In fact, you will find that many celebrities in the circle who have become mothers will rarely post news and copywriting related to their children.
On the one hand, they don't want their families to have too much exposure, and secondly, they are worried that their children will be "cyberbullied".
After all, the current Internet is like an invisible sword, which can easily kill people without a drop of blood.
Just like some time ago, Yi Nengjing's son Harry was criticized by the majority of netizens for wearing women's clothes.
It can be said that since Harry has been active on the Internet, he has suffered a lot of bad comments, and netizens have not even let go of his mother Yi Nengjing.
Just like spraying Guo Degang angrily under Guo Qilin's comment area, like this kind of celebrity family, everyone often attributes what their children do to their parents' education.
At first, the editor was a little incomprehensible, after all, you said that a good big boy wears women's clothes and paints women's makeup.......
It wasn't until I watched this street interview that I had to say "forgive the editor's clumsiness"!
In the face of netizens' questions, he also bluntly said that "I have no problem, I usually wear men's clothes", and he is also very clear about his gender identity.
And he claims to have "intersex intuition", which is simply understood as having both male and female aesthetics.
Just like most boys will only notice the woman wearing her when they look at some beautiful clothes, if it is a single piece of clothing, they may not find "beauty".
And he pursues "beauty" regardless of gender.
He himself admits that he wears clothes more depending on his mood, and if he wants to be "beautiful" today, he will choose to wear women's clothes, and he will not care about the eyes of others.
For him, women's clothing is like participating in a performance that requires this "amazing" feeling.
Many uninformed netizens saw his women's photos and said, "How sad it would be if my mother knew"
In fact.... Yi Nengjing knew about it, and replied on the show early.
"The one who loves him knows who he is, and it is more important for the world to know who she is."
After reading this sentence, I finally knew why Qin Hao was able to love her so deeply......
I also understand why she was able to write a song like Spring Ni Touch.
"Upbringing" comes from parents
In fact, after being exposed by the media, Harry was subjected to deep malice, and the whole Internet was overwhelmed with scolding him for being a "pervert".
Normally, two things happen in such a situation:
1. I can't stand the cyberbullying and choose to stop changing or something more extreme.
2. Ignore cyberbullying and continue to do what you like.
However, he chose the third option! Because he was holding the title of "second generation star", his first reaction when he knew that he was being criticized by the whole network was to tell his mother, "Will it affect your career"?
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And the mother's full score answer also made netizens very admired, maybe this is maternal love.
Although Mom and Dad are separated, Mom's love for you has never diminished.....
"Best Mom"
Everyone knows that Qin Hao is Yi Nengjing's second marriage partner, and her first marriage must be very clear to everyone.
That's right, it's "Yu Chengqing (Harlem)".
The two fell in love and got married at that time, which also caused a sensation in the entire entertainment industry, but maybe it was really inappropriate, and they chose to divorce when the child was six years old, and the son followed the man.
Because of the ownership of the child, the woman was angrily scolded by the whole network for being "ruthless, not even wanting children"
In fact, the editor does not believe that in the case of an economic foundation, "mothers do not want their children to follow them", there must be something unspeakable.
Regarding the angry scolding of netizens, Yi Nengjing did not stand up and reply positively, but just silently endured everything.
And in the days that followed, she also proved "a mother's love for her children" with her actions.
The paparazzi often photograph the woman rushing to the airport after filming (after participating in the event) on the weekend, and then immediately flew to Taipei City, Taiwan Province, it is obvious that this is definitely not to find "Yu Chengqing".
Immediately after that, she was seen picking up the child from school, accompanying him to play around and taking him shopping.
It can be said that unless there are any special circumstances or you really can't get out of the way, Yi Nengjing usually takes advantage of the break to run over to accompany the child.
The most intuitive thing is that on a family variety show on Mango Channel, Yi Nengjing, who was originally taking care of her youngest daughter, suddenly received a call from her son who was far away in Taipei City.
