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Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

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Last year, "The Long Season" became popular, and Qin Hao had another highlight role. Mrs. Yi Nengjing, who loves to write small essays, also wrote a sincere text for this drama, and also said that she would write about her long season at the age of 60.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

I don't know if the picture of this Weibo has triggered everyone's nostalgia, and the posts about Yu Chengqing Yi Nengjing's Be aesthetics have become a mess in the past few days.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

never expected that they had been divorced for many years, and one day they would be able to pass #beaesthetics##顶级高干文#再上热搜.

I spent a whole time snorting their bes aesthetics, and I also read Yi Nengjing's book "Last Words of Life and Death" about her relationship with Yu Chengqing.

Four words: Swing back to the bowels.

Yi Nengjing used to really love Yu Chengqing.

Her words are full of sincere and burning love.

Through her writing in the past few days, I have fallen in love with Yu Chengqing!

It's hard to imagine how much pain the person is in.

A handsome son from a family who is as gentle as jade + a young man from a humble background, who lost his father and bravely entered the entertainment industry. What kind of top entertainment industry article is this!

In her book, she wrote: "I believe you love me more, but you don't know that I am often flustered. When we have to separate, I always feel like people are empty. I read and read the newspaper I bought, knowing that it was impossible to find you, but I still thought about the way you would get up in the morning, take the newspaper, put on black-rimmed glasses and read, and then I noticed that I had your expression on my face. When I loved you, I wished I were you. ”

She wrote: "I was always afraid that I loved you too much and would make you proud. I'm afraid that when you know that you have owned me thoroughly, you will become uncherished. So the way I love you is always a little deliberately disgusted with you. When I think you're handsome and attractive, I'll deliberately squint my eyes and wrinkle my nose and say, "You're old." ”

She wrote: "I have always been infatuated with you, for so many years, I like your cheeks to be white and red, and to climb into a vein, and I also like the thin shoulder line of your thin body, but your thighs are so tight that when my fingers touch, I think of you jumping like a teenager when you exercise." ”

She wrote: "It's terrible, the world has you everywhere, New York has you, Los Angeles has you, France has you, Venice has you, whether you have been to the city with me or not, I will find you in places big and small, and think of you." ”

She wrote: "I like your hands to be short and square, I like the crooked corners of your mouth when you smile, and I like to smell your smell, like dry cheese with summer laundry." And your messy eyebrows, weeds grow into a jungle, and your eyes are like a lion king waiting to roar under this jungle, looking at the world to judge good and bad, and looking at me with tenderness or passion. ”

She wrote about holding hands for the first time: "I never thought that we would have a common home, and you have known each other for more than ten years, too much speculation and doubt, and chaotic words always fill the blue and yin sky, do you remember? That was the first time you held my hand." My hands are wide and slender, and yours are thick and stubby, but you hold me well, warm in the winter night. You are very clumsy in your words, and I am too happy to speak. The streetlights shine on the street for a long time, and the occasional wind blows and you hold me a little tighter. At that time, we never thought about ourselves many years later, and we didn't think about it forever. The road is straight, we walk slowly, how do we know that after many years, we have made a vow to go to the end of the day. ”

She wrote about the hasty wedding: On the night of the invitation, we didn't have a new room, we slept at your friend's house when you grew up, the heating rattled quietly, you were still noisy with them in the living room, I changed my clothes, I took off the flowers, the pink roses were the bouquets your friends gave me, and I put the flowers on my head on a temporary basis. I sat on the edge of the bed tiredly, and then you walked into the room and said, "I didn't know it was so cold in February." "You walked up to me and shook my hand, and we both had red eyes.

