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In recent years, Zhao Huiping always feels that time flies quickly, and every year when she comes back from Sanya, it is more than half of March, and a quarter of the year is over.
When we come back, it's spring, spring and summer alternate, and when the weather gets hot, it's half of the year.
The epidemic is getting more and more fierce, I don't go out at home every day, I don't know what the days have become, what day of the day of the week is today, I am completely confused.
Close your eyes and live your life, where you go.
Since the lockdown of Wuhan, Zhao Huiping has not returned to her mother's house, the big mound at the entrance of the village, it is inconvenient to enter and exit, and her parents do not let her go back.
One is worried that it is unsafe for her to run back and forth, and the other is distressed that she is tired from running at work.
The city has changed so much, the former prosperity is gone, and everywhere is deserted.
In June, nucleic acid huts quietly appeared on the streets, and from then on, you can walk from the community to the door of the community.
When you go home, you have to scan the code, and you can't get in if you don't scan.
Therefore, everything is unified, and it is easy to manage when you get used to it.
The notice was issued from above, three days for three days, five days for five days, seven days for seven days, ten days for ten days, and even one day off.
No one will challenge, after all, a green code is free, and a red code is difficult to move an inch.
I am sighing at the power of big data, I heard that you can know it at a certain time, when you go to the toilet in a certain place, it's terrible.
Wen Hui said: "This is nothing unusual, we use mobile phones, as long as there is a network, it is to run naked on the Internet, you are still hidden in life, it is not important to you, once you become important, how can there be privacy at all!"
Zhao Huiping suddenly felt that what Wen Hui said was very level.
I have to do nucleic acid every morning, and the notice from above says that the whole city is nucleic acid, silent.
If you change the soup and don't change the medicine, silence is a lockdown, but it sounds a little better.
There are volunteers wearing red armbands on patrol in the community, and they are not allowed to gather in groups, and it is best not to appear in the community, and they have to go home immediately after doing nucleic acid.
Sometimes if you want to take a walk, you will be persuaded, and the corners of Wen Hui's disdainful mouth will reach her ears, "What is the difference between this and those people at that time?
Amanda leaned at Wen Hui, "That must be different!"
Wen Hui said: "What's the difference? Our country is like this, there is no worst, it will only be worse, look at foreign countries, it's similar to a small cold, we have someone to worry about." ”
Amanda said, "That's a bit inappropriate. ”
Wen Hui said: "This is all a fact, and you don't go out, I don't know anything, I tell you, now everyone who has the conditions to go out, really, it's not good to go out now, but whenever there is a chance, who will stay, the pressure is too great, and the living environment is not good." ”
Amanda said: "That's not it, then people who are abroad now, want to come back, but can't come back! ”
Wen Hui smiled and said: "Hey Amanda, I found that you are quite patriotic? You are still young, you don't understand many things, when you have a child, you will think about him, what kind of road he will take in the future, what kind of track he chooses, not that he will do it, it is you, it is you who will help him choose, help him make decisions." ”
Amanda said, "Forget it, don't have children." ”
Wen Hui said: "You, you are still young, you ask the eldest sister." ”
Zhao Huiping was eating chicken feet, and was watching the play, when she was suddenly named, she looked confused, "Huh, ask me what?"
Wen Hui said: "If you have the opportunity to go abroad now so that your children can receive foreign education and work abroad, would you be willing?"
Zhao Huiping laughed, "I'm afraid I won't have this opportunity in my life." ”
Wen Hui said, "What if." ”
This hiding can't be avoided, Zhao Huiping said: "If you have the opportunity to live a better life, who doesn't want to, the water flows to a high place, but to be honest, the two of us are older, I just have that heart, and I may not be able to take it away." ”
Wen Hui said: "Eldest sister, you can't, you're too traditional, I don't understand, I told you Amanda really, no, you look at the current market, my store used to have 500,000 running water, a month, a month, now you can sell 50,000 for the New Year, 20,000 is rare, people don't need it? Why did they need it before, but now they don't need it? It's not that they don't need it, it's that people don't consume anymore, it's more rational, why does this happen? Because money is so hard to earn, do you know how many companies have closed down in the past two years, how many people have been laid off, and they have no jobs? You just don't know the danger of the situation if you don't go out of society!"
