Preamble:
Recently, an article titled "After the Divorce, He Doesn't Like His Son Anymore" has caused a heated discussion on the Internet. The article describes the real experience of a divorced man who, after the divorce, gradually lost his affection for his son, and even some disgust. As soon as such a statement came out, it immediately attracted the attention and discussion of the majority of netizens, and many people expressed their shock and incomprehension about it, thinking that how could the relationship between father and son change because of divorce? So, what is the reason why divorced men no longer like their sons? Next, let's explore this topic together.
1. Why do divorced men dislike their sons?
In fact, it is not uncommon for a man to stop liking his son after a divorce, and there may be such examples around him. So, what exactly causes problems in the relationship between father and son?
1. Loss of family status and authority
Some divorced men may feel that they have lost their original status and authority in the family, and can no longer control the lives of the whole family as they used to. Especially in front of his son, he may not be able to get the respect and dependence he deserves, and as a result, his attitude towards his son will change, and even some disgust.
2. The resentment towards the ex-wife is transferred to the son
When the marriage breaks down, the man may be full of resentment and resentment towards his ex-wife, and after the divorce, this emotion will not disappear immediately, but may be transferred to the son. He may feel that his son's appearance has caused problems in his married life, and he may become disgusted with him.
3. Inability to handle your emotions
Divorce is a very painful thing for every family member, especially for children, and it can cause them a lot of psychological trauma. And some men may not be good at expressing and dealing with their emotions, and after experiencing a divorce, they may fall into great pain and be unable to adjust their state well, which will affect their attitude towards their son.
2. How to solve the problem of parent-child relationship
How should we deal with and solve problems in the father-son relationship?
1. Rebuild your life
Divorce is an opportunity for everyone to re-recognize and define themselves, and neither men nor women should be bothered and defined by divorce. Men should learn to accept and face their emotions, and at the same time know how to rebuild their lives and find their own new beginnings.
2. Treat your son's growth correctly
No matter what the situation, the child is the most innocent party, and they should not pay for the problems between their parents. Both fathers and mothers should treat their children's growth correctly, give them enough care and support, and let them grow up healthy and happy.
3. Proper communication and tables
Fathers should learn to listen to their children's thoughts and feelings, give them encouragement and support, and at the same time express their own opinions appropriately, so that children can understand and accept themselves.
Epilogue:
The relationship between father and son is very pure and beautiful, no matter what the situation, the father should give the child enough love and companionship. Even if you go through a divorce, you should not let your emotions affect your attitude towards your children, but learn to face and deal with your emotions correctly and give your children the most sincere love.