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Preface
When it comes to Yan Shikui, many viewers must be familiar with it.
He was a popular student in the entertainment industry in the 80s, and starred in film and television works such as "Anti-Crime Unit", "Falcon", and "Crime Scene".
Every role he interprets is a classic.
Now, at the age of 67, he is over half a hundred years old, but he has a lot of regrets in his love life, and his elderly mother is also heartbroken because of this.
He has been a top-notch generation, but he has never married for so many years, which can't help but make people curious.
Even many netizens said: "A male star like him with a successful career and a sunny handsomeness must have many female suitors around him, but why is he still alone? Is his vision too high?"
As everyone knows, behind his success, there is a bitterness and sadness that others cannot understand.
First, the majesty has not diminished in the past
Today's Yan Shikui, although he is no longer young, is still active in front of the screen.
In recent years, his works have also won praise and recognition from countless audiences.
Among them, in 2005, he relied on the starring movie "On the Taihang Mountain" to win many awards such as the Hundred Flowers Award for Popular Films, the China Film Huabiao Award, and the Golden Rooster Award, ushering in the second spring of his career.
But in the entertainment industry, age is a crucial factor, and this industry has become very cruel because of this.
As he gets older, there are fewer and fewer plays to be his starring role, most of them are small supporting roles, and he can only play some small roles.
But in the showbiz of the 80s, his status was definitely the existence of the ceiling.
Second, the road of acting
Yan Shikui was born in Tongliao, Inner Mongolia, and his father was an active member of the literary circle, especially good at Mongolian dance.
Therefore, he was born in an artistic family, and he was deeply influenced by his parents since he was a child, and formed an indissoluble bond with art.
In 1970, he was excavated by the Tongliao Song and Dance Troupe, and began to enter the song and dance troupe and perform with the troupe.
In the process, he was handsome and intelligent, and soon became the "top brand" in the group.
As the saying goes, acting and dance complement each other, and Yan Shikui, who has a very high talent in dance, also has extraordinary performance in the field of performance.
In 1978, the country resumed the college entrance examination, and with the mentality of giving it a try, he also signed up with everyone.
Who would have thought that his inadvertent attempt would send him to the Beijing Film Academy. Since then, he has officially embarked on the road of acting.
After entering the campus, his talent gradually emerged.
When I was in college, I was photographed by the director and starred in Pu Dahai in "Not for Love".
As soon as this drama was broadcast, his youthful appearance and image of a hot-blooded young man were deeply imprinted in the hearts of the audience.
He relied on this movie to get more attention, and various resources followed.
And he also seized the opportunity in time, carefully polished every script for the performance, and interpreted one after another deeply rooted roles.
In this way, relying on his own efforts, he gained a firm foothold step by step and became a popular actor in the mainland in the 80s.
thought that he would go all the way and become a superstar in the entertainment industry. However, fate was full of twists and turns.
In the eyes of the outside world, Yan Shikui's road to success has gone too smoothly, which has caused him to be jealous of many peers.
After graduating from college, he hit a wall everywhere and fell into the darkest moment of his life.
Third, the fate is bumpy
After graduating from Beiying, he was assigned to work in Emei Film Studio.
At this time, he was already quite famous, and his mentality had also changed subtly.
In the process of work, he is often a little arrogant.
Coupled with the youthfulness and vigor, the newborn calf is not afraid of tigers.
So, when he was ready to use his fists and kicks and make a big fight, he ran into a nose - he was rejected and jealous by everyone.
After entering the factory to work, I thought that the factory would arrange for me to film one after another.
Who knows, the work assigned to him is all trivial things such as cleaning, carrying things, and helping with errands.
As for acting, he simply didn't have the opportunity to participate.
So, he had no talent and ambitions, so he had no choice but to go to the sea to do business.
He hopes to gain more social experience and enrich his life experience.
Fourth, repeated defeats
In the early days of going to sea, he relied on the popularity he had accumulated in the acting side and negotiated a lot of business.
As he said, in the first two years, he was like a fish in water.
He originally wanted to rely on his audience popularity to make a small profit in the business world.
Unexpectedly, as time slowly passed, he had no business acumen, and made many mistakes in important investment decisions, and his originally prosperous business suffered a series of heavy blows.
In order to save the situation, he did not hesitate to invest all the funds he had accumulated in the past few years.
But in the end, the bamboo basket was empty, and all the savings were lost.
In the face of such a blow, he also laughed at himself: "Busy work comes and goes, who knows that it is in vain!"
However, his life always seemed to be full of setbacks.