After cleaning up after dinner, Zhao Huiping took a shower and lay on the bed, chewed Wen Hui's words repeatedly, turned on the light, and took out a pair of pants from the shopping cart.
Money is really getting harder and harder to earn, although her salary has not changed, but consumption is upgrading, she wants to hope that if she is admitted to graduate school, silently if she is admitted to university, which is a lot of money.
At this time, the mortgage on her shoulders made her feel extremely heavy.
Zhao Huiping usually doesn't pay much attention to political news, she feels that those who are too far away from her, ordinary people, it is difficult to earn three meals a day, how can they have time to pay attention to national affairs.
Amanda is different, she is young, she is a party member, she has infinite possibilities, she has a good education, she is a good patriotic young man.
This is the hope of society, looking at her expression and sharp teeth playing against Wen Hui, Amanda can't look down on Wen Hui from the bottom of her heart.
Loose and tight, it looks like it's going to pass, and it will come back in a few days, and the most important thing for everyone every day is to see the new and flow.
All kinds of strange lives were used to judge, and when Zhao Huiping and her mother called, she told her something.
said that a woman in her hometown went to the city to find a classmate, and the result was diagnosed, and the results of the investigation showed that the two people were shopping in the mall, eating in a restaurant, and going home for a small gathering, while the classmate's wife was on a business trip at that time.
said that after the diagnosis, the results of the investigation came out, and the woman could not bear the pressure and attempted suicide.
Zhao Huiping was shocked and asked her mother again and again, "Really, is it true?"
Her mother said, "Really, my hometown knows about it, and it's a shame." ”
Speaking of this at the dinner table, Wen Hui said: "Isn't this normal? Now there are so many people open, but then again, the man's wife may not know." ”
Zhao Huiping looked like she had never seen a written word, and her mouth was open, "Really?"
Amanda said: "It is said that the marriage rate is low now, and with such an atmosphere, who dares to get married, people have become animals, and there is no need to get married." ”
Wen Hui said: "Marriage is a symbol of civilization, monogamy is also reasonable, do you know that there was a matrilineal society at the earliest, why did it become a patriarchal society?"
Amanda said, "I don't know. ”
Wen Hui said, "You are a graduate student, don't you know?"
Amanda said: "I don't know my blind spots. ”
Zhao Huiping said: "It's normal to transition to the paternal line, men are more powerful after all." ”
Wen Hui said: "No, it's because later, I can't recognize my own children, because women have absolute authority, they can have children with any man they like, if they go back and don't get married, this society will be chaotic sooner or later, without civilization, there will be no development!"
Zhao Huiping said: "Really? This is too exaggerated. ”
Wen Hui smiled and said: "Eldest sister, have you opened the door to a new world, you are the kind of traditional woman, in ancient times, you are the kind of person who does not go down to the embroidery building, do you know?"
Zhao Huiping said: "No, I often fantasize that if I were born in ancient times, I would definitely be a heroine who walked the world with a sword." ”
Wen Hui said: "If you go to the end of the world with a sword, can't you go first? If you don't go out every day, where will you go to the end of the world?" ”
Zhao Huiping said: "I can't get out, where am I going, I'm going to work! Express delivery for a while, errands for a while, and the driver for a while to deliver things, as soon as I go out, there is something at home, I'm not at home, are you willing?"
Wen Hui said: "Yes, so, I want to take you when I go out, and it's good to go out to get some air." ”
Every day at home, everyone is very depressed, when eating, as long as they sit together, they talk nonsense, from Guangdong to the Northeast, from spring to winter, from politicians to celebrities, after talking about national events, then talking about parents, talking about good play, and then talking about delicious food.
Every day is like a tea party, and Zhao Huiping doesn't even have time for lunch break recently.
Wen Hui is good at this, she doesn't have the burden of a boss lady, she says everything, and mingles with them.
No matter how fierce the trouble is outside, he can't delay Mr. Zhuo's affairs, he has a certificate of livelihood work, and he comes and goes freely outside every day.
talked a lot, everyone seemed to have forgotten the identity gap between them, and the matter of Yan Yan going out to school was mentioned again.
Wen Hui said: "As long as the country is opened, go out immediately, this time, I am ready." ”
Zhao Huiping said: "Then will you go out with Yan Yan then?"
