Yan.
After marriage, Sun Guitian gave birth to a daughter, and when the daughter was 8 years old, she gave birth to a son.
Although the two often participate in the performances in the troupe, their income is pitifully small, and their lives are difficult to maintain.
Maybe it is the first time to get married, Sun Guitian knows very little about the love of his children,
She didn't know how to please her husband, and Teacher Yan complained more and more about her over time.
At this moment, the news came from the eldest wife who was far away in Beijing, the eldest wife was sick and paralyzed in bed, and there was no one around to take care of her, hoping that Sun Guitian would come back to take care of her.
After hearing this news, Sun Guitian hurriedly took his children and rushed back to Beijing.
She looked at the eldest wife lying on the hospital bed, and when she thought of the time when she and the eldest wife were dependent on each other as a child, she burst into tears.
She kept taking care of it with all her heart, and two months passed, and she was back in the northeast.
After returning to the northeast, she still sang on stage and took care of her children behind the stage as before, and gradually she got tired of such days.
She felt that there was no hope in this way, and even less hope for the future of her children.
Not long after, Sun Guitian caught up with the action of focusing on construction, and the literary and art troupe he and her husband belonged to was also dissolved.
Since then, Sun Guitian's impulse to return to Beijing has become more and more intense, and more importantly, she has not been able to rest assured that her wife who is lying sick in bed has become more and more intense.
However, her husband did not want to go to Beijing, and the contradictions between the two became increasingly large, and finally chose a peaceful divorce.
After the divorce, Sun Guitian returned to Beijing with her children, perhaps because of her husband's guilt, she chose to leave the house and promised her husband that I would take care of you for the rest of my life and would not leave you alone.
And this promise of Sun Guitian has been kept until now.
Although divorced, Sun Guitian is also a good woman who knows how to be grateful, and when her former husband, Teacher Yan, was sick and hospitalized in her 80s, she brought Teacher Yan back to Beijing for treatment and took care of her personally.
After returning to Beijing, Sun Guitian took care of his children while taking care of his wife who was bedridden, and his life was difficult.
At the most difficult time, Sun Guitian met the second man in her life, "Dalin".
Da lin was also a member of the literary troupe, a native of Beijing, and was also very close to Sun Guitian's children.
The more difficult times the more they need the warmth of others, the arrival of Dalin made Sun Guitian's heart full of gratitude, so the two soon got married.
After marriage, Sun Guitian also lived a stable life, and her husband Da lin also regarded her ex-husband's children as his own.
A family of four and Hemei, Sun Guiying will quietly wait for her to eat together every time after work, Sun Guiying does not mention how happy she was at that time.
But it didn't take long for such a day to undergo earth-shaking changes.
Two years later, Sun Guiying gave birth to a daughter for Dalin, and the arrival of this child made Dalin's attitude towards the previous two children change rapidly.
This daughter's name is "Yangyang", And When Dalin eats, he will pick meat to Yangyang, while the remaining two children will just eat vegetables, so obvious eccentricity makes Sun Guitian's heart full of resentment.
What's more excessive is that over time, Da lin more and more likes to stay at night, and he is also infected with the bad disease of loving flowers and grass, and treating himself is even more cold,
The two often made a big fuss about this, quarreled incessantly, and as the days went on, Sun Guitian gradually chilled his heart.
She didn't want to live such a dark life, she chose to divorce Obayashi, and after the divorce, she once again chose to get out of the house, and the difference from the last time was only one more daughter.
Sun Guitian was alone with three children in a room of less than 8 square meters, and the breakdown of the family made her feel physically and mentally exhausted.
Without these three children in those days, Sun Guitian might have chosen not to be in this world.
Two marriages and two departures, so that Sun Guitian has a great resistance to marriage, she decided not to talk about feelings, bent on earning money.
Sun Guitian's entrepreneurial road
It is better to rely on who is better than to rely on yourself, after having an idea, Sun Guitian immediately went to practice.