She wrote: I once asked you if I would dislike me because I was fat and ugly because I had a little life, but you replied to me: "Youth can be replaced, beauty can be replaced, passion may also be replaced......", you held my hand with firmness: "But only memories, no one can and cannot be replaced." ”

She wrote about her humility in love: "In order to be loved by you, I have worked hard to be motivated, trying to be close to your world. What I admire is untouchable, falling in love with you is destined to be a bitter love, I am drowning in bitterness and joy and sorrow. ”

She writes about the possessiveness in love: "When you cut your hair so refreshingly, I hate it so much that I will deliberately say, 'Do you cut it?' I can't see it......!" Although, perhaps, no one paid special attention. ”

She writes of his fear of falling in love with someone else: "Every time I think that humanity will one day die in a hundred years, the most direct thing that comes to my mind is that you will leave me and fall in love with someone else." Of course I'm sure you're going to grieve for a while, no, it's going to be a very long time, because we're so dependent on each other. But I also know that you love children so much, and in the end you will accept others, and then I will slowly be forgotten by you, and you will love your second woman deeply. Just thinking about it makes me speechless...... So I thought we had to have our own children soon, and there had to be more, at least three. I am like a woman in the old society, I believe that children are equal to my status, I am reluctant to give you to anyone, and our children will have half of our souls, so you can always watch me, protect me, and love me. Thinking of this, I almost can't help but want to wake you up immediately from your deep sleep and say, "Let's have a baby!"

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Sadly, they really separated later. And Yu Chengqing really accepted other women, and later really had three children.

What kind of proverbial plot is this! I really cried to death!

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Some netizens played stalks while snorting: "Qin Hao is really our relative, it's not good for you to eat like this every day!"

Helplessly, although he said so, his body was very honest.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?
Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

The cause of the incident was the archaeology of netizens, who found that Yu Chengqing was on the show after the divorce, and the host Hua Shao talked about the surname "Yu", saying that there was a poem in the Tang Dynasty that was "Yu Lang Panmadi, but he was afraid of spring mud".

"Yu Chengqing was as shocked as if he knew it for the first time", because he has a song called "Spring Mud", which was released in 2003 and was written by Yi Nengjing. Netizens thought that Yi Nengjing was like a girl in love at that time, and she must have searched for countless stories related to Yu Chengqing before she buried the foreshadowing of "Spring Mud".

Yu Chengqing didn't know this poem, but Yi Nengjing definitely knew that although the Yu Lang in the poem was the Northern Zhou poet Yu Xin, and it had nothing to do with Yu Chengqing, but at that time, Yu Chengqing was Yi Nengjing's real Yu Lang.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

For Yi Nengjing, as a person from a humble background and crawling in the entertainment industry, in front of Yu Chengqing, who was born in a family, is he the "dirty" spring mud.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

And Yu Chengqing himself didn't know, and when he realized Yi Nengjing's thousands of twists and turns, as well as his deep affection for him, the two had already divorced and missed each other.

That's why when he heard that poem, he was so shocked, showing three points of shock, three points of regret, four points of nostalgia and sadness, and an expression of unease.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

I just want to sigh and make people happy, this song written by Yi Nengjing,

It's like the fluttering wings of a butterfly twenty years ago,

A few years later, it caused a hurricane that transmuted over time.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Even the love when the two of them were together was picked up, and many addicts were crazy about these materials, snorting to death, and calling the past love earth-shattering and unforgettable, they are each other's lifelong love.

It's just that the person you love the most doesn't necessarily make it to the end.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?
Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Pinching his fingers, Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing have been married for 9 years, and her marriage to Harlem Yu Chengqing has only lasted 9 years, but before getting married, the two experienced 14 years of long-distance love.

There is no doubt that Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing have really loved each other.

Yi Nengjing wrote in "The Last Words of Life and Death" about her dependence and love for Yu Chengqing.

She called Yu Chengqing late at night to accompany her, but the other party didn't come, so she could get up immediately and go to the pharmacy to buy sleeping pills.

"I didn't call you again that night, and my wounded self-esteem only kept me thinking that the most I wanted to do when I was sober was to kill you. ”

"Every time I go crazy, you always have sad eyes, I know you love me, and I want you to love me more. ”

"I keep testing your love to make you worry, and I even talk and laugh with other members of the opposite sex in front of you, just because I want to know if there is jealousy in your eyes. ”

She was in a bad mood and went for a walk outside, Yu Chengqing was not at ease and didn't want to annoy her, so he silently kept his distance and followed behind her, until Yi Nengjing was tired of walking and his mood calmed down, and he stepped forward to hug and comfort her.