Wen Hui said: "It's possible to go out, my mother doesn't go, she is still young now, she doesn't need anyone to take care of her, we all leave, I accompany the study, and my father runs in both places." ”
Zhao Huiping said: "What about us? Amanda and I, will we be the next household at that time? Then you have to tell me in advance." ”
Wen Hui said: "The plan can't catch up with the changes, I haven't thought about it yet, I'll talk about it when the time comes, if it's settled, I'll tell you." ”
When there is no clear direction for this matter, Zhao Huiping often feels at a loss when she thinks about it, and after staying in Wen Hui's house for a long time, she is a little greedy, a little inert, and the fear of changing orders is also dominating her.
It's not easy to find a suitable employer, the aunts with Yan Yan are changing one after another, and the teachers are not long in coming, and she herself is teasing herself.
The nursery teacher of flowing water, Zhao Huiping, who is beaten by iron, the reason why she can do it for so long is because she is relatively free in Wenhui's house, and her work is relatively easy.
Wen Hui treats her well, except for occasionally going crazy, in the aunt circle, Wen Hui is a high-quality employer.
The epidemic is more serious this year than the previous two years, and Wen Hui's store can't wait until after the eleventh day, in her words: "Every day the store is closed and not allowed to open, the employees don't go to work, and the salary has to be paid, according to the current situation, it may not be better for three or two years." ”
She and Jiajia led people to take inventory, distributed the goods to the stores that remained, and quickly closed the four.
The clerks of the four companies were compensated accordingly in accordance with the provisions of the labor law.
Zhao Huiping felt that Wenhui was still more suitable for shopping malls, and she was nervous about trivial things at home.
And as soon as she went out, put on makeup and dressed up, her momentum came out, she was listless at home every day, she couldn't lift her energy, and she felt like she owed a sigh of relief when she spoke.
It's just been a few days since school started, and I've started online classes again, and after a few days of quiet at home, I'm starting to jump again.
Wen Hui said: "If I didn't want to go out, I would have changed houses, and I didn't even have a study, could he calm down and study?"
Mr. Zhuo said: "What does learning have to do with the study, he is taking online classes outside, and no one at home disturbs him, don't make this matter too big, the child is still young, online classes are not a thing, it's almost." ”
Wen Hui said: "You really don't hurt when you stand and talk, you go out every day, how do you know my pain at home? ”
Mr. Zhuo said: "You just do your own thing, the teacher is with you, so you don't care." ”
Yan Yan has a bright brain, quick reactions, and a good memory, but he is unwilling to write.
Writing a word Amanda will have to coax for a long time, if you say something wrong, let him change it again, it will simply kill him.
Every morning, after class and homework, the two of them are fighting wits and courage, Amanda is so angry that she can't do it, if Yan Yan loses his temper, she will let him go to the penalty station.
Grandma's angry teeth itched, and she said to Zhao Huiping in private: "She knows that there is no way to let Yan Yan punish the station, it is not as good as me, Yan Yan eats soft or not hard, she just has to coax." ”
Zhao Huiping just smiled, coaxed, and punished is not a long-term solution, sometimes she thinks that her own two children have no one to take care of, and it will not be so difficult.
At lunchtime, Wen Hui said: "Now that online classes are becoming more and more frequent, teachers have gone to the sea, and now there are intermediaries who specialize in transporting teachers, do you know?"
Zhao Huiping said: "What's the matter? part-time work or home?"
Wen Hui said: "Yes, it depends on your needs!"
Zhao Huiping said: "Whether it's going to class or accompanying students, I think it's quite good like Amanda." ”
Wen Hui waved her hand and said: "That's different, it's still different, the teacher at the school, at least she knows how to deal with all kinds of children, because they have seen a lot, they know the rules to make a child change, and what method is the most effective." ”
When these words came out, Zhao Huiping knew that she wanted to change teachers again, and she must have seen the right one.
Zhao Huiping has spent more time with Wen Hui over the years than with Liu Quansheng.
A familiar action with each other, a glance can know the general meaning.
But he couldn't figure out what Wen Hui was thinking, why she thought that changing teachers could change Yanyan, but she never wanted it to be a problem for her parents.
She has money, and there is nothing wrong with her using money to serve herself, but the fault is that she let the teacher have full authority to discipline Yanyan, and she only observes as a bystander, clapping her hands or slapping the table.