Sun Guitian found that handmade dolls were very popular at that time, and almost one girl had one, so she went to the textile market to select a few pieces of cloth.
After getting the cloth, she began to think hard, and also drew a design plan, and soon she made her first handmade doll.
She ran around with her finished products, and the leader of the last handmade products company was very satisfied, and praised Sun Guitian's ingenuity.
Sun Guiying became a production instructor of the manufacturer with his own efforts.
Her life slowly improved.
In 1984, she mortgaged her only vehicle, motorcycle, and added a total of 2,000 yuan of savings, and she opened a store.
But this time she opened not a handmade doll shop, but a greeting card shop.
In fact, in the early days of the store, Sun Guitian sold everything, there was no unified theme in the whole store, and few people in the past came in to buy.
Until one day, a businessman from out of town came to the store, and he asked Sun Guitian if he could help sell my greeting cards? If you sell well, you will also get a commission.
Sun Guitian was also kind, so she responded with a mouthful, and she did not expect that the greeting card was sold out as soon as it was on the shelves, and the speed of money was very fast.
She entered the greeting cards one by one, and when she earned money, she would return the principal to the foreign businessman, rain or shine.
Soon Sun Guiying's shop became very popular in Beijing, and the number of guests who came and went was endless, and the degree of popularity even alarmed the police.
Gradually, the story of Sun Guitian alone with three children was also quickly spread, and some media also rushed from other places to interview her.
Through media reports, Sun Guitian has also become a small celebrity in Beijing, and she also took the opportunity to open several greeting card branches.
Slowly Sun Guiying made more and more money, and she felt that it was especially important to have a home of her own, so she spent 26,000 yuan to buy her first set of courtyards.
After buying the first set of courtyards, she also thought about her children, thinking that in the future, when she was gone, her children would be able to have their own residence.
In this way, Sun Guitian bought a second set of Beijing courtyards.
After moving to her new home, she met her neighbor Fu Biao, who was not yet famous, but a young man who loved to visit the door.
After getting along for a long time, Fu Biao often went to Sun Guitian's house to rub rice and eat, and Sun Guitian slowly regarded Fu Biao as his son.
Later, Fu Biao became acquainted with Feng Xiaogang and became a well-known star in this alley through filming film and television dramas.
With the fame of Fu Biao, it brought Sun Guiying a change towards the road of acting.
Sun Guitian first entered the show business circle
In 1997, Feng Xiaogang encountered a small problem when preparing "Party A and Party B", because he needed to find a courtyard for filming.
It just so happens that Fu Biao is also one of the actors in this movie, and he made an opinion to Feng Xiaogang, that is, the courtyard where Sun Guiying lived.
Borrowing Sun Guitian's courtyard, there is also a problem, the actor who plays the "second uncle" in the play has not yet been found, just at this time, As a director, Feng Xiaogang saw Sun Guitian.
Sun Guitian has sung opera, and he does not understand everything about performance, and his speech and image are very much in line with the role of "second aunt" in the movie.
However, Sun Guitian refused at first, because her greeting card shop had been very successful, and in the end, it was Fu Biao who persuaded her to talk badly.
In the same year, "Party A and Party B" was released, and Sun Guitian also officially entered the acting road, when she was 52 years old.
In the play, Sun Guitian and Fu Biao are known as mother and son, plus Ben is a neighbor, so the two have formed an indissoluble relationship.
In 2002, the TV series "Family with Children" was released, and Sun Guitian played "Liu Xing's grandmother" in the play, although he had some doting on "Liu Xing", but he never indulged.
Until now, during the summer vacation and winter vacation, you can still see the figure of "Family with Children" on the TV.
It is also through this role that Sun Guitian became a "grandmother professional household", and since then the film has continued.
In 2005, a bad news reached Sun Guitian's ears, and his son Fu Biao died of terminal cancer.
This news made Sun Guitian sad, she would dream of Fu Biao coming to find herself, and she had already regarded Fu Biao as her own child.
Compared with her son Fu Biao, Sun Guitian's own children are like jackals, tigers and leopards, they only care about her money, but they do not care about her life.