Yu Chengqing in Yi Nengjing's eyes, although he is 8 years older than her, he still takes care of her like an innocent little boy.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

The desire to express herself is as strong as Yi Nengjing, and she also shares how Yu Chengqing is nervous and loves her on variety shows. For example, Yu Chengqing likes to accompany her shopping, not only will she not be impatient, but she also enjoys her little girlish side when she buys and buys.

Yi Nengjing and Xiao S went to a nightclub to get drunk, and when she went home, Yu Chengqing took care of her, he took the trash can to spit on her, the trash can was on the left, she spit on the right, and the trash can on the right, she spit on the left. Yu Chengqing said helplessly: "You are really rebellious." This love sour ......

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?
Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

However, the backgrounds of the two are very different, and from the very beginning, they laid the groundwork for the love between the two.

Taiwanese men are so arrogant, but Yu Chengqing is recognized as an "old-school" man.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?
Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yu Chengqing is a "son of a family", his grandfather Yu Enxi founded the Asia Tobacco Company, and the well-known "Da Chongjiu" cigarettes were also created by him.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Since ancient times, politics and business have not been separated. Yu Enxi has successively served as the director of the Yunnan Water Conservancy Bureau and the mayor of Kunming.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Today's key cultural relics protection unit in Kunming City, "Yu Garden", is the old residence of the Yu family.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

There is also a road in Kunming called "Yuyuan Road".

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

His father, Yu Jialin, studied in France in his early years and entered politics after returning to Taiwan, while his mother, Zhang Zhengfen, was a national treasure Peking Opera artist who graduated from the Shanghai Theater School.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

▲ Young Yu Chengqing and his parents.

The Yu family's tutoring is very strict, although he has loved rock music since middle school, but he was allowed to enter the entertainment industry after finishing college. debuted at the age of 25, and at the age of 28, he became popular all over the Taiwan Strait with the song "Let Me Love Enough at a Time".

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yu Chengqing's first love also came very late, and he fell in love at the age of 26, and the object was Yi Nengjing, who was 8 years younger than him.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

▲ 左一伊能静,右一庾澄庆。

Yu Chengqing has been living with his family and has complied with his mother's rule that he must be home by 12 p.m.

Yi Nengjing wrote many times in "Last Words of Life and Death" about the "damage" of this family rule to the feelings of the two -

"I don't understand why he leaves late at night every time and can't believe that he says he'll come to see me tomorrow. ”

She even harmed herself for this, but Yu Chengqing always had a good temper and took good care of her-

"The round and bright red blood dripped on the sheets, and I never felt pain, and he was so angry that he couldn't speak, and he found a gauze potion, but he never scolded me. ”

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Some people say that Yu Chengqing is a "mom treasure man", but it may be a bit of a double standard to say so.

Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing are in love and married for 23 years, with zero scandals and "not going to nightclubs", if there is no Yan tutor, where would a good man come from......

Xiao S commented on Yu Chengqing: "Brother Harlem is really a good man to the point where one is how possible." ”

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yu Chengqing has also said on many occasions that he is an old-fashioned and old-fashioned person. Even Xiao S doesn't like to go out with him, because he will ask everyone to drink the water in the cup and not waste it;

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

When ordering, remind everyone not to order too much.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Unlike Yu Chengqing's family background, Yi Nengjing was born in poverty, and went to Japan at the age of 14 with his remarried mother.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

When she first debuted, Yi Nengjing was described by the Taiwanese media as a "little sister".

In 2007, she published a book called "Love's Workbook", saying that her first love was a Hong Kong man who started dating at the age of 16.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Because her first boyfriend said "I need you" on the phone, Yi Nengjing dropped the contract of "City of Sadness", flew to Hong Kong to fall in love, and released the pigeons of the great director Hou Xiaoxian.

As a result, "City of Sadness" won the Golden Lion Award at the Venice International Film Festival that year.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

missed the opportunity to play on the same stage with actor Tony Leung, but he was released by someone in love.

Unlike Yi Nengjing, who has a strong desire to express, "doing more and talking less" is Yu Chengqing's tutor;

In 2005, Yi Nengjing was asked about her married life with Yu Chengqing, and she replied: "I am not a person who loves only one person in my life, I have always felt that I should love many people in my life and experience different emotions." ”

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yu Chengqing is just the opposite, he publicly said, "I like the feeling of loving only one person in my life, you want to say that I am too old-fashioned and too Qiongyao, but I think it's enough!"

