Many people say that women are hypocritical, and it is undeniable that there is indeed a correct component to this statement.
Men often complain to their friends about "why women are so difficult to understand" and "why are women so complicated".
Indeed, a woman's heart in love is like a needle at the bottom of the sea, which always makes men unable to see through and guess. Many of the things a woman says to a man are not actually what she thinks in her heart, and they are often the opposite. Obviously you just like it, but you tell you that you don't like it, which makes you scratch your head.
In fact, women want men to understand themselves and know that what they say is actually duplicitous, so men in love must understand their "subtext".
Therefore, men should know that only smart men will understand these 4 "duplicity" words of women, can you understand them?
01
"Don't talk to me"
Men need to understand that sometimes when there is an argument between you, she will be very angry and say "stop talking to me". But what a woman says when she is very angry is often insincere. You must know how to listen to this sentence in reverse, don't be stupid and don't understand.
Some men feel that they should follow the woman's wishes and give them time to calm down. However, ignoring a woman will only make her angrier and feel that you don't care about her at all.
When she said this, she subconsciously hoped that you could understand your mistakes and admit them to make her happy. If you don't go to her, it will only make her more and more angry, thinking that you are deliberately snubbing her.
Many times, misunderstandings arise in this way, you know, women are very hated by men for being silent when they quarrel.
02
"Don't buy me anything"
In the relationship between lovers, they always like to give some gifts to express their hearts, and the sense of happiness and sweetness when receiving gifts is what every woman is particularly looking forward to. However, out of consideration for the man's economic situation, women often duplexally ask men not to buy gifts.
Women say no, but in fact, their hearts are full of expectations, if the man really doesn't give anything, the woman will only feel very lost, and then slowly lose her goodwill.
When men and women are interacting, the woman says, "Don't buy anything for me". In fact, it's duplicity, and only stupid men will believe it.
Smart men will give women things as usual, just won't let her know how much money was spent. This will make her feel happy and eliminate her worries.
03
"I'm not sad"
In love, if a woman is wronged, she may have tears rolling in her eyes. At this point, if you ask her what's going on, she'll say, "It's okay, I'm not sad."
In fact, she was already sad in her heart, but she didn't want to say it. At this point, all you need to do is listen to her.
You don't think she's really not sad, she's really sad. It's just that she doesn't want you to worry and embarrass her.
She would rather be alone to silently digest the sadness and negative emotions in her heart, and she is not willing to pass on negative energy to you. You can enlighten her and make her happy. Don't ignore her.
04
"I don't care who you find"
When a woman falls in love with a man, she will become cautious and care, hoping that the man will only love herself, and that the man will revolve around her and not get very close to other women.
In getting along, when a woman says to you, "I don't care who you find", she looks like she has nothing to do with herself, and she is jealous.
She must have seen that you were getting too close to other people of the opposite sex, or that there were women around at the party, and she was jealous, and she didn't really ask you to find someone else.
She said this sentence to make you focus on her, because she loves you too much, men don't be stupid and can't understand.
05
Emotional message
I heard a saying: "The surprises that women look forward to are hidden in the details of your life together." What you want, if a man uses a snack, is easy to know. ”
To understand women, we must understand their "duplicity".
Men should learn to listen, to pay attention, to understand, to respect, to love. Only in this way can we truly understand women and truly live in harmony with them.
There is no unsolvable puzzle in this world, only those who do not want to solve it. To understand a duplicitous woman, it takes patience, care, and love. If you can do that, then you are a man who really knows how to love.
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