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Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

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Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

Ni Ping walked onto the CCTV stage she was familiar with with with a steady and firm pace, looked around, and looked at the packed audience, her eyes couldn't help but become moist.

This old man, who has entered her prime, once again set foot in the place that made her famous, and reunite with old friends, and those past times replay in her mind like a movie.

"Dear friends," Ni Ping sighed with affection after she stood still, "I was born in an extremely poor family. Her words are full of life frustrations, "My parents are struggling to make ends meet all day, and the living conditions at home are stretched."

She paused for a moment, a look of pain on her face, "The most embarrassing thing is that my mother did have a patriarchal concept back then, and she doted on my brother even more.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

That deep loneliness and longing for attention is still clearly visible today. It was this confusion that made the immature Ni Ping have the courage to ask her grandmother for the reason behind this unfairness.

"That's what Grandma answered me at the time," Ni Ping took a deep breath, her eyes darkening, "She told me that your mother didn't even have the opportunity to taste the bottom of fried cabbage and milk in order for you to survive.

These words were like a thunderbolt from the sky, instantly shattering Ni Ping's beautiful fantasies in her childhood. "I suddenly realized that my mother's life was so difficult..."Recalling the past, her eyes couldn't help but be filled with tears.

From that moment on, Ni Ping seemed to grow up overnight, and she began to bravely take on the trivial chores at home and do her best to reduce her mother's burden.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

Ni Ping's emotional path is also full of twists and turns, and she has experienced three failed marriages in her life.

The first relationship stemmed from her first love. At that time, she fell in love with comedian Guo Da, who was at the peak of his career at the time, and the two spent a secret and romantic time in love.

Guo Da is funny and humorous, and he is deeply loved by Ni Ping.

However, when they decided to enter the palace of marriage, they were strongly opposed by both families, and various reasons plagued the young couple in love.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

In the end, they could only choose to break up helplessly, and Ni Ping ended this sweet relationship with endless sadness.

In 1991, Ni Ping, who had already made a name for herself, fell into a scandal again, this time with the famous director Chen Kaige. At that time, Chen Kaige had just ended his first marriage and was at a low point in his life.

Ni Ping's career is gradually climbing to new heights, and she has achieved an outstanding reputation. The audience was full of praise for this humorous host, and was deeply attracted by her colorful personal experience.

Chen Kaige's unique talent and strong attraction fascinated Ni Ping, and finally broke the kettle and made a shocking decision - she gave up the hosting career she had worked so hard to build, and lived in Chen Kaige's spacious and bright apartment without hesitation, opening a new chapter of living together with him.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

However, the trick of fate did not end there. When Chen Kaige's father unfortunately passed away, Ni Ping stepped forward and went all out to manage the funeral, showing the responsibility of a filial daughter-in-law.

People thought that this loving couple would walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand, but unexpectedly, just when Ni Ping was full of longing, Chen Kaige suddenly proposed to break up.

The reason for the breakup turned out to be that he had fallen in love with the young and beautiful actress Chen Hong.

"During that time, my heart endured unprecedented pain, and I couldn't help but ask myself, no matter how much I paid, I was always the one who hurt in the end?" recalling that painful moment, Ni Ping's eyes flashed with crystal tears.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

After two years of painful struggle, in 1996, they had to choose to officially part ways. Soon after the breakup, Chen Kaige and Chen Hong held a grand wedding in the United States, and read the affectionate vow of "never divorce", which undoubtedly demonstrated Ni Ping's sincere and pure love back then.

Ni Ping's third marriage originated from a recommendation from a director's friend. At that time, she was physically and mentally exhausted, and she was alone with the responsibility of the family. Soon after his son Xiaohu was born, he suffered from congenital cataracts, which seriously affected his vision.

In order to treat her child, she had to leave her hometown to seek medical advice, and even resigned from her beloved CCTV job. The high cost of medical treatment eventually led to the breakdown of her relationship with her husband, and Xiaohu could only follow her back and forth between China and the United States, almost cutting off contact with her biological father.

Just when Ni Ping was suffering physically and mentally, Yang Yaya, a well-known director who had worked with her many times, proposed to her. At this time, Ni Ping felt extremely lonely and urgently needed the care and care of others, so she agreed to Yang Yaya without hesitation.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

Just a few months later, the two completed their wedding in a low-key manner. This became the last chance in Ni Ping's life, and she finally found her own happiness.

Ni Ping, a resilient and brave woman, took on all the heavy responsibilities of the family. When her baby son Xiaohu was born, misfortune befell them - he was diagnosed with severe congenital cataracts, which undoubtedly dealt a huge blow to the family, especially for Ni Ping, who had just become a mother! This situation seriously affected Xiaohu's eyesight.

Even more distressing, the best opportunity for treatment was missed because it was detected too late. At that time, the medical conditions and technical level in China could not provide effective treatment options for Xiaohu.

Seeing the child's condition deteriorating day by day, Ni Ping's heart felt like it was torn, and she could only do her best to cross thousands of mountains and rivers to find that glimmer of hope to save her life.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

The journey was more arduous than we could have imagined. The high medical costs are millions of dollars, which is undoubtedly a heavy burden on this young family.