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yu Chengqing rationally divided the relationship between the two into three periods: morning, middle and evening.

In the early days, everything was uncertain, and it would only be bad for outsiders to get involved, so I resolutely did not say anything.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Moderate liberalization in the medium term, but only to let good friends know.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In the end, it was announced to the world that he must be ready to "love one person for the rest of his life".

But Yu Chengqing also admits that this may make girls unhappy, because girls are more romantic, especially Pisces' little princesses, eager to share happiness with everyone.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yi Nengjing said that Yu Chengqing is the kind of person who doesn't hold hands to go shopping, but the tickets for the two to go to the concert together are still hidden in a drawer many years later.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

From 1986 to 2000, the two ran in a long-distance relationship for 14 years before marriage. In the popular and hyped entertainment industry, Yu Chengqing said that he should not take out his "pressure box treasure" because of the world or the market.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

A relationship and a person are his "pressure box treasure", this word makes netizens shout "I have it"!

But the emotional world is often the honey of A and the arsenic of B. For Yi Nengjing, who is extremely insecure in her heart and needs the other party to prove her love to the world with an absolutely high-profile show of love, Haring's low-key does make her emotions unable to be satisfied for a long time.

It has been rumored that the relationship between the two has not been made public for many years, in fact, because of the huge difference in their family backgrounds, Yu Chengqing's mother looks down on Yi Nengjing, "Mother-in-law has been making things difficult in every way".

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

"Take your hand, but you cry and your eyes are red. Yi Nengjing said in an interview that this is her favorite lyric in the song "Spring Mud".

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

She said the phrase reminded her of a boy who wanted to hold the girl's hand.

But he didn't have the ability to protect the girl at the time.

So the girl cried silently and her eyes red, and her tears were grievances and sorrows.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

During the underground relationship, it was obvious that the two of them went to Japan to watch a concert together, but Yu Chengqing lived in a big hotel arranged by the company, and Yi Nengjing could only live in a simple hotel next to it in order to save money. Because of this, she was not in a high mood, and Yu Chengqing was still in high spirits, and praised her for her comfortable residence and good surrounding scenery.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yi Nengjing ran into her sisters and chatted happily with them, Yu Chengqing didn't speak at first, and when she couldn't wait, she interrupted them and called Yi Nengjing home directly.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In so many years of love, the only time they held hands was at Anita Mui's funeral. Cai Kangyong once asked Yi Nengjing why Yu Chengqing refused to appear with her, but she was soft and hard, even if she asked in a quarrelsome way, Yu Chengqing didn't give her an answer.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

may be because the relationship between the two is unequal in the relationship, or it may be because Yi Nengjing's personality is sensitive and inferior, she once asked Yu Chengqing during a quarrel, "Do you think it's embarrassing to take me out?"

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

When she felt pain and despair in this relationship, she would date other boys, trying to stimulate Yu Chengqing, but it was useless - not only was the man not jealous because of this, but she also found that she only loved Yu Chengqing in the end.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

庾澄庆最情感外露的一次,是在演唱会上唱《只为有你》时,喊“Annie(伊能静英文名),just for you”。

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Gently unleashing romance and defending each other with all his might is another characteristic of this "old-school" man.

"Kangxi is Coming" Cai Kangyong asked Yu Chengqing if Yi Nengjing had any plastic surgery, and Yu Chengqing replied: Why did she want to do it. It means that my wife is so beautiful that she doesn't need it at all.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

was asked, "When you see the darker parts of Yi Nengjing's book, will you sweat and feel that life is too heavy?" Yu Chengqing also replied subtly: "I also have a rather dark side."

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Even after the two divorced, some media wrote that Yu Chengqing talked about his ex-wife, and Yu Chengqing apologized to the other party. "I won't mention it in the past! I won't mention it now! I won't mention it in the future!" greatly maintained Yi Nengjing, who was in low popularity after the "hand-holding door".

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In 2000, in order to avoid the media, Yu Chengqing chose to go to the United States to marry Yi Nengjing.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yi Nengjing complained about this unromantic proposal.

