Recently, a stalk has been circulating on the Internet: In ancient times, there was a question about feather scraping bones to heal injuries, and now there are children who are doing the question.
If you want to ask about the source of this stalk, it is related to a child who is undergoing osteopathic treatment at a clinic in Guangdong. Some netizens took a photo, a child who was undergoing osteopathic treatment screamed in pain, but his parents coldly stuffed a mobile phone from under the massage table at this juncture, and opened a software to practice computing on the phone, which means don't waste this time, let's practice computing ability while straightening the bones.
The netizen who took the photo was very angry when he saw this scene, and he wrote, "The kid shouted the answer while screaming", and this operation is really no one.
In the past, we always heard people say: "Everyone only cares about whether you fly high or not, only your family cares about whether you are tired or not". But I don't know when it started, many parents only care about whether their children are flying high or not, as for whether they are tired or not, how tired they are, everyone chooses to ignore it.
When everyone is lamenting that such parents are too strange, they don't know that there are not a few such parents. They will always use the banner of "thinking about your future" and constantly "spur" you all the way forward. I watched a doctor share a story witnessed in the hospital about a student who was depressed and self-harmed, and his mental state was very bad. Before the doctor could communicate with the child in depth, the parents anxiously asked, "Won't it affect the child's schooling?"
When some students themselves talk about the illness that is already very serious, so serious that it is difficult to walk, parents also want their children to return to school as soon as possible.
Even as soon as she got out of a serious condition, her mother would directly stuff a mobile phone and ask the child who was still lying on the hospital bed in a dying state to quickly see how much homework was assigned in the group.
When a child is sick, the first concern of parents is not their health, let alone their psychology, but the fear that the disease will delay the learning progress and affect the academic performance.
Even if they are orthopedic or are taking intravenous drips in the hospital, they also follow the principle of "minor injuries do not get out of the line of fire" and move their textbooks and desks to the hospital. What is sick and needs to rest?
Of course not? It cannot be ruled out that some parents regard their children's grades as their own face, so they make all kinds of demands on their children, and they are merit-based on their children. In fact, there are still some parents who are coerced by the current educational environment of involution, and they can't roll up, and they can't lie flat when they lie flat, swaying from side to side, and don't know where to go.
Some time ago, I watched a video talking about how tired children are reading a book nowadays. Not to mention, just look at how heavy the schoolbags of elementary school students are. Some children carry more than a dozen pounds of schoolbags after school, and they are upside down when they walk, and there are all kinds of teaching and auxiliary materials in the schoolbag, and it seems that there are endless questions every day.
There is also a mother who recorded her child crying with joy after finally finishing her homework, and after finally writing all the various test papers, the child first laughed, and then cried. It's really, a small body, a lot of pressure.
In such an environment, children are really "sick", once they take a few days off, making up homework can make people cry. With fast learning progress and high academic pressure, parents will also worry that their children will delay their studies and will not be able to keep up with the pace of school. The child is helpless, and the parents are also bitter.