Chinese-style stepmother: Fight with me for the inheritance, and also cook for me at 5 o'clock in the morning
Whether it is the Western fairy tale "Snow White" or the Oriental famous song "Little Cabbage", the face of a vicious stepmother is vividly depicted. If motherhood is the greatest profession, I am afraid stepmothers are the most unflattering profession. How do they play this role between a loved one and an "enemy"? What impact does having a stepmother have on a child's world?
I found 7 children with stepmothers and heard what they had to say.
I begged my grandfather to "take my stepmother" away in front of the grave
My parents have always had a "three-view split" personality incompatibility, and when I was 10 years old, my dad met my aunt. Her ex-husband is in prison, she works at a karaoke bar, and she is a woman who has been through a lot of battles and is good at observing words and feelings. After meeting my dad, she decided to hold on to this life-saving straw.
The two women engaged in a tug-of-war, and my mother asked me to write a blood letter to act out the drama that if they divorced, I would run away from home. But she couldn't bear to cut my hand, using chicken blood.
Later, the chicken died in vain.
When I was 11 years old, my dad showed up at my grandfather's house with my stepmother. She bought me a pair of red leather shoes that day, and the only gift she's ever given me, maybe for my dad.
When I finished my homework that night, my dad took my headdress and put it on his head to amuse my stepmom. I still remember how my dad felt with her, probably the feeling of being in love. I've never seen him like this, and I'm glad that he still has such a side, but that woman is not my mother.
My mother started smoking overnight because of this incident, and her temper became more and more irritable, and the people on my mother's side also began to stir up my emotions, they thought that it was this little three who caused my family to be torn apart, and I also began to hate this woman. In the worst case, during the quarrel, she shouted hysterically, "Who do you think of me?" and I replied coldly, "Prostitute." ”
When I was a teenager and went to the grave of my grandfather, I prayed: Grandpa please take my stepmother away.
Because she is good at reading words and feelings, she can always remember my preferences, observe what I like to eat, and cook it for me at the next meal. It's hard for me to say that she has a distraction, most of the time I just think it's scheming.
One year when I went back to my dad's house, she suddenly fell seriously ill. Seeing her slim down into a small piece of bacon, I felt a little soft in my heart and bought red dates for her.
I said, "Auntie, I remember that you love jujubes, so I bought you two packs." ”
She said, "Oh, good, good. "There was a little twist and joy on his face.
Wang Xiaoer
When she plucked my ears, it felt a lot like my mother
When I was in the fifth grade, I moved to my father's and her's house, and because of the cross-district transfer, my aunt paid 5,000 yuan for the school to accept it. She was joined by her daughter, my sister.
During that time, we got along very harmoniously, and once the family had hot pot together, I called her, "Mom". Before that, she plucked out my ears once, and I felt like she was a mom when she lay on her lap.
But it wasn't long after that that I didn't call her mom.
She always mentioned that she was the one who paid for my schooling. I realized that her kindness to me was a way for me to accept her. She will give her daughter more pocket money and buy more clothes. It turns out that there is no love in this world for no reason.
During that time, when I started reading romance novels, she made a surprise attack and checked my bedroom. It was so noisy until the first year of junior high school, and I borrowed a novel from a classmate, and she found it. Maybe it was for me, but she kept babbling on and on, and I angrily tore up the book and threw it in the trash. Braving the light rain to go to school alone.
My dad thought I was running away from home and hurriedly called the school teacher, and then at the school gate, I sat in his car, and that was the first time I saw him cry. He told me to be considerate and considerate of him, and not to embarrass him.
During the summer vacation of my freshman year, I helped out with my dad, and the courier industry was very tiring, so I suddenly began to feel sorry for him, and my stepmother gradually eased up.
It was only later that I realized that part of the hatred I had for her was that she loved her daughter more.
Yes, I want to be loved by her too.
Wang Dali
My aunt secretly gave me money and told me not to tell my dad
The summer before college, my dad called me out of the blue and asked me to go to his place for dinner and dress formally. My parents have been divorced for six years, and I have been living with my mother all the time.
I got out of the car with my dad, and my aunt was watching us from the window on the second floor. This is the first time I've come to my dad's house, and before that it was through phone calls or monthly WeChat transfers.
The whole meal ended peacefully. From then on, they would invite me to stay with me, usually in the morning and home in the evening, sometimes for one night if I couldn't help it.
My aunt is less like an elder and more like a friend, because she will understand me from the perspective of a bystander and give me advice, rather than just lecturing to me as an elder. When I fell in love in college, my father disagreed when he heard that people were not from the same place, and I quarreled with him for a long time, and my living expenses were reduced. During that time, my aunt would secretly give me some money and tell me not to tell my dad.
On Mother's Day, my roommate asked me to send a message to my aunt wishing her a happy holiday, and I was a little speechless.
Finally, I sent "Happy Mother's Day" to my mom and "Happy Holidays" to my aunt.
Jing Jie
In order to chat with