The two arrived in Los Angeles, and when they got off the plane, Yu Chengqing's friend took flowers and balloons and said to Yi Nengjing: "Harlem asked if you want to marry him." ”

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Her wedding was full of haste.

After receiving the certificate, Yu Chengqing's mother and sister didn't eat with Yi Nengjing, and got in the car and left. Yu Chengqing took Yi Nengjing to find a pizza shop nearby and eat a pizza, which was the first meal after the wedding.

However, the reason why Yu Chengqing made up his mind to propose to Yi Nengjing was very romantic. The year before, Yi Nengjing was hospitalized for a uterine tumor, and if the tumor was malignant, the uterus needed to be removed. Before the operation, Yu Chengqing promised in front of the hospital bed that I would marry you no matter whether you can have a child or not.

The first time the two were photographed holding hands by the media was at Anita Mui's public memorial ceremony. Yu Chengqing held Yi Nengjing's hand tightly, maybe this is Yu Chengqing's confession - there is no need to applaud when you are happy, and your hand in hand when you are sad is more affectionate than Jin Jian.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In 2002, Yi Neng gave birth to Harry, and Yu Chengqing accompanied him into the delivery room. After the doctor's consent, he sang "Love Must Be Necessary" to Yi Nengjing. The disposable hats, masks, and gowns during the childbirth were kept as souvenirs by Yu Chengqing later.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

And that famous mosquito terrier. Yi Nengjing was allergic after being bitten by a mosquito, swollen a lot, and got up in the middle of the night to cry, Yu Chengqing helped her apply ice until she fell asleep.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

This old stalk,After many years, there is a new one.。

Yi Nengjing participated in the variety show "Mom is Superman" after remarriage, and her eyes were swollen for Qin Hao to see, Qin Hao said that she was bitten by a mosquito, and it was okay.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?
Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

During apheresis, he was even more humble and arrogant: I didn't have it in my family, because I was bitten by a mosquito and had a life problem.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In the same variety show, Qin Hao also contributed a famous scene. Yi Nengjing said, I understand, I am in love with you, and you are family with me. Qin Hao replied: No, you are talking to me about cross talk, and I am living with you.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yi Nengjing asked Harlem if he would dislike me because I was fat and ugly because I had a little life. Haring replied to her earnestly: youth can be replaced, beauty can be replaced, passion may be replaced, but only memories can be replaced by no one and cannot be replaced.

In the same way, Yi Nengjing also said to Qin Hao, Qin Hao said: "If you have something to say, don't do it." Do you want me to say I love you? ”

I suspect that Qin Hao has watched "The Last Words of Life and Death" and carefully analyzed Yi Nengjing, so that she can be so steady and ruthless every time, allowing her to come out of her rich inner drama and enter a down-to-earth life.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

The original family and unfinished adolescence are Yi Nengjing's comfort zone. In the relationship with Yu Chengqing, because Yi Nengjing was only 18 years old when the two fell in love, Yu Chengqing was 8 years older than her, and her personality was calm and introverted, so it was easy for Yi Nengjing, who lacked love since childhood, to substitute for the feelings of her father and husband.

No matter what she does, the other party will always stand behind her;

Yi Nengjing loves to express herself very much and likes romance, but when she married Yu Chengqing, she neither held a wedding banquet nor wore a wedding dress, and even had no relatives and friends present to bless her. When she lived in her mother-in-law's house, there were only a few "happy" words posted in the house, and two drawers were set aside for her clothes, and the marriage was over.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In this love that is not the right door.

The love between the two has never been recognized by Yu Chengqing's family.

Even though she worked hard to get married, Yi Nengjing lived with Yu Chengqing's family.

Yu Chengqing was born in a famous family, not only there are many people at home, but also many rules, the TV at home is broadcast 24 hours a day, Yi Nengjing can't raise a cat, can't read a book, eat on time at 6 o'clock, and can't eat anything else......

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?
Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Looking at it now, how can Yi Nengjing not be the "humiliating lintel" in the eyes of the Yu family who does not want Yu Chengqing to be contaminated?

