Don't get too involved in your child's life journey! Everyone has their own mission and path, and excessive worry may not bring benefits. Too much intervention will only shackle

Don't get too involved in your child's life journey! Everyone has their own mission and path, and excessive worry may not bring benefits. Too much intervention will only restrict the child's free play, and under the interweaving of multiple forces, the flower of life may bloom deformedly.

A child's life is not completely controlled by the parents. As the years go by, parents should gradually loosen the string in their hands and let their children fly freely. Even if your advice is correct, your child may not accept it, and if it is wrong, it may mislead him/her direction. Many times, your painstaking teachings are just trying to control the child's will, to bind his soul, and to make him lose his true self. You let him go east, but he leans west, you persuade him to go to bed early, but he stays up late, you don't want him to hit a wall, but he insists on moving forward.

The real responsibility of parents is to continue to grow and improve themselves, to lead by example, to pass on positive energy, not to force their children. What can be understood, the child will change, and what cannot be understood, can only go with the flow and wait for the opportunity. Venerable Hongyi once said: 'Don't force others to awaken, everyone has their own ferry, and they need to experience, understand, try and make mistakes, fail, and get hurt, this is the only way to go through life.' ’

Don't involve other people's cause and effect, don't disturb others' qi, otherwise you will consume your own blessings. Everyone has their own moment of awakening, cause and effect are irreversible, wisdom cannot be given, the true Dharma cannot be spoken, and it is difficult for those who have no fate to cross.

Turn your eyes to yourself, love yourself, pursue your heart's desires, taste your favorite food, wear your favorite clothes, travel with light makeup, and gallop in the workplace. Enjoy the weekend with your best friends. As a mother, when you continue to please yourself, improve yourself, reward yourself, and become the best version of yourself, you will find that your children will follow suit, and grow up naturally and healthily. This is the success of cultivation.