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There is a strange phenomenon in the countryside, where parents work hard to earn money and help their son marry a wife and have children, but the son is unable to support the family, and he has to rely on his parents to earn money after marriage. In the end, when the parents are old and can't do it, the daughter-in-law will choose to divorce, and the parents will continue to raise their grandchildren.
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In fact, in the city, there are also such "sons".
I used to have a colleague, graduated from college, an only child, tall and thin, a native of a small city, and his parents were both elementary school teachers. The unit has employee benefits, only a deposit of 50,000 yuan, you can book a house belonging to the county seat not far from the city, and he immediately ordered a set.
You said that when his salary is less than 1,500, how can he get this money?
The key is that this male colleague is not motivated, he is at ease every day, he has never considered changing jobs, and he uses his mobile phone to play online games every day.
It is also conceivable that if he does not rely on his parents after marriage, he will not be able to live at all. But after all, your parents can't care about you for a lifetime, they will eventually grow old one day, and when they are gone, how should such a man live? Imagine a woman facing her husband who is addicted to games every day, how can she be happy?
Why does this family model of "gnawing at parents" exist? Based on the conclusions of netizens, I have summarized the following points:
- The child is forced by his parents to get married and have children, but in fact, his mind is not mature, and he is not ready to build a small family at all;
- The parents were reluctant to let go, and the son became a mother's treasure;
- Personal ability and personality problems, unable to earn money, unable to take on the responsibility of supporting the family;
- failure of parental education;
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