Coupled with physical and mental exhaustion and overwork, Ni Ping and her husband finally chose to part ways in 2005, and Xiaohu could only follow his mother to seek medical treatment between China and the United States, and almost cut off contact with his father.

As a mother, Ni Ping did her best, even at the expense of selling her property and property, just to fight for a glimmer of life for her son. However, fate is so cruel, even after paying the tragic price of family ruin, Xiaohu's condition still has no chance of being completely cured, and can only be temporarily controlled.

This period is undoubtedly the most painful and desperate period in Ni Ping's life.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

Despite countless hardships and setbacks, Ni Ping did not bow to fate. On the contrary, she bravely faces everything with an optimistic and open-minded attitude, and welcomes life with a positive attitude.

When asked if she had undergone plastic surgery, Ni Ping did not shy away from it, and frankly admitted that she had indeed undergone facial fine-tuning, "When people reach a certain age, they will naturally change, which is a very normal phenomenon" She said with a smile, with a calm look in her eyes, looking at her bright eyes, people seem to be able to feel an unprecedented ease, joy and satisfaction from the depths of the soul, like a phoenix nirvana, rejuvenating the vitality of life.

It is this frank and easy-going personality that makes Ni Ping a cordial image of "Ni Yiyi" in the minds of the audience. In various variety shows, her interactions with junior hosts are full of humor.

Whenever everyone appreciated her humorous side, the applause and laughter on the scene suddenly turned into a warm atmosphere, and the atmosphere seemed extremely joyful.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

Some praised her as an energetic, honest and enthusiastic child, clean and willing to share her joys and sorrows.

This reflects that Ni Ping's unique character traits have been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Even during the interview, when asked about her bumpy past, Ni Ping never showed any inferiority complex.

On the contrary, she unabashedly opened her heart and affectionately recounted those years full of ups and downs.

When talking about her two ex-husbands, although her voice is slightly choked, her eyes show openness and relief, not resentment. "I have never regretted the decisions I made, because the beginning and end of every relationship is an important life experience for me.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

Ni Ping said firmly, "It is these experiences that have shaped me today."

Indeed, the road of life is always full of twists and turns. Ni Ping has gone through countless hardships, but in the end she has learned to face reality bravely and love life positively.

Her optimism, perseverance, and relentless pursuit of beautiful things are undoubtedly the most precious treasures of her life.

It was these difficult experiences that made Ni Ping finally realize the true meaning of life. In an interview with "Super Interview" in 2011, when asked what happened to her in the first half of her life, she was silent for a long time, took a deep breath, and then slowly said: "If there is an afterlife, I am willing to give up the concern of my parents, children, and even the whole family."

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

This shocking sentence is the precious life wisdom that Ni Ping has learned from the setbacks. She finally understands that in order to realize true self-worth and live their own life, sometimes people must choose to break free from the shackles of family affection.

Ni Ping, who has longed for more love from her mother since she was a child but has never been able to do so, has repeatedly screamed helplessly against the ruthless accusations of fate in her long life journey.

Her brother has been her mother's treasure since she was a child, but she can only pick up the love left by her brother.

That deep sense of emptiness haunted her for a long time, prompting her to look forward to the next life to be completely free from the shackles of her family.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

And the two failed marriages made her deeply aware of the importance of independence.

After all, under the careful care and encouragement of her husband Yang Yaya, she discovered her own warm world. Looking at the past years, Ni Ping's calm eyes once again flashed with wisdom.

Today's Ni Ping has been able to deal with all kinds of ups and downs in life calmly, and enthusiastically advocates everyone to stand up, show their personality, live a wonderful life, and not be bound by fate and family affection.

"Everyone's life journey is unique, and we should cherish the present and love it, rather than be overshadowed by the past. This is Ni Ping's deep feeling from the heart.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

Their generation has personally experienced the earth-shaking changes in China and experienced the vicissitudes of life. However, because of these, they know more about how to love life and how to welcome the light.

There is no doubt that Ni Ping's life is full of hardships and challenges. From the poverty of the family in childhood, the misunderstanding of her mother, to the twists and turns on the emotional road, and the troubles of her son's illness, she has overcome them one by one with perseverance and perseverance.

In the face of the relentless blow of fate, Ni Ping never gave in. She always maintains a positive attitude, embraces life with a warm personality like sunshine, and shows a unique sense of humor and innocent loveliness.

Even when recalling the pain of the past in the interview, Ni Ping did not hide her true feelings and shed tears frankly. However, more than that, it is the renewed confidence and anticipation for the future in her eyes.

Ni Ping: If I had a next life, I would choose neither a father nor a child, let alone a family

"The road of life is not always easy, and we will always stumble. Ni Ping said with a smile, "But as long as you dare to face the reality and face it bravely, you will definitely be able to find your own happiness."

It is with this optimistic belief that Ni Ping reaped happiness in her third marriage, and she and her husband Yang Yaya were in love, injecting endless vitality into each other's lives.

Therefore, when we look back on Ni Ping's bumpy life, we should pay more attention to her persistent pursuit of a better future, and the life inspiration it brings us: everyone should be brave enough to live themselves and embrace their own happy life.

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