If you are a water delivery worker, how can you get in touch with the big leaders? Let the water delivery workers of "County Party Committee Compound" tell you how the little people should socialize upward!
Masters often show people with the most simple image, there is such a master who understands the sophistication of human feelings in the "County Party Committee Compound", he is the water delivery worker Xiao Zeng, he only used one sentence to get closer to the newcomers in the workplace, and impressed the leader with a bottle of water.
And the most high-end operation is that he only used a power bank and a pancake to successfully get in touch with the big leader, so that the audience was amazed, watched repeatedly, learned repeatedly, and tried to get some upward social skills from it, so how did he do it?
First, the primary people are sophisticated, and the relationship is closer in one sentence
"County Party Committee Compound" is a TV series to be released in 2022, gathering powerful actors such as Hu Ge, Wu Yue, Zhang Xincheng, etc., telling a series of things experienced by Mei Xiaoge, secretary of the county party committee, and many colleagues for the construction and development of Guangming County.
In order to create a real and high-quality work, the screenwriter of the play, Wang Xiaogun, deliberately entered the experience for half a year, and had a more real understanding of the real work of grassroots public officials and the doorways in the system, but today we will not talk about a cadre in the compound of the county party committee, but about a very inconspicuous small role - Xiao Zeng, a water delivery worker.
The water delivery worker has appeared in the first episode, he rode a tricycle and appeared on the stage, and the person who walked by him was the newly recruited Lin Zhiwei, this role is very important, and the role is second only to Mei Xiaoge played by Hu Ge.
Lin Zhiwei stepped into the door, and Xiao Zeng followed with a bucket of water, and it can be seen from his movements that he has been in this industry for a long time and is very familiar with this place.
However, after Xiao Zeng entered the staff office, he specially asked where the water was delivered, and the old staff of the office assigned Lin Zhiwei, a newcomer who was not familiar with the place, to send the water workers to the county magistrate's office on the first day of employment.
After going out, Lin Zhiwei was a little at a loss, but the water delivery worker was full of confidence and said "Come with me", it can be seen from here that it is completely unnecessary to find someone to lead the way, so why did he do more?
The main reason for this is that the county magistrate's office is a special place, if the water delivery worker goes alone, in case something happens, it is difficult to explain, and in the county party committee compound, even if it is a staff, he needs to abide by the corresponding rules and keep his own half of the point, not to mention that he is just a small water delivery worker, and he needs to abide by the rules here.
After entering the county magistrate's office, the water delivery worker took the initiative to talk to Lin Zhiwei, which seemed to be homely, but in fact it was full of information, he said:
This was originally the office of the county magistrate Jiang, and the new county magistrate will come soon.
A simple single sentence has already made Lin Zhiwei, a newcomer who has no clue like a headless fly, have an understanding of the current situation, and the kind reminder of the water delivery worker not only leaves a good impression in the eyes of the other party, but also leaves a way back for himself, in case the other party develops well in the future, he is also familiar, and he can have a breakthrough if he wants to do things.
If this sentence can only be regarded as the primary stage in the sophistication of human feelings, then the following bottle of water shows that the water delivery worker has been unusual in interpersonal communication.
Second, the intermediate people are sophisticated, and a bottle of water is just right
In the play, Qiao Shengli, played by actor Wang Xiao, is a township leader, as a grassroots leader, he has a small status and great pressure, and he is sandwiched between the county leaders and the people.
Qiao Shengli is running around all the year round, hard work, physical condition is not good, suffering from high blood pressure and other diseases, once he forgot to take medicine in order to work overtime, his wife specially rushed to deliver medicine, she felt sorry for her husband's body, so she reprimanded her husband in front of everyone, although she was kind, but she did not take into account her husband's face in front of his subordinates, and the atmosphere was very embarrassing.
Qiao Shengli could only ease the embarrassing atmosphere with a joke of "send medicine but not water".
And the water delivery worker Xiao Zeng saw the opportunity, and simply unscrewed a bottle of water and handed it to him, and a bottle of water gave him an embarrassing step to walk down.
When he handed the water over, he just smiled and didn't speak, and he only responded simply to the leader's explanation so as not to make the other party even more embarrassed. After the leader drank the water, he returned the bottle cap in his hand to the leader, so that the leader would also be impressed by it.
A bottle of water can impress the leader with himself, and the interpersonal skills of the water delivery worker Xiao Zeng can be seen, and the next encounter between him and Secretary Mei in the hospital is a textbook demonstration case of the little person's upward socialization.
Third, high-level people are sophisticated, and power banks and pancakes can also become ladders
Hu Ge played Secretary Mei was hospitalized because his mother was sick and hospitalized, and when he called his wife, the mobile phone was turned off because there was no power, and he didn't have a charger and power bank on him, and he was very anxious.
He tried to borrow the charger from the nurse and the patient's family, but was refused, and finally borrowed the charging cable, and could only call in a very uncomfortable posture, and at this time Xiao Zeng appeared.
In fact, there is not much intersection between the two, but Xiao Zeng still chose to seize the opportunity and took the initiative to talk, he first simply pointed out his identity, awakened the memory of the other party, and brought the relationship between the two closer.
When Xiao Zeng took the opportunity to ask why the other party was in the hospital, Secretary Mei did not answer according to his meaning, but threw the question back.
Xiao Zeng bluntly explained that he came to the hospital to accompany his mother-in-law for a review, and the implication was that the meeting between the two was purely coincidental, and he did not come to the hospital to wait for him.
Then he saw the leader's dilemma at a glance, spoke in a relaxed and happy tone, and gave the power bank to the other party, although it was just a small thing, but for the current Mei Xiaoge, this is a charcoal in the snow, which is enough to make him feel some gratitude.
After that, Xiao Zeng took the initiative to come to Secretary Mei's mother's ward, which is enough to see Xiao Zeng's carefulness, he first stated his purpose, he was not to take away the power bank, but to be afraid that the power bank would run out of power, so he wanted to help the other party charge, and think about the other party everywhere.
After getting the power bank, he handed the pancakes in his hand to Secretary Mei, in fact, many people will subconsciously think that Xiao Zeng will bring some fruit and milk when he comes to the ward, but the purpose of those gifts is too obvious, and Xiao Zeng's pancakes are very casual and ordinary, so people can't refuse.
After Secretary Mei was busy in the hospital, it must be that the family had no time, and he was busy working alone, and there was a high probability that he hadn't eaten yet.
As soon as the picture turned, the two sat on the bench downstairs in the hospital and drank together, which shows that the relationship between the two is relatively close at this time, but Xiao Zeng still deliberately raised each other, emphasizing that there is a big gap between the two.
Seeing that Secretary Mei took the initiative to ask about his family, Xiao Zeng casually mentioned the news that his wife opened a courier station at the gate of the county party committee compound, and even took the initiative to find a reliable prescription for Secretary Mei's mother.
Later, Xiao Zeng took the initiative to propose that when the prescription made progress, he would send a text message to inform him that he would not disturb him, which further highlighted his intimacy and delicacy.
The author thinks
The big guys have the big guy's way to success. Little people also have the way of the little people, there is no opportunity, then create opportunities, have opportunities, then seize the opportunity, want to have a relationship with the leader, timing is very important, proportion is more important, only grasp the opportunity, control the proportion, in order to have the opportunity to obtain more resources, to have the opportunity to move to the next level, to achieve a great reversal in life!