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In 2022, an art exhibition in Belgium titled "What Were You Wearing?" provoked deep thinking about the clothes women wear when they are sexually assaulted.
Inside the pavilion, the everyday clothes worn by the victims were displayed neatly and neatly, whether it was a simple T-shirt, simple pants or a comfortable sweatshirt, they were all ordinary clothing.
Behind the show, however, there seems to be a harrowing social reality – victims are often blamed for the violations they have suffered.
This kind of distorted "victim guilt theory" not only exists in online public opinion, but is also common in real life.
Just last year, when a young girl was picking up a package at the community express station, she was secretly photographed by a male employee, and uploaded his photo to the Internet, and even made up rumors of "cheating".
Although the truth was eventually revealed, the reputation and mental trauma suffered by this innocent lady could not be healed in a short time.
What is puzzling is that there are still people who stubbornly insist that "she must be too pretentious to attract malicious slander from others".
Is it not a tragedy for society that women are just the most ordinary members of life, but they are harmed by their beauty and kindness? We should embrace these innocent victims with reverence, rather than simply blaming them for their "faults".
The revelation brought by this exhibition is thought-provoking, and the society needs to deeply reflect on the prejudice and discrimination against women, and give them the respect and rights they deserve, so that every woman can freely pursue a happy and fulfilling life.
Back in 2002, a graduate of Beijing Film Academy named Guan Tingna resolutely decided to return to her hometown Liaoning and embarked on her own career exploration journey.
Guan Tingna, who has just entered the society, originally planned to enter the film and television industry with her acting talent, but fate brought her into the makeup department, which once made her feel that her future was bleak.
However, a chance opportunity to work as a makeup assistant made Guan Tingna fortunate to feel the tense and warm working atmosphere of the shooting scene up close.
It was at this time that the eyes of the famous actor Zhao Benshan fell on her, which changed the trajectory of her life since then.
At that time, Zhao Benshan was going all out to shoot a bar scene full of strong Northeast style, but what made everyone complain was that the heroine of this film had to withdraw temporarily due to an emergency, which made the whole filming process in a difficult situation.
At this critical moment, Guan Tingna, who was doing makeup and hair for other actors, attracted Zhao Benshan's attention with her unique charm.
He was deeply impressed by her stunning appearance and graceful figure, and did not hesitate to send her an invitation to play the role.
For this newcomer who has just stepped into the entertainment industry, Guan Tingna undoubtedly feels unprecedented pressure. However, in the face of Zhao Benshan's ardent anticipation, she resolutely accepted this difficult challenge.
Although her acting skills are still immature, Guan Tingna has always maintained a high degree of concentration, actively consulted with her mentors and senior actors, and studied the script with full attention.
In the end, with her unremitting efforts, her performance was highly praised by her predecessors, and Zhao Benshan was convinced that she had great potential for development.
Zhao Benshan firmly believes that as long as Guan Tingna is given professional training and careful guidance, she will be able to grow into a dazzling new star.
So, he offered to take her under his door and signed a contract with the company, giving Guan Tingna the opportunity to participate in many excellent film and television works.
Although her popularity was not yet a household name at the time, she had already made a name for herself in the industry and accumulated a certain popularity base.
Just as Guan Tingna was devoting herself to her acting career, some netizens who didn't know the truth began to question her, "Do we really need such a 'scandal' star?" Obviously, even though Guan Tingna has won public recognition with her outstanding performance, her outstanding figure has still become the focus of public opinion.
When the audience enjoyed the hit drama "Country Love Story", Guan Tingna instantly captured the hearts of a large number of audiences with her wonderful interpretation of the characters in the play.
Her perfect figure has become a hot topic of discussion.
As a newcomer who has never received professional acting training, Guan Tingna can win the love and respect of the audience with her hard work and outstanding talent.
However, it is worth emphasizing that Ms. Guan Tingna's success is not easy! Since stepping into the road of acting, she has always been deliberately slandered and unprovoked rumors by bad netizens because of her graceful figure.
