Who would have thought that Yan Shikui, an old drama bone with infinite scenery on stage, has experienced so much suffering behind him, and at the age of 67, he has not been married and has no children of his own.
His mother was heartbroken by this, and she was by his side at the age of eighty, and she didn't dare to grow old at all, and the words she said were even more poignant.
What kind of hardships did Yan Shikui experience in his life? What kind of sad words did his mother say?
The 12-year marriage ushered in such an ending
Is Yan Shikui really single until now? Actually, this is not the case, he once had a marriage that lasted for 12 years, but the ending of this marriage was not so happy.
Yan Shikui first met Xu Zhiwei in the crew of "Children of Bashan", Xu Zhiwei was still a little-known young actor at that time, and she often asked Yan Shikui for advice on acting in her free time, because Yan Shikui at that time was already an old actor with superb acting skills.
In constant contact, Xu Zhiwei fell in love with the talented Yan Shikui, but what she didn't know was that Yan Shikui had also fallen in love with her, so the two came together naturally, and the relationship between the two after the relationship was confirmed, and in just two years, the two got married.
After getting married, the relationship between the two people has not changed in the slightest, it is still very sweet, Xu Zhiwei will cook himself whenever he is free, cook a delicious meal for the two, Yan Shikui will also do what he can when he rests, and the two have basically never quarreled in the past 12 years of marriage.
Seeing this, you may wonder why the two people who got along so well didn't get together in the end, and the ultimate reason for the separation of the two was Yan Shikui's choice.
After the love stabilized, the careers of the two began to improve steadily, but the profession of an actor is more special, once the filming of a drama begins, the two cannot be together for a long time, and Yan Shikui was already very famous at that time, and relatively speaking, there were more days when he was not at home.
Although Xu Zhiwei didn't say it on the surface, he still hoped that her husband could take care of his family a little bit and care more about himself, but Yan Shikui was so focused on his career that he didn't notice the changes in his wife at all, even if Xu Zhiwei was considerate, he also had a temper.
So she told her husband that she was going to study abroad, she thought that the two of them had been together for so many years, no matter how she said it, her husband would say something to keep it, who knew that Yan Shikui didn't want to keep it at all, seeing Xu Zhiwei, who was acting like her husband, she strengthened her thoughts, and left directly.
Later, Yan Shikui finally understood the reason why his wife did that, but there is no regret medicine in the world, Xu Zhiwei has also started a new life abroad, and Yan Shikui has no way to save it.
As the saying goes, when God closes a door for you, he will open a window for you, but this sentence does not seem to apply to Yan Shikui, and his career path is also full of twists and turns.
A career path of twists and turns
Yan Shikui can embark on the road of an actor, and his family environment has a lot to do with his family environment, his father is a famous local dancer, very good at Mongolian dance, his grandfather is even more powerful, is the head of the local troupe, Yan Shikui, who grew up in such an environment, is very interested in art.
Soon he relied on his dancing strength to enter the song and dance troupe, at that time he was only 14 years old, and he was a relatively young actor in the song and dance troupe, but he relied on his superior dance strength to catch up with those dancers who were older and more senior than him, and won the recognition of the audience.
was able to achieve such an achievement at a young age, Yan Shikui became the envy of countless people, but in the year when the college entrance examination resumed, he gave up his achievements and applied for the Beijing Film Academy.
Powerful people will not be bad anywhere, he defeated more than 4,000 candidates, successfully entered this school, and became classmates with the now famous Zhang Tielin and others, officially opened his own path as an actor.
Yan Shikui is relatively good-looking, so during his school years, he got a lot of acting opportunities, although he played some small roles, but fortunately there have always been acting, and he has slowly gained some fame and became a more popular actor.
So he decided to go to a bigger stage to develop, and after entering the Emei Film Factory as he wished, he realized that society is different from school, and society pays more attention to human feelings.
He came here to act in a movie, not to do something inconsequential, Yan Shikui, who was fed up, decided to leave the film studio, who knew that he not only left the film studio, but also gave up his acting career and went into business instead.
This road is not so easy to walk, he has never been in contact with this industry, he does not have a keen business vision, and he can't grasp those fleeting business opportunities, he has been in this industry for nearly ten years, and all the stores he opened have ended up closing.
After many failures, Yan Shikui spent all the money he had earned over the years, and at this time, Yan Shikui realized that he was really not suitable for taking the road of business, so he should return to the acting industry he was good at, but the entertainment industry at this time was no longer the circle he was familiar with.
Every year, many people enter this industry, Yan Shikui, who has not appeared for many years, has long been forgotten by people, how can anyone remember his brilliant achievements back then, there are so many popular actors now, why look for an actor who doesn't know if he can be popular?
This is okay for Yan Shikui, he knows that he has been away from the showbiz for too long, and when he comes back, he is prepared for the worst, and the real blow is still to come.
Loved ones were in trouble
Yan Shikui entered the crew of "Iron Pear Flower" under the recommendation of a friend, in order to better show this character, he began to study the script seriously, just to show the best state when filming started, on the one hand, he didn't want to live up to the trust of his friends, and on the other hand, because the role he played this time was quite important.
When he had made all the preparations and planned to show off his strength in the new drama, he received a phone call, and when he heard the content of the call, he was stunned for a moment, it turned out that his sister had a car accident on the way off work, and she was seriously injured, and now she is being rescued, and she doesn't know if she can be saved.
Fortunately, the final result was good, after saving his sister's life, he was saved, but he became a vegetative person, because the brain tissue injury was too serious, and it was the best result to be able to save his life, but such a result was unbearable for the family, and they had no way to accept that their loved ones would be lying in the hospital bed forever.
But there is no way, life has to go on, and his sister's follow-up treatment still needs a lot of money, Yan Shikui has to work hard to make money, as long as he can act, no matter what kind of role, he can accept it, in order to reduce his mother's burden, he took time to take care of his sister while filming.
In ten years, they never thought of giving up on their sister, as long as there was a glimmer of hope, they would insist on treatment, even if they would spend all their family savings, but God was not moved by their persistence, and their sister finally left them, and Yan Shikui said goodbye to his sister in tears.
Yan Shikui, who lost his relatives, understood the importance of his relatives even more, but at this time, he had missed the best time to start a family because of years of fatigue, and in desperation, he publicly asked for marriage in a show, but at this time he was in his sixties, and it was too difficult to find a suitable partner.
Yan Shikui is still single, and his mother is afraid that there will be no one to accompany him after he dies, so she bluntly said that she didn't dare to let herself grow old. Yan Shikui's life can be said to be full of difficulties, love, career, and family affection are not very smooth, but he has not been defeated because of this, and he is still optimistic about life.
Yan Shikui's experience has also given us a great inspiration, how can someone's life is smooth sailing, no matter how glamorous people will have bad times, in the face of difficulties, we must calm our minds, actively work hard to solve difficulties, I believe that as long as we persist, there is no difficulty that cannot be solved.
I hope that Yan Shikui can successfully find a suitable other half and spend his old age peacefully!