90% of the audience of "Chenghuan Ji" didn't understand, why did Mai Chenghuan pull off his necklace after being slapped by his mother at the engagement banquet?

Mai Chenghuan, who has been a doll in the hands of his mother for 29 years, finally used the most decisive way to regain the initiative in life.

The initiator of this engagement banquet is Xin Jiali, who wants to recover her father's property.

Xin Jiali instigated Xin Jialiang to save Mai Chenghuan, and used Xin Jialiang's mobile phone to send a heartfelt text message to Mai Chenghuan's mother Liu Wanyu, wanting to take her to see the wedding room.

This sister does have a set, she can not only see that the person in charge of the Mai family is Liu Wanyu, but she can also ask Liu Wanyu for forgiveness in a low voice, but it is a pity that she has a wrong mind and does bad things.

Coincidentally, Liu Wanyu was upset because the house was flooded and there was no hope of demolition, and when she saw that the Xin family took the initiative to get engaged, she immediately nodded and agreed, hoping that Mai Chenghuan would not have to live her hard life again.

Then, Liu Wanyu booked a luxurious banquet hall and invited relatives and friends, hoping to use this engagement banquet to save face.

She thought that Mai Chenghuan still had Xin Jialiang in her heart, and if she gave the engagement step, Mai Chenghuan would agree.

She thought that in front of relatives and friends who came from afar, even if Mai Chenghuan was unwilling, he would not turn his face on the spot.

She thought that she could use her mother's nurturing grace to force Mai Chenghuan to accept the engagement, just like the moral kidnapping that had been staged countless times.

In all fairness, Liu Wanyu's original intention of hoping that her daughter would not live a poor life is good.

But she didn't know that Mai Chenghuan saved Xin Zhishan, and she didn't know that Xin Jiali used Mai Chenghuan to curry favor with her father, which forced her daughter into a desperate situation.

But when Mai Chenghuan publicly stated that she and Xin Jialiang had broken up and turned to leave, Liu Wanyu's focus was no longer on this engagement, but on whether her daughter still listened to her mother.

That's what this engagement feast is really about – a daughter and a mother fighting for control of their daughter's life.

Therefore, Liu Wanyu hysterically threatened Mai Chenghuan with the severance of the relationship, and slapped her, wanting to use the mother-daughter relationship and force to force Mai Chenghuan to submit.

Although Mai Chenghuan didn't fight back, she pulled off her necklace and threw it on the ground, letting the pearls scatter all over the ground.

This scene is wonderfully choreographed.

Mai Chenghuan rarely wears a necklace, why did he wear this pearl necklace at the engagement banquet?

Not only because the engagement banquet was full of friends, Mak Chenghuan needed to dress up a little grandly.

It is even more because of this necklace that symbolizes the shackles that her mother wears around her neck in the name of maternal love.

This necklace is like a dog chain around the neck of a puppy, and when the owner pulls the dog leash, the puppy has to turn around and follow the direction of the owner.

In the past 29 years, Liu Wanyu has used her mother's love to lead Mai Chenghuan and be a thread doll in her hands.

Now, Mai Chenghuan pulls off the necklace, which means that she has let go of her obedience to her mother, has been kidnapped by filial piety, does not care about face, and does not care about image, as long as she regains control of her life.

When I read this paragraph, I can especially understand Mak Chenghuan's collapse.

Because my mother also has a little shadow of Liu Wanyu, of course she is not as extreme as her.

When I was in high school, there was a time when my mom had to let me wear a down jacket to school, "there was a kind of cold, and my mom thought you were cold."

I fought with her for a long time, but I still didn't beat her, so I could only put on a down jacket honestly.

But when I went to school, I was the only one in the class wearing a down jacket, and I was sweating all over my head.

When I was in graduate school, I was contacted by an internship unit through my senior brother and wanted to go to Shenyang for an internship for a month.

When I told my mother the good news, my mother actually ordered me to "not go" because I was unfamiliar with the place and was afraid that I would be in danger, otherwise she would rush from my hometown to accompany me.

At that time, I was angry and crying, thinking that I had finally found an internship opportunity, and my mother was not happy for me, and even held me back.

Fortunately, after I came to Beijing to work, my mother may have been used to my long absence from her side and did not report the details of her life to her.

She also found a new focus in her life, and began to let go of me every day when she was busy partying with friends, learning tai chi, and so on.

It may be difficult for every mother to accept that the child who was once dependent on her for everything has become "disobedient".

But this is the only way for mothers and children to have a healthy and equal relationship.

Now that I'm a mother, I actually understand my mother's idea of letting me wear a down jacket and accompany me to my internship.

Because I don't feel at ease, I'm worried that my child will catch a cold and get sick and be in danger.

But when I think of my struggles, I let go of my worries and choose to respect my daughter's wishes, even if she may suffer a little.

Once, I bought her a pair of blue shoes with bows, which were barefoot.

She couldn't put it down, and despite the cold, she still had to wear these shoes to go out.

I told her that her feet would freeze, but she still wanted to wear them, so I went with her.

When she personally felt that her feet would freeze when she wore these shoes, she began to pay attention to the weather, and would only propose to wear these shoes on a sunny day.

Life is an experience, and so is the growth of children, and parents have told them countless times, so it is better for children to experience it themselves.

Moreover, when we come to the world, not everyone has to follow the "road to success" in the eyes of the world, such as studying, working, getting married, and having children.

Every "detour" is an experience, and perhaps a certain "mistake" will open up a new opportunity in life.