This is a wedding item that has been purchased
Is it easy to marry a daughter-in-law? It's buying a house, it's a bride price, it's three gold and hardware, my God, my liver is hurting, my heart is crying, my flesh is dripping blood.
I am 54 years old this year, I have an only son in my family, and my son will be married on May 2nd, and the preparations for the marriage are underway.
The wedding hasn't been held yet, and it has already cost 1.8 million yuan, and this daughter-in-law, if you calculate carefully, you can't get off without more than 1 million.
The down payment for buying a house is 800,000 yuan, the bride price is 100,000 yuan, and the hardware is 50,000 yuan.
Today's bride is really a million brides, worth millions, we are just an ordinary family, every penny is hard to save, even if we don't eat or drink, we can't save more than a million in a lifetime, where to get the money? borrow, loan.
I took on a lot of debts, and I beat the skeleton of this marriage, and my heart was dripping blood, you know? I was reluctant to eat or wear, and I was reluctant to lift my son's marriage.
The house is handled by the son and daughter-in-law, from buying to decorating, the two of them worked hard to see the house and choose the house, and then to the decoration and purchase of furniture, we only paid for it, and everything else was handled by the two of them.
This is still gratifying, we only pay for it, and the two of them do everything else.
This is wedding supplies
This evening, my son called me, and as soon as I answered the phone, my son said, "Mom, I'm going to pick you up, right?
The son continued: "I'll pick you up, I'll tell my dad in a while, I'm going to pick you up, and then we'll buy the dress we saw yesterday." ”
I said, "Okay." "The moment I put down the phone, my heart was sour, my flesh hurt, and the money I went out through my hand was distressed, but I only dared to hurt in my heart silently, and we didn't dare to show it in front of our son and daughter-in-law.
When my husband gave me the card the night before yesterday, I said that you can transfer 1000 yuan to me, and my husband said what will happen to this 1000 yuan, take the card first, and then scan the code to pay, I will transfer 1000 yuan to you for you to keep for backup.
As soon as he saw my face and held on, he said: Marrying a daughter-in-law costs money, how can there be a daughter-in-law who doesn't spend money, don't worry about money. I'm a distressed prick.
Yesterday, I turned the big shopping malls one by one, and my daughter-in-law fell in love with a skirt, and after a seven-fifty discount of 599 yuan, it was too expensive, right, a skirt is so expensive?
Poverty really limits my imagination, five or six hundred yuan for a dress is acceptable, a skirt and a half, all so expensive? At that time, the seller's skirt did not have a small size, and the skirt that the daughter-in-law tried at that time was a size larger.
Even if the heart aches, even if the liver hurts and the flesh hurts, it can't be revealed in front of the daughter-in-law, and you have to ask: "Is it in the picture?" ”
How generous he says is in his mouth, how uncomfortable he is in his heart, and he has to take out the money even if he grits his teeth, and the big money is spent, and there is still a little bit of money.
From yesterday to today, they went shopping for two days, and my daughter-in-law still likes this skirt, and today I went home with my son on the way home, and I went to buy the skirt by the way, and asked the store to send a small number to Zhengzhou.
The son and daughter-in-law returned to Zhengzhou at noon yesterday, and fell in love with another skirt in Zhengzhou in the afternoon, which also cost more than 500 yuan. In fact, how much money will be paid for clothes? This is not even the little finger of buying a house.
Money is a bastard, spent and earned back, but it's so hard to make money, as the saying goes: money is hard to earn, shit is hard to eat. But when you get married, you spend money like running water, and your liver hurts and your flesh hurts.
Where is this wedding, the hotel wedding room banquet is a lot of money, like my daughter-in-law's house is out of town, and it takes about ten rooms to book a room, ten rooms are just her family, as well as her husband's comrades-in-arms, as well as friends of her son and daughter-in-law are all coming to attend the wedding.
It takes more than one million to get a marriage to a child and hold a wedding, and it takes about 1.5 million to hold a wedding.
This is probably a calculation, can I not die.
This is the wedding supplies bought