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Artistic life
When it comes to her love life, Yan Bingyan has a solemn expression and frowns slightly. "I'm 49 years old and still unmarried, which is the biggest regret of my life. She lowered her eyes, and her tone was a little annoyed and helpless.
When she was young, she had to give up many opportunities for career development and love life in order to take care of her sick mother with all her might. After her mother's death, she once desperately hoped to get married as soon as possible, but repeatedly hit a wall.
"The more you rush to achieve success, the harder it is to meet the right person. Yan Bingyan hooked the corners of her mouth self-deprecatingly, her eyes were firm, "Now I have given up and devoted all my energy to my career."
Yan Bingyan's tenacious personality can be traced back to her childhood experience of being bullied at school. She recalled the time when she was called a "hillbilly" by her classmates and ostracized in elementary school, and a hint of perseverance flashed in her eyes.
"At first, I swallowed my anger, but one time I couldn't bear it anymore and I swung a brick and injured my bully. Since then, no one has dared to provoke me in the slightest.
In order to cultivate her gentle feminine side, her mother sent her to dance training classes when she was a child. Unexpectedly, Yan Bingyan became interested in this and wanted to become a professional dancer wholeheartedly.
"When I was 11 years old, I was admitted to the Beijing Song and Dance Troupe with perseverance and perseverance, thus starting a long and rugged road of dance.
Although her family is poor, Yan Bingyan saves a part of her living expenses every month, and when she arrives at the holidays, she brings some small gifts home to her parents. At the age of 22, she inadvertently entered the film industry and became an instant hit.
This made her resolutely quit her dance job and devote herself to the acting industry.
Since then, Yan Bingyan has been striving for perfection in every role, endlessly correcting her flaws. In 1998, the TV series "Red Cross Team" starring her was broadcast, which triggered an unprecedented ratings boom and was known as the originator of mainland idol dramas.
At the peak of her life, her mother fell seriously ill unexpectedly. Yan Bingyan resolutely resigned from her eight-year acting job and fully accompanied her mother for treatment. Recalling those difficult years, she choked up and said, "If my mother hadn't been sick back then, I would have achieved even more today."
But I don't regret it, because this experience has given me more precious things.
A unique friendship with Li Naiwen
mentioned actor Li Naiwen, Yan Bingyan couldn't help but have a smile on her face. In 2007, the two co-starred in the movie "Teeth of Love" for the first time as a couple.
"Remember the kiss scene?" Yan Bingyan looked at the other party gently, and her tone was slightly joking, "You touched my lips with your teeth unfamiliarly, and I couldn't help but grin at that time, and I gasped in pain.
Over the years, the duo, who have been hailed as a "model couple" by the outside world, have played couples in many film and television works, and they have been wonderful time and time again. In addition to tacit cooperation, their appearance is also more than enough.
It is worth mentioning that in the masterpiece "Ten Thousand Arrows Pierce the Heart", in order to be able to interpret the role vividly, Yan Bingyan even paid tens of thousands of yuan out of her own pocket to buy a realistic wig prop for herself.
Li Naiwen sincerely admires her ultimate pursuit of art, which is far more important than anything else.
In fact, both men have great respect and appreciation for each other's professionalism. Yan Bingyan said with emotion: "Li Naiwen's persistent pursuit of art is on par with me, and this insistence is difficult for many people to understand.
Li Naiwen said: "We have been able to work together for so many years because we have a common understanding and pursuit of the same work, and we coincide in artistic concepts.
Years of cooperation and personal friendship have allowed the two to establish a unique bond that goes beyond friendship. When asked if she would become lovers like the plot in the play, Yan Bingyan smiled implicitly and did not seem to give a negative answer.
A turning point brought about by the mother's illness
Recalling that heart-wrenching episode, Yan Bingyan's face was gloomy, and her eyes were full of tears. "That day, the doctor told me that my mother was terminally ill and would not live long.
She hung her head and choked up, "I was almost devastated, and after standing outside the operating room for more than seven hours, in a daze, realized that this might be the last time."
Yan Bingyan, who has been working away from home since she was a child, has always been pitifully estranged from her mother. However, in the face of her mother's dangerous illness, she decisively gave up all her work and went all out to accompany her mother for treatment.
For this decision, she had to temporarily say goodbye to the stage for eight years.
Recalling the days when she was young and working in the Beijing Song and Dance Troupe, her tone couldn't help but reveal a hint of nostalgia: "At that time, our living conditions were very poor, and we only had a meal ticket of 50 yuan and a meager subsidy of 1 yuan a month.
"But I always save some and buy some small gifts for my parents during the holidays, so that the family's financial situation will be better."
Taking care of her sick mother was the most difficult and torturous time for Yan Bingyan. Due to the high cost of medical care, she had to take care of her mother while earning money part-time, and as long as she had free time at work, she would take on some small roles.
"Sometimes it's very hot, and I have to keep wiping her sweat in front of my mother's bedside to cool her down. Yan Bingyan covered her forehead, as if she could still recall the difficult scenes of the year, "There were several times when I couldn't sleep for several days and nights, and I could only rely on taking nutritional supplements to maintain my strength.
"I watched her condition go back and forth every day, and that feeling of helplessness and despair really made people question whether they still had the courage to continue living. Yan Bingyan choked up and couldn't continue, tears burst out of her eyes.
Fortunately, she finally survived, and her mother survived for 8 more years under her careful care.
Before her mother died, she tried her best to ask her to get married quickly, but Yan Bingyan was so focused on taking care of her mother that she didn't think about it at all.
Until one night after her mother's death, she suddenly became melancholy: "If I had married and had children earlier, maybe my mother would still be able to see her grandchildren when she was alive."
So, she began to pursue her love life desperately, trying to make up for this regret, but the more so, the more difficult it became.
Now 49 years old, she is still unmarried, but the unforgettable experience of her life has gained more precious things.