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yi Nengjing, who is accustomed to living alone, has her own lifestyle and living habits, but after marrying Yu Chengqing, she not only has to deal with the conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, handle the family relationship between herself and Yu Chengqing, but also unconsciously lose herself in order to adapt to the new environment and married life.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

As a result, the two gradually became suspicious, and the process of separating after the relationship broke down was not decent. Yu Chengqing's mother called Yi Nengjing a "little singer", and her in-laws' contempt for this daughter-in-law was almost on the surface.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

The two eventually divorced. The obvious fuse was that Yi Nengjing was photographed holding hands with Huang Weide publicly.

Later, Huang Weide was interviewed and said that Yi Nengjing took the initiative to lead him, and was stamped as a "scumbag", and his career has been in a slump since then.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

But Yi Nengjing said in the ancient variety show that her mother-in-law was very good to her, helped her take care of the children, supported her work, she slept until ten o'clock in the morning, and her mother-in-law's family thought she got up early and persuaded her to sleep for a while.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

After the divorce, Yi Nengjing was interviewed by "Nandu", and also refuted "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony", saying that Yu's mother is very accommodating and appreciates herself.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Which sentence is true, I'm afraid only the person concerned is clear.

The misfortune of Yi Nengjing's original family made her extremely insecure, so in her first marriage, she was in the extended period of youth. She was taken care of, loved, and happy on the surface, but she was always insecure in her heart, and even gradually lost herself.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In the breakdown of a marriage, there may really be no one right or wrong, only missing - what she wants, you can't give, and what you can give is not what she wants.

After "holding hands", the reporter asked Yu Chengqing what was going on, and he claimed that he and Yi Nengjing were not divorced and did not separate.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Four years after the divorce, Yu Chengqing released a song "The Moonlight That Can't Be Turned Off": "The double bed that can't sleep, not to mention that it's okay, in fact, I haven't forgotten it, and there is a seat by my side all the time." ”

And Yi Nengjing will also bow her head and cry when she mentions the other party, choking up and saying, "It's good it's him."

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Both of them seemed to come out, but neither seemed to have come out.

When she was 18 years old, she met Yu Chengqing, married him after 14 years of love, and divorced 9 years later. After 23 years together, they have occupied more than one-third of each other's lives.

They breathe the world in unison, but exhale different air. In the book, she says that Haring felt warm when she and her family watched the eight-o'clock scene in front of the TV, but she felt that the world was too noisy and noisy, and she just wanted to write and read at a table.

Harlem is rough and not good at expression, likes sports, news and fast-paced movies, is close to her family, gets up early and runs through the floor-to-ceiling windows, and does not mind the eyes of the unexpected world;

But they have been together for 23 years, 23 years, and it is definitely a long relationship, and there is nothing else to explain except deep love.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Perhaps because Yoyo-chan herself is also a Pisces, I can read "The Last Words of Life and Death" and understand Yi Nengjing's love and struggle.

Her love is as thin as a hair. She writes about her love for Harlem's white skin and capillaries, thin shoulders and thick thighs, round short nails and long eyelashes when she laughs, she writes "When I love you, I wish I had been you", she writes "Decades after we met, you still have some expressions that make me glamorous", she writes that "we share unbearable moments in the course of life, when there are only tears and body temperature for each other." ”

But her love is also so wet and heavy. She uses negation to express love, tears and self-harm when Haring leaves her apartment, goes on dates with other members of the opposite sex in the breakup and merger to destroy the right love, she has to confirm the traces of love over and over again, she knows how to express love, but the premise is that she desperately desires love, so she has to go crazy and crazy when she loves, and these must be caught by Haring steadily.

In this relationship, Harlem is the anchor point, and she is the child who is forced to grow up. Under everyone's gaze, I want to quickly become a mature adult and match everyone's expectations. But the more this happens, the more vulnerable it becomes. So she went through an incredibly long adolescence. During this time, her lover will sink with her, to play the role of doctor and savior.

She once said, "You are my father, my lover, my child, you have made up for every defect in my life", "You have never given up on me, although I have hurt you again and again with words or actions".

But what led to the end of this relationship was precisely this heavy love.

