"Love to speak up!"
In a show, Yan Shikui, an old drama bone who has experienced emotional twists and turns, tells the audience about his philosophy of life.
As a top male god in the 80s, almost every role played by Yan Shikui has become a classic.
However, even such a first-generation top performer has been living in misery, and now at the age of 67, he is still alone, with no children under his knees, and his elderly mother is even more heartbroken and does not dare to grow old.
So, why did he, who was a smash hit in the past, become a half-cut unmarried bachelor?
Misfortune is coming
In 2010, a flying disaster caused Yan Shikui to suffer a blow from the sky like a thunderbolt from the sky.
At that time, he was participating in "Iron Pear Flower", and suddenly learned the bad news at home, and the other end of the phone said: "Your sister is in danger of a car accident!" As soon as these words came out, Yan Shikui suddenly froze in place, at a loss.
After relieving himself, he hurriedly returned home by car, but unexpectedly, his sister was hit by a car on the way from work and flew more than ten meters.
Although a few hours of rescue allowed my sister to survive, the cranial tissue was severely traumatized and could not be recovered, and she could only be reduced to a "vegetative state" in the end.
This made Yan Shikui's heart miserable, and it was difficult to accept the reality for a while, in order to take on the responsibility of the family and his sister's medical expenses, he worked hard all day long, ran all over the major crews, and acted desperately.
Since then, Yan Shikui has been going out early and returning late every day, not only busy making money to support his family, but also staying by his sister's side day and night, taking care of her diet and daily life, and the whole family has gathered the center, just for his sister to wake up one day.
Feeding, massage, turning over and washing, day after day has never stopped, in just a few years, almost all the savings have been spent, and there is still no effect, but fortunately, Yan Shikui and his family have never given up.
But there are unforeseen circumstances, after nearly ten years, my sister left the world in 2019, in this regard, as the elder brother, Yan Shikui tearfully published a dynamic: "My sister is finally free, I hope we can still be brothers and sisters in the next life!"
Since then, Yan Shikui has paid more attention to family affection, in order to let his mother and another sister live a worry-free life, he devoted himself to his acting career, but unexpectedly, this acting road was so difficult.
The hardships of his career and the setbacks of his business ventures
Yan Shikui, who was born in a family of dancers, has been fond of performing arts since he was a child, his grandfather is the head of the two-person theater troupe, and his father is good at Mongolian dance.
Until 1978, Yan Shikui stood out from more than 4,000 candidates with excellent results, successfully entered the school gate of Beijing Film Academy, and soon became a rising star.
During this period, relying on his outstanding appearance, Yan Shikui was invited to participate in many classics, such as "The Fog is Boundless" and "Not for Love", etc., which have captured the hearts of many fans.
It's a pity that Yan Shikui, who frequently plays supporting roles, has never been able to stir up huge waves, but fortunately, the film appointments continue to make him a new generation of popular students, and then master various resources in the film and television industry, and perform roles separately and achieve excellent results.
In the early 90s, Yan Shikui, who was already a little accomplished, packed his bags and entered the Emei Film Factory, thinking that he would be able to shine in front of the screen, but the reality gave him a blow to the head.
Due to his lack of social experience, he had to endure the exclusion of his colleagues, and was assigned to the queue of chores, taking on various low-level jobs such as cleaning, running errands, and unloading.
As a result, at this time, Yan Shikui, who couldn't bear it, finally ended his acting career and decided to set foot in the business world, thinking that he only needed to use his mouth and be flexible to occupy a place in business.
But when he was in the middle of it, he found that his imagination was beautiful, but the reality was cruel, and he suffered from the vicissitudes of life in the next ten years, from opening restaurants, bathhouses, to pawn shops, all of which failed without exception.
The savings accumulated over the years have been smashed by Yan Shikui one after another, and he has not earned a penny, but owes a lot of debts, and it is difficult to solve even the problem of living and clothing.
As a last resort, Yan Shikui had no choice but to return to the showbiz, but unfortunately, he had not appeared on the screen for ten years, and at that time, he had long been forgotten by the audience, and his works almost sank.
During that time, it can be said that Yan Shikui was at his lowest point, and he once fell into a situation where there was no drama to film, and no director took a fancy to this well-known actor who was once popular.
I thought that this trauma was nothing to Yan Shikui, but unexpectedly, the deadliest thing was still to come!
12 years of marriage came to naught
Yan Shikui, who died of his sister and had a bad career, and who had been repeatedly frustrated, had actually been smoothed out emotionally.
At the age of 27, Yan Shikui was a typical traditional handsome guy, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, and a tall figure.
Among them was Yan Shikui's wife Xu Zhiwei, although the two were five years apart, Xu Zhiwei was older, but it did not affect the development of the relationship, after a period of getting along, the two quickly fell in love, and with the support of their parents, they made a private lifelong decision.
Married life is very sweet, the two of them work hard in their careers, whenever they have spare time, Xu Zhiwei will prepare the meal and serve it in front of Yan Shikui's table, and Yan Shikui is the same, taking care of each other's lives.
Yan Shikui in life, he has no temper at all, he has always been obedient to him, and he has never quarreled with Xu Zhiwei since he was married for 12 years, but no one expected that it would be such a "model couple", but in the end it ended in failure.
It turned out that with the fame of their careers, the two parted ways due to their careers and went on business trips all year round, which led to cracks in their relationship, and Xu Zhiwei hoped that the other party would be gentle and considerate, but Yan Shikui was a straight man.
Over time, Xu Zhiwei had already lost his patience and chose to study abroad, thinking that he would be retained by the other party, however, Yan Shikui did not say anything soft, and in the end, the distance between the two in a foreign country made this relationship end rarely.
Now, Yan Shikui, who is 67 years old, is still single and childless, maybe he opened his mouth to keep Xu Zhiwei at that time, and it would not have caused today's situation, after all, the two have a deep relationship, and they have been considerate and loving each other for 12 years.
But Yan Shikui didn't understand romance, which led to the unhappy parting of the two parties, and when looking back on his life, it seems that he has been living in misery, his wife left, his sister died, and only his mother was left: "Son, hurry up and get married and have children!"
Who would have thought that this sentence would last for so many years, even if he publicly asked for marriage in the show, he has never met a good match, and his mother has never dared to grow old and is still waiting for this day to come.