The huge blow made him feel extremely depressed and heartbroken, and he even began to doubt himself.
But after sober reflection, he began to re-examine and plan the way forward.
He understands that failure is not terrible, what matters is how to learn from the process and get back on your feet.
So, penniless, he decided to return to the performance stage.
Back to that place, the place that once filled him with hopes and dreams.
And just like that, he began to look around for opportunities to perform.
However, the entertainment industry is changing with each passing day, and the iteration speed is very fast.
When he returned, everything was gone, and people seemed to have forgotten about him.
Fifth, the more frustrated the more courageous
re-entered the showbiz, without the aura of the past, Yan Shikui himself has been much more low-key.
He no longer holds his body, but puts down his face and starts from scratch. Although the roles assigned to him each time are inconspicuous, and some don't even have a single line.
But he didn't take it lightly and took it seriously every time.
During this period, she played the role of Liang Feihu in "Iron Pear Flower", which was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people and won wide acclaim.
This brought him back into the public eye.
However, perhaps ill-fated.
When his career was a little better again, an accident gave him another blow.
On the eve of the filming of the TV series "Iron Pear" he starred in, his sister was unfortunately in a car accident.
Looking at his sister, who used to be alive, but now lying quietly on the hospital bed, in a vegetative state, he couldn't help but feel like a knife.
In order to raise more medical expenses for his sister, he took on multiple roles at the same time, rotating day and night, shuttling between various crews all day long.
All the remuneration he received was also used for his sister's medical expenses, which made his life very difficult.
But even though he tried his best to recover, his sister still couldn't wake up and left him forever in 2019.
There were many hardships in his career and changes in his family, but God did not pity him because of this.
His own emotional path has never been smooth.
6. I have only loved one woman in my life
Yan Shikui's life is only in love with one woman.
This woman is his ex-wife - Xu Zhiwei.
After entering the film studio, Yan Shikui met his ex-wife Xu Zhiwei, and after coming and going, their relationship gradually became closer, and the two had feelings for each other.
After that, unable to stand Yan Shikui's crazy pursuit, the two finally came together, fell in love for a year, and entered the marriage hall.
After getting married, the husband and wife were very affectionate, and in the 12 years they got along, they never quarreled or quarreled.
As a result, they are regarded by the outside world as a model of loving couples.
Due to personality reasons, Yan Shikui is always not good at words.
After marriage, he did not pursue the romance between husband and wife very much.
For so many years, they have never taken the initiative to say sweet words to their wives, and over time, their married life has gradually lost its interest.
In addition, after getting along for many years, the husband and wife have never had children, which also lays a hidden danger for their subsequent separation.
In the mid-80s, the trend of studying abroad became popular.
I saw that many friends around me went abroad for development.
His wife, Xu Zhiwei, couldn't hold back her inner desire, and she expressed to her husband that she wanted to go abroad, but after hearing this, her husband was very reluctant.
When I thought that in the future, I would have to be separated from my wife, and after so many years, they didn't even have a child.
For various reasons, the two had a fierce quarrel during a conversation, and their emotions completely exploded.
The resentment and dissatisfaction that had been deposited in the hearts of both sides for many years fell in an instant.
After the quarrel, facing his wife who had made up his mind, Yan Shikui, who was silent, didn't know how to keep it for a while.
After his wife went abroad, the two people, who didn't communicate much, gradually drifted apart and finally parted ways.
Perhaps, ending this lifeless marriage as soon as possible is also a relief for them.
After the divorce, Yan Shikui felt relieved, for him, instead of barely maintaining a marriage relationship with his ex-wife, it was better to get divorced easily.
But although he thought so, her old mother did not.
After her son got married, her mother, who was looking forward to holding her grandson all day long, did not look forward to the good news, but what she was looking forward to was the news that the two were separated, which made her worried.
Seeing her son getting older and older, she often said to her son: "Now there is no son and half a daughter by your side, how can you live when you reach your old age." ”
In order to reassure his mother, Yan Shikui has also "asked for marriage" from the outside world many times in public, expressing his hope to meet his lover as soon as possible.
epilogue
"Since ancient times, heroes have been sharpened, and they have never been talented. ”
Only those who have experienced hardships and setbacks can become true heroes and greats.
Only by rising up in adversity and growing in the midst of hardships can we create better achievements.
Therefore, we should cherish setbacks and see them as opportunities for growth and progress.
In the face of difficulties, we must be like Yan Shikui, strengthen our confidence, move forward bravely, and never give up!
Only in this way can we become our own real heroes and create our own brilliant life.