It's probably "I hurt my foot, and my dad isn't around."
In fact, when this section was broadcast, many netizens said, "Aren't you just hurt? Boys can't be stronger, it's really hypocritical."
If we look at it from another angle, when our parents are divorced and we are injured and we are alone at home, the feeling at this moment is like the feeling of sleeping until the evening and being abandoned by the whole world.
In fact, at this time, his injuries have been treated, and he is basically in a state of "breaking his muscles and bones for 100 days".
But Yi Nengjing was still very worried, and immediately drove to the airport after the original family program was not recorded.
From this point, we can see that she is really a very responsible mother, and at the same time, we should praise the man!
Although he is not his biological son, being able to let his wife go as soon as possible and stay at home to take care of his daughter is something that many men can't do......
In fact, after the divorce of both parties, the son also became cautious.
Because the man remarried, this was very difficult for Harry, because he didn't know what his biological mother thought of his stepmother.
Normal people must feel that if they show that they like their stepmother very much, their biological mother will definitely be jealous.....
So when Harry and Yi Nengjing went on a trip together, they bought gifts for their stepmother, and they all hid it secretly for fear of making her mother unhappy, and Yi Nengjing didn't break it.
Instead, he went back afterwards and complained, "I have seen it a long time ago, and it is good to have one more person to love him."
Although it was questioned by many netizens for the effect of the show.
But in fact, being able to say such things, coupled with what she has done over the years, I believe that anyone with a discerning eye can see that she really wants her son to be good, even if the person next to her is not herself.
Perhaps because everyone's family situation is different, the way of educating children must not be the same.
But in some aspects, the editor thinks that Yi Nengjing is doing the right thing, and even says that the majority of parents can learn from it.
Can or can't it matter?
When your child asks you, "Mom (Dad), can I do this?"
How Would You Answer?
Yes or no, I believe that 99% of parents will say so.
But how do people do it? Never say an affirmative answer, say the two consequences of yes or no, and let the child make his own choice.
It is precisely this kind of education that makes children have special "thoughts" from an early age, and they will not be so hesitant to have their own ideas when encountering things.
To put it mildly, how many people can still have a "peaceful and friendly heart-to-heart exchange" with both parties after their parents divorce?
Even if there is no divorce of parents, it is estimated that many people have not yet married their parents
Anyway, I don't have a .....
At first, she was still cautious for fear that she would touch her son's soft spots, and worried that the other party would feel that she was going to abandon her.
Even the new boyfriend didn't dare to say it......
It wasn't until I went to travel that I asked tentatively, but I didn't expect her son's answer to shock her.
In fact, it is not only the mother's unilateral dedication, but the son is also giving back to his mother with warm love.
Encourage her to pursue her own happiness, cheer her up, and let her break through her comfort zone and enter a new field (participate in Sister Lang).
One final word
I feel that this young man has really inherited his mother's "ability to speak".
When facing netizens abusing him, he was not angry, nor did he try every means to cover up the explanation.
Instead, he generously admitted that he was wearing women's clothes, but he didn't mean anything else, just the simple pursuit of "beauty".
In fact, if you think about it carefully, why do some things have to be forcibly defined~
Do boys have to earn money to support their families? Do girls have to cook and take care of their children?
It is everyone's right to love beauty, as long as it does not affect social stability
Whether you are a women's clothing boss or a men's clothing queen, you can do it as long as you like.
In fact, there are not so many viewers in this world who notice you, so why not let yourself have a good time and do something you like?
It can be said that Harry has such a correct three views, which has a lot to do with his parents' education.
Most parents always want their sons to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes, but these premises are "you yourself must be a dragon and a phoenix"!
Text/Editor: y
Shingen:
Mango TV - "Mom is Superman" Yi Neng Jing Period
Douyin - World Microphone "Harry, Street Interview"
Tencent Video - "Mao Xuewang"