It was another seven-day quiet period, and I came back in the morning after going to do nucleic acid, Yanyan, grandma and Amanda had not yet packed up.
At noon, Mr. Zhuo had to eat at home, and Zhao Huiping had to prepare in advance, waiting for them to be together, grinding and chirping, and it was half an hour after they were done.
Grandma asked her, "Are there many people?"
Zhao Huiping said: "It's okay, but it's a lot, you have to queue up for half an hour!"
Yan Yan said, "Then let's go back in half an hour, shall we?"
Amanda said, "Hurry up, you'll have to go back to class." ”
Grandma said, "Tell him well, why are you always impatient?"
Amanda stood up, took her mask, put on her shoes, opened the door and stood outside, "I'll be waiting for you guys outside." ”
She didn't even bother to take her grandmother's words.
There are so many aunts and teachers, and they all get along well with Zhao Huiping, but only Amanda, the two of them usually barely communicate.
I haven't quarreled, I haven't had contradictions, I just don't know which link went wrong, it's awkward.
Wen Hui has been talking to Amnada lately to analyze where Yanyan's problem is.
Wen Hui sat on the couch and Amanda sat on the carpet across from her.
Zhao Huiping watched her young face gradually darken.
Early in the morning, Amanda asked Yan Yan to read English picture books, because he didn't write yesterday's reading notes, and he also needed to accumulate small practice pens.
But Yan Yan is unwilling, the process of online classes at home is to eat first, then do nucleic acid, and play for a while by the way.
Reading early in the morning, he felt offended, holding a book in his hand, lying on the sofa, rolling and crying, "Oh, why do you get up and read?"
Amanda said, "This is what you didn't finish yesterday, did you promise your mother that it would be done this morning, how can you not talk?"
Yan Yan said: "Then you can't study all morning, where can I have the strength if I don't eat? I won't be allowed to play for five minutes!"
Grandma stood on the edge of the island and said, "This morning, it has started again, hey!"
Zhao Huiping smiled, and her grandmother said, "I woke up my mother for a while, and I have to be criticized again." ”
She said to Amanda, "You can't coax him, him, why doesn't he cry." ”
Amanda walked over from the couch, "I'm limited in my ability, you can coax me." ”
Grandma put the water cup on the island hard, "I'm going to coax you? If I do, what do you want you to do? Give him a high salary, not just let you take him to eat, drink and have fun, do you calculate that you really took him to study for a few days?"
Amanda said, "You don't care about it, and you didn't pay me the salary." ”
Grandma said: "The salary is not from me, Yan Yan is my grandson, if you don't take him well, you are wrong." ”
Amanda said, "Which eye did you see that I didn't take him properly?" ”
Grandma said: "You don't have to worry about it, everyone can see it, let him scream in the morning, I don't know what to think." ”
Grandma turned around and left, leaving Amanda alone at the kitchen door.
Yan Yan got down from the sofa and walked over to her, "Amanda, what are you doing standing here?" I want to eat, Aunt Ping, isn't the meal okay yet?"
Zhao Huiping shoveled out the fried eggs in the pot, okay, when I bake the bread crispy, I can start the meal. ”
Yan Yan reluctantly said, "Ah, how many minutes will it take?"
Zhao Huiping said: "Two minutes, two minutes is fine." ”
Amanda said: "It's going to take two minutes, you can finish reading the picture book first, and after reading and eating, you won't be in a hurry to do nucleic acid." ”
Yan Yan didn't read, "I don't read, I'm going to wait for dinner." ”
Amanda said: "If you don't read, your mother will wake up and argue with me again, I'm a stupid hat, it's not easy to earn your family's money, I didn't have that many jobs, look at the salary your mother gave, I'm sorry for my pay." ”
Amanda was whining, Zhao Huiping was listening, and by the time she reacted, Wen Hui was already standing on the stairs.
Wen Hui went downstairs, squatted down in front of Yan Yan and said, "What's the matter, you're unhappy early in the morning?"
I don't know if Wen Hui heard Amanda's complaints, and I don't know what will happen next, but Zhao Huiping knows it very well.
Wen Hui would never allow such a person to stay by her side, because of her childhood experience, what she was most afraid of was looking at other people's faces.
Now, it's clear that Amanda has made Yan Yan look good!
To be continued!
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