Preface
If you want to talk about the "idol" of the 80s, Yan Shikui must have a certain weight in it, he used to be popular all over the "north and south of the country", not only is he handsome, but he can't find fault with his acting skills.
Even Yan Shikui, who is now in his 70s, still has a refined temperament, and he is really "handsome from small to old", but such an excellent person also has a pity.
That is, now at the age of 72, he not only does not have a child, but he is still single, obviously has excellent conditions, but Yan Shikui has never developed emotional experience after many years of divorce.
Many people persuaded Yan Shikui to find another person who could accompany him for a lifetime, but after looking at Yan Shikui's experience over the years, he realized that he didn't want to look for it, but "didn't dare" to find it......
After more than ten years of marriage, they have always been "respectful of each other"
Yan Shikui actually got married once decades ago, his ex-wife's name was Xu Zhiwei, and both of them were working in Emei Film Factory at the time, they were colleagues, and they had a common work experience.
Xu Zhiwei is also engaged in the work of an actor, and she is famous, her photos have also been put on the calendar, and the two of them met after a collaboration.
Yan Shikui and Xu Zhiwei are both "shy" people, in fact, both of them have a good impression of each other in their cooperation, but none of them choose to break this relationship.
They are of the same age, have the same interests and hobbies, and their personalities are also very similar, in the eyes of others, the two of them are a "match made in heaven", and no one else can match the two of them.
But what I didn't expect was that the married life of the two of them came to an end more than ten years later, and the reason was also because of these "similar" places.
At that time, Yan Shikui and Xu Zhiwei chose to get married not long after falling in love, both of them belong to people with literary talents and good tempers, in daily life, the two of them are not like other people's families will always have a little quarrel, and the lives of the two of them have been "plain as water".
Even if there is a disagreement, the two will not choose to quarrel, but sit down to negotiate a solution, such a life seems to be peaceful, but it always seems to lack some "fireworks".
After the two got married, because of their work, they actually spent very little time together, and they were both career-oriented at that time, and the two of them negotiated not to have children first.
But I didn't expect this "consultation", a discussion is 12 years, the two have been married for 12 years and have no children, but in the end what they are waiting for is the news that Xu Zhiwei wants to study abroad, of course, this matter "can't escape" is also a discussion.
For many years, the husband and wife have maintained a respectful attitude, obviously Yan Shikui wanted to say "stay", but the opening became "you go", and their marriage relationship ended a year after Xu Zhiwei went to study abroad.
The two of them chose to divorce peacefully, just like their marriage for so many years, more than ten years have passed without any waves, and the two people obviously love each other, but they are "separated" because their love cannot be spoken.
Later, Yan Shikui mentioned this past on the show, he only told the audience that "love must be said out loud", and he has never said "love" to Xu Zhiwei after being married for so many years, which is the thing he regrets the most.
And he didn't look for a reason why he could be with him for a lifetime, also because he encountered too many "twists and turns" later......
Ten years of "interrupted changes", and then returned to the entertainment industry to start again
Yan Shikui has actually been an actor for many years before marrying Xu Zhiwei, and his handsome face and upright temperament make him very popular in film and television dramas.
People like him almost don't pick the conditions for roles, and he can digest any role well, after all, the appearance of a man like him was once the most popular, and he can almost be used as a handsome template.
Because of this, he was able to rush out of more than 4,000 candidates when he took the Beiying exam, and Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin were his classmates and friends.
Later, after graduation, Yan Shikui was assigned to Emeishan Film Studio, and he met Xu Zhiwei here, and later he filmed a lot of film and television dramas, and his popularity was also very high.
But as his popularity grew, the pressure on Yan Shikui began to increase, and in a few years, how many newcomers "dark horses" rushed out, such as Ge You and Liang Tian, their existence made Yan Shikui anxious.
After all, he was already standing in a very high position at that time, and the people behind him were rushing to catch up with him, so he could only keep making himself better, for fear that the audience would have no sense of expectation when he appeared.
So Yan Shikui decided to try to be in business, when he first opened the store, many people went to his store to spend because of Yan Shikui's fame, but how long can this last?
The replacement between actors is very fast, and Yan Shikui's popularity was consumed not long after, after all, he is not a professional businessman, and he has no experience in this area before, if he wants to retain customers only by popularity, it is impossible.
So after Yan Shikui quit the showbiz, he almost only made money during the ten years of business when he first opened, and lost money the rest of the time.
Ten years has made Yan Shikui realize that maybe he is really not suitable for business, or he can play better as an actor, but an actor has no works for ten years, and if he wants to return to the entertainment industry, he can only "start over".
Not to mention popularity, first of all, Yan Shikui's best years did not appear in front of the camera, but when he came back, he was not as young as he used to be, and the scripts he could choose were greatly reduced, at least he had to choose from the aspect of "male and female protagonists".
It took several years for Yan Shikui to accumulate some of his former popularity, but he didn't expect that what would await him in the future would be worse......
The death of his sister made him dare not stop moving forward
It was an ordinary day, Yan Shikui was filming in the crew, but suddenly received a call from his mother, telling him in a panicked tone that his sister had been in a car accident.
Yan Shikui hurried to the hospital after hearing this, and his mother told him that his sister was hit by a car more than ten meters away, and Yan Shikui's heart was "half cold".
Later, his sister became a "vegetative person", Yan Shikui wanted to temporarily retire from the entertainment industry again to take care of his sister, but his mother told him that this family needed him to film and someone to maintain his sister's life in the hospital.
At that time, Yan Shikui knew that the burden of the family had been placed on him, and in order to earn more money to treat his sister, Yan Shikui worked hard to film and try various roles.
He didn't have time to think about his love life, he devoted himself to his family, and for more than ten years, Yan Shikui's sister still didn't fight the illness and passed away.
In the past ten years of becoming a "vegetative person", Yan Shikui's sister has not been able to say a word, and sometimes no one can even remember anything, and on the day she left, Yan Shikui shared his feelings on Weibo. He said, "I hope that all the relatives will not be sad, because there is no sickness and pain in heaven, and we will hear her happy and hearty laughter in heaven in the future." ”
His sister was originally Yan Shikui's motivation, and he was busy for so many years so that his sister could recover, but his sister's final result was sad, and Yan Shikui was 67 years old the year she left.
He no longer had the feeling of wanting to develop a relationship, so he had been alone for many years, and her mother had urged him because of this, but it was not something that could be forced.
epilogue
Now 72-year-old Yan Shikui is still insisting on filming, but he no longer focuses all his attention on his career, and if there is a good role that suits him, he will also shoot.
His focus now is more on his family, Yan Shikui's mother is also old and needs to be taken care of, if he has free time, Yan Shikui will practice calligraphy, or go out to travel, although the life of a person is a little lonely, but fortunately, he can stop and rest well.
The information in this article is from:
China.com "Famous actor Yan Shikui: A lifetime of hardship, at the age of 67, he is single and childless, and his mother does not dare to grow old!"
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