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Ms. Li Ruiying, known as "CCTV's most beautiful Chinese face", with her outstanding performance without a single mistake in her 28-year career, is deeply portrayed in the hearts of the audience and has become their unforgettable youth memories.
However, this incomparably glamorous girl has caused a lot of controversy and questions because of a past incident.
Time jumped back to that quiet afternoon in 1998, and Li Ruiying was devoting himself to the recording of the show. Suddenly, a phone call that sounded like a bolt from the blue shattered the silence: her beloved son had fallen from a great height and his life was in danger!
As a mother, she never expected such a heavy blow. What is even more heartbreaking is that after this sudden disaster, the son angrily erased his mother's name from the family member column, severing the connection between mother and son.
In the face of overwhelming accusations on the Internet, "How can such a cold-blooded and ruthless person be called a mother?" Li Ruiying chose to remain silent. She was well aware of her mistakes, and her heart was filled with endless pain and remorse.
Since graduating from Beijing Broadcasting Institute, Li Ruiying has always adhered to the front line of the TV industry and firmly pursued her dream of hosting. As early as 1984, she had the honor to serve as the host of the live broadcast of the 35th anniversary of the National Day of the People's Republic of China.
Since then, with her excellent hosting talent and profound professionalism, Li Ruiying has successfully led many popular high-quality programs such as "The Big Family of the Motherland" and "Look at the Present Dynasty", which have been warmly praised by the audience.
She always has a keen grasp of every tiny detail, controls the overall situation, and hosts with ease, showing extremely high professional standards and steady typhoon.
It wasn't until 1986 that Li Ruiying finally ushered in the most brilliant moment of her life - joining the dream stage of CCTV. As a new anchor, with her perseverance and excellent professionalism, she quickly became one of the main lineups of CCTV's "News Network".
No matter when and where, she always shows people with a refreshed and energetic appearance, and has won the reputation of "CCTV's most beautiful national face".
28 years have passed, and for a long time, Ms. Li Ruiying has always faced various difficulties and challenges on the stage of life with that calm and calm temperament. This unswerving pursuit of her profession and strict professional ethics have made her flawless anchor career, which can be called brilliant! .
However, just as Ms. Li Ruiying's career was booming and her reputation was far and wide, she was facing an unprecedented severe test.
This is undoubtedly a difficult choice for any working woman. Fortunately, Ms. Li Ruiying's husband, Mr. Zhang Yuyan, gave her unwavering support and took the initiative to take care of the children, so that his wife could devote herself to the pursuit of her career without any worries.
Therefore, after the birth of her son, Ms. Li Ruiying devoted most of her time and energy to work. Since joining CCTV, she has been preparing for the broadcast from early in the morning until late at night, which shows how busy she is.
She was already exhausted in her own work, but after joining the iron-clad column of "News Network", her work burden reached the extreme.
In order to ensure the quality of the show, she has to put in a hard work that ordinary people can't imagine. From the planning of the program, the rehearsal to the final recording and broadcasting, Ms. Li Ruiying personally participated in it and handled everything in detail.
In comparison, she spends even less time with her son than the viewers who are addicted to TV dramas near her home.
Whenever her son's parent-teacher meetings or school activities are held, Ms. Li Ruiying can hardly attend in person, so she can only give this rare opportunity to her husband, Mr. Zhang Yuyan. Her son once said to her with tears in his eyes: "In my memory, my father is the person I see most often. ”
Hearing this, Ms. Li Ruiying felt deeply guilty, but she had no choice but to continue to devote herself to her work.
It wasn't until 1998 that tragedy occurred that shocked the whole country: her son unfortunately fell from a height and his life was in danger! At that time, Ms. Li Ruiying was during the recording of a CCTV program, and the sudden bad news was like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, making her dizzy and dizzy, and it was difficult for her to bear such a heavy blow for a while.
In an instant, her brain seemed to stop working, her body froze in the moment, and the microphone in her hand fell to the ground with a "bang". She realized with a painful heart that it was precisely because of the lack of care for her son for many years that led to this tragedy!"If only I could have spent more time with him...... her heart was full of endless remorse and self-blame, and she moistened her eyes again.
However, this sudden crisis also tested Li Ruiying's steadfast professionalism. She quickly adjusted her mood and solemnly said to the camera: "Please dial 120 without hesitation and send the child to the hospital for emergency treatment."
When I'm done with the work at hand, I'll rush to meet you as soon as I'm done" Although tears were already rolling in her eyes, when the show was officially broadcast, she still showed her usual calm, confident, and energetic attitude in front of the audience, ensuring the smooth progress of the whole show.
Until the end of the show, Li Ruiying galloped to the hospital like a horse that broke free, and witnessed the scene of her son's dying life, she finally couldn't suppress the grief in her heart, and tears rained down.
Fortunately, after the doctors' all-out treatment, her son was finally able to save his life, however, what made her even more unbearable was that the accusations against her on the Internet poured in: "failed mother", "blind spot of career", "indifferent and ruthless", etc. In the face of such strong criticism, Li Ruiying, who felt deeply guilty, chose to avoid it, because she deeply understood her mistakes.
That tragedy was like a wake-up call, completely waking up Li Ruiying from her long-term work loss. From then on, she was determined to devote more time and energy to her son and do her best to make up for her past negligence.
First of all, Li Ruiying began to drastically reduce her workload. Instead of being busy day and night as she used to, she spends as much time as possible with her family. In 2014, she even took the initiative to quit the pinnacle of her career "News Network" and devote herself to behind-the-scenes work such as program planning and directing, so as to free up more personal time.
At home, Li Ruiying wholeheartedly rebuilt family ties with her son. She takes care of her son's daily life, cooking delicious meals for him and washing and organizing his clothes.
Whenever the young son in the family is full of doubts and troubles, she will always show deep understanding and warm care, listen to every heartfelt outpouring of her son with great patience, and deeply analyze the most real emotional world in his heart.
Through such bits and pieces of affectionate communication, the long-term estrangement between their mother and son was gradually broken, and the mother-son family relationship regained that long-lost warmth.
What mother would not love her child deeply? And the reason why Li Ruiying has been criticized under the pressure of public opinion is that people only pay attention to her image of perseverance in her work, but ignore her eyes that were once soaked with tears.
Recalling those unbearable years, the sudden disaster brought her great pain that ordinary people could not bear. The merciless tricks of fate make her have to make a difficult choice between career and family.
Now, when she looks back on the past, Li Ruiying no longer has any regrets. However, the struggles and self-blame of those years still come to my heart from time to time, like unforgettable scars.
Whether it is the struggle in the career or the responsibility to the family, we often fail to achieve perfection on the road of pursuing the value of life. It's not easy to find balance in your life.
Li Ruiying used her life to profoundly interpret this cruel but true philosophy of life.