Sun Guitian's property turmoil
At first, Sun Guitian thought that his son was getting older, and it would be inconvenient for this man to live with three women, so he bought a house for his son to let him move out.
After the son moved out, he quickly made a girlfriend, and in the blink of an eye, it was time to get married.
Sun Guitian thought that the previous house was too small as a marriage room, so he changed a three-bedroom house for his son.
This eldest daughter saw that she had bought two apartments for her brother, and for a while she did not fight and came out, and it just so happened that she also talked about a boyfriend, and she was clamoring to let Sun Guitian buy a house for herself.
In desperation, Sun Guitian had to buy a three-bedroom apartment for his eldest daughter.
The son and the eldest daughter have already started a family, Sun Guitian's side only left the younger daughter to accompany her, the previous things made Sun Guiying also chill,
In order to avoid causing trouble in the future because of the house, Sun Guitian decided to make a will in advance.
Because her son and eldest daughter already had a house, she assigned another courtyard to her younger daughter.
However, this decision aroused strong opposition from the son and eldest daughter, who were too eccentric in their duties, and the inner courtyard had already appreciated by hundreds of millions.
In this way, Sun Guitian lived in quarrels every day and did not sleep peacefully for a day.
After some time, she first took the will and notarized it, and then told the children: "Whoever of you is good to me and who is the most sensible and obedient, I will give more to whom." ”
As soon as these words came out, the eldest daughter completely stopped doing it, and in a fit of anger, she actually severed the mother-daughter relationship with Sun Guitian, and the two had no contact after that.
During this period, Sun Guitian also starred in many TV series such as "Inverted Door" and "The Third Happiness".
Although the family situation is full of situations, she also adjusts her mentality to face it calmly in the face of her acting career.
In 2011, Sun Guitian also joined Guo Donglin in the Spring Festival Gala of Liaoning Satellite TV, and their performance of the skit "Willing" made the audience laugh.
Wave after wave of unevenness, Sun Guitian's son was diagnosed with malignant tumors in the same year.
Through drug treatment, my son's condition also slowly improved.
However, the possibility of recurrence of this disease in the later stage is very large, and Sun Guitian's son will not be able to escape this fate.
When Sun Guitian was 76 years old, his son left him completely.
The scene of the white-haired man sending the black-haired man appeared in front of her again, and sun Guitian slowly became silent.
In the three years after his son's death, Sun Guitian was depressed whenever he thought of his own experience.
The eldest daughter did not have contact with herself because of the family property, and the son also died young due to the torture of illness, and now only the younger daughter is left to rely on herself.
At one point, she called herself a sinner and regretted buying so many houses.
It was not until three years later that Sun Guitian gradually opened his heart and became more and more cheerful.
In fact, many people around her have also suggested that she spend the rest of her life looking for a wife, perhaps because the two failed marriage experiences made her no longer believe in feelings, so she refused one by one.
Today, Sun Guitian is also 79 years old, but she is still active in front of the TV screen, and she conveys the warmth of the elders to the audience through her identity as an actor.
Now, in addition to filming, she will also cultivate her emotions by painting and practicing calligraphy.
And will also humbly ask Mr. Zhao Pulao about the knowledge of calligraphy, through diligence to make up for the clumsiness, now in terms of writing, she has also been praised by many celebrity painters.
epilogue
Throughout Sun Guitian's present life, the tragic encounter of two marriages and two divorces in the first half of her life made her strive to be strong, but when she owned more than one property, she also caused a series of troubles.
The children's endless struggle for inheritance eventually led to the rebellion of Sun Guitian, and the ancient rare year ushered in the misery of the white-haired people sending the black-haired people, and for the children, Sun Guitian was not ashamed.
As the saying goes, "Money is something outside the body", proper money can bring happiness, and if it is like Ho Hongyan, it will bring endless suffering.
I hope that Sun Guitian's predecessors can be carefree in the future days, and I also look forward to a better presentation of works, come on!