In this love, they are dependent on each other, and they are entangled with each other to the point of suffocation. She had asked Haring to read One Hundred Years of Solitude and show him her words, but received a crude and naïve answer, so she began to suffer, destroying her independent self and trying to fit into the lives of two people. The result of the compromise is a lose-lose situation.

And he was like a pure child, who had never seen the desolation of her vast world.

In the struggle, the love between the two people gradually wore away.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In 2015, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao remarried.

It was a grand island wedding, and she saw the full house of friends she wanted.

This marriage finally allowed her to harvest countless blessings and recognition.

She chose a man who was completely different from Yu Chengqing.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yu Chengqing undoubtedly loves her, so he is willing to indulge Yi Nengjing to live in his own world.

Qin Hao loves her, but he takes her literary and artistic to taste the fireworks in the world.

He taught Yi Nengjing how to live a down-to-earth life.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

It was rumored on the Internet that when the news of Yi Nengjing's remarriage came, Yu Chengqing was admitted to the hospital because of a heart attack.

For a while, the once vigorous and vigorous of the two has become uneasy in the hearts of many people.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Two years ago, when Yi Nengjing was hacked on the whole network, Yu Chengqing didn't know whether it was a slippery hand or deliberate, and liked a Weibo that supported her.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Although the custody of the child belongs to Yu Chengqing, Yi Nengjing can often see the child. She will accompany her son when he is not working, try not to miss his important occasions, worry about him in advance to study abroad, and give him enough support and freedom when his son is questioned for wearing women's clothes.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Because Yi Nengjing likes to share and express, she loves her son very much, and when the media asked "Yu Chengqing doesn't seem to be very involved in her son's growth", she also decisively helped Yu Chengqing speak, bluntly saying that "people who don't necessarily express it do more, and those who don't express it do less, which is not fair."

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

In the past few days, many people have been snorting Yu Chengqing Yi Nengjing's expired sugar in full swing.

Netizens advised Qin Hao to play less with his mobile phone.

#秦昊的命也是命#上了热搜. Qin Hao promoted "The Long Season" and launched #Jawline Challenge#, and the page that popped up was Yu Chengqing Yi Nengjing's be aesthetics

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?
Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Netizens are crazy to play with lines, it's really not distressing~

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Pinching his fingers, when 18-year-old Yi Nengjing met 26-year-old Yu Chengqing, Qin Hao was only eight years old.

And Qin Hao bought Yi Nengjing's first record at the age of nine.

In this way, he only fell in love with Yi Nengjing a year later than Yu Chengqing!

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

If Haring has the seriousness of an old-school man, Qin Hao has the casualness of the Northeast masters, specializing in hypocrisy.

Qin Hao once told a joke, saying that he once sent Yi Nengjing a greeting card on his birthday, and wrote eight big characters: If you don't do it, I will not live up to it.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Originally, he only wanted to write four words: "If you are sick, you will be cured".

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

Yi Nengjing once confessed to Harlem and said, "I am willing to be a cow and a horse for you for the rest of my life", it is conceivable that if she told Qin Hao like this, Qin Hao would inevitably go back with a poisonous tongue.

Haring is affectionate, Qin Hao is relaxed, and they are both good men who are one in a million. There is a saying that Yi Nengjing's vision for choosing a man is really powerful!

Harlem fulfilled her fantasy love dream, and Qin Hao healed her childhood with a heavy lift, pulling her out of her long adolescence.

Yi Neng Jing Yu Chengqing's top BE aesthetics, have you swallowed?

The public can indulge in this kind of expired sugar, first of all, it shows that everyone is very relieved about Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing's marriage, and they feel that these two people are living a solid life, and nothing can separate them;

Another even better point is that everyone has a higher level of understanding of the complexity of love.

Everyone eats this expired candy, not only to taste the sweetness and impermanence of love, but also to appreciate the growth of women in love and marriage.

Love and marriage are two different things. The person you love the most may not be able to grow old together, and the person who "loves each other ordinarily" may last longer.

But I always believe that it was Harlem who nourished Yi Nengjing's delicate soul with healthy love.

They will never regret loving each other so hard.

The flowers tried to bloom and withered for a moment, but the splendor of the past was real.

In any case, if we have loved, it will not be in vain for us to come to this world.

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