Some people even asserted in an extremely frivolous tone: "If Guan Tingna (herself) does not *show* her already attractive figure, then why pretend to be reserved?"
In order to get out of this predicament, Ms. Kwan Tingna was once advised to hide her figure, but this approach proved to be incomplete.
In the face of a steady stream of malicious attacks, Ms. Guan Tingna finally chose to adjust her mentality and ignore those negative comments.
Just as Ms. Guan Tingna's career was booming, her friend Ms. Di Lieba also encountered a similar dilemma in the entertainment industry. At the Golden Eagle Festival ceremony in 2022, Ms. Di Lieba made a stunning appearance in a low-cut red dress, which was beautiful.
In order to avoid walking naked, she had to cover her chest with her hands. However, this small move aroused strong dissatisfaction among some netizens, and harsh words such as "pretentious" and "deliberate" instantly emerged.
Obviously, Ms. Di Lieba did not voluntarily wear such revealing clothing, but reluctantly obeyed the arrangement of the company and the brand. However, this was interpreted by some netizens as "overdressing".
Through this incident, it is not difficult for us to find that these people with a bad mentality have a view of the world full of dirt.
What's even more distressing is that actresses such as Guan Tingna and Di Lieba who have suffered similar difficulties are by no means unique in the entertainment industry. When we enjoyed the TV series "Country Love Story", Ms. Guan Tingna's proud figure once again aroused heated discussions among netizens.
When the host invited her to the stage to receive the award, she couldn't help but sigh: "This lady has a big heart. As soon as these words came out, the audience couldn't help laughing, and Ms. Guan Tingna herself was embarrassed.
In the face of these unfair remarks, Ms. Guan Tingna firmly chose to face them calmly. Although her outstanding figure brought her a lot of "peach news" troubles, she still won the love of the audience with her superb acting skills.
However, it is a pity that even though Ms. Guan Tingna has made outstanding achievements in her acting career, those overwhelming "foul language" have not stopped attacking her.
In the face of these deeply painful incidents, we have to ponder deeply: Today's entertainment industry situation is actually full of anger! In addition to relying on their outstanding professional skills and unremitting hard work to win proud figures and remarkable achievements, female film stars also need to endure misinterpretation and shame torture from all walks of life.
What is even more tragic is that this naked discrimination and unequal treatment of women is not only limited to the specific world of entertainment, but also a similar phenomenon in the real life of each of us.
Back in a case last year, it was shocking. When a young girl was picking up a package at a community express service center, she was secretly photographed by a male employee and posted it to an online platform, as if it had been fabricated as a scandal of "cheating".
Although the man was severely punished by the law in the end, the loss of reputation and psychological trauma suffered by this innocent lady could not be soothed in a short time.
What is even more puzzling is that there are still some people who stubbornly insist that "she must be too pretentious to attract malicious attacks from others".
This absurd concept of "victim guilt" is not only popular in online public opinion, but also can be seen everywhere in real life. Those who generalize are always eager to put all kinds of negative labels on women, such as "hypocrisy", "artificiality", etc., all blame themselves.
They seem to have forgotten that girls are only engaged in the most mundane things in their daily lives, but they are hurt by their beauty and kindness.
At the Golden Eagle Festival ceremony in 2022, Di Lieba made a stunning appearance in a gorgeous dress, which aroused the fanatical pursuit of photographers. In order to avoid walking naked, she had to cover her chest with her hands.
It is a pity that this small move immediately aroused strong criticism from some netizens, and slanderous words such as "hypocrisy" and "contrived" poured in like a tide.
In fact, Di Lieba was not willing to wear such revealing clothing, but was forced by the pressure of the company and the brand. However, this has been misinterpreted by some as "overdressing".
If we can look at this question from a new perspective, then should these high-profile female stars really suffer all the suffering?
Isn't it the endless pain of society that they are just engaged in their acting careers, or are living the most ordinary daily lives, and they are being hurt for no reason just because of their unique charm?