I just watched a blogger tell his true situation, he spent five or six hundred thousand yuan on his son's education but got nothing, and his son did a small business after graduating from college, and I really regret it when I think about it.
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His son studied art, and art burned money, and spent hundreds of thousands of yuan in high school, and then he was admitted to a private undergraduate, which cost hundreds of thousands. I also accompanied me to study for two years, which was a lot of money, but in the end I didn't find a job, and the money went down the drain.
I think this parent's experience is very representative, that is, the dilemma faced by most ordinary families at present, should they invest heavily in their children's education.
First of all, let me talk about my opinion, if the child shows excellent learning talent from an early age and has good grades from an early age, then give the child a good learning condition, you can spend money, and this money is likely to pay off.
A lot of kids are not good at learning
If the child does not show test talent and interest in learning since childhood, it is recommended that parents lie down and be at peace with the situation, and do not be coaxed by educational institutions to cut leeks.
Of course, there are also some families with excellent family backgrounds, hundreds of thousands of dollars are small money, and you can also fight, similar to gambling, and you don't care about winning or losing, it's okay.
家长必须得接受一个现实，学习成绩是天赋，不是补出来的。
Learning is related to interest, related to IQ, related to learning conditions but not related, this is the talent that cannot be changed, and hard work is useless.
Many people are not convinced, they have high hopes for their children, they keep being chicken babies, and spend a lot of money to make up classes, which is effective in primary and junior high schools, because there are fewer things to understand, more things to remember, and make-up classes are effective.
But in high school, mathematics, physics and chemistry test people's logical thinking ability, which is talent, and it is useless to make up classes.
Learning is a matter of talent
Many junior high school students are in a mess in high school, no matter how hard they try, what they lack is not hard work, not learning conditions, but IQ, and they have to accept this reality.
A real scholar, once the mathematics, physics and chemistry are thorough, there is no need to work hard, the real scholar basically does not make up classes, and the teacher who makes up the class is a waste of time for him.
现在的普通学历已经没用了
Ordinary people have a misunderstanding, thinking that if you have a high education, you will have a good job, and you can soar, these people should wake up quickly, now is not the past, that era has long passed.
Nowadays, the vast majority of children, no matter what their academic qualifications, whether they are junior college or undergraduates, and employment depends on their family connections, and their education is just an admission ticket.
It is difficult for college students to find a job
This society allocates resources based on identity rather than academic qualifications, and most parents are still dreaming. I'm still thinking about the champion dream, where is the champion now.
Most low-level children want to counterattack through reading, they need two conditions, a good school, a good opportunity, a good major, and a good plan, both of which are indispensable.
Many children with general academic qualifications are desperate and degenerate, confused and confused in the junior college, they know that academic qualifications are useless, but they don't know where the road is, they all follow the crowd, and others go to school and he also goes to school. That's all.
If you study a lot of majors in universities, you will laugh, some majors are simply a number, useless, just to set up this major, such as various liberal arts and management, etc.
Behind the public examination fever reflects the current situation of difficult employment
Many people say that the purpose of universities is to make people consume, to boost GDP, to feed a bunch of people, and I think so, but that's actually the case.
求学路上各种机构疯狂轰炸，都是为了割韭菜而已。
Many training institutions keep publicizing, extracurricular training, art examination training, high school entrance examination sprint, college entrance examination sprint, college entrance examination training, college entrance examination, etc., there is a sickle waiting for you in any link, as long as you are anxious, you will be fooled.
Off-campus institutions are in turmoil
Many parents are reluctant to admit that their children are not good at learning, and they still have illusions about academic education.
孩子初中学习不好，家长应该及时醒悟止损。
Now it is not easy for everyone, it is getting harder and harder to make money, everyone still has to be sober, not to throw away their hard-earned money, if you find that the child is not a learning material, turn in time, be optimistic about your money, don't be cut leeks.
The most painful thing in the world is that the child has spent all the money for education, and the money is gone when the rest of the money needs to be spent after graduation.
There are still many places to use money after graduation, such as buying a house, getting married, starting a business, etc., or even buying medical insurance and social security for children. Parents wake up early and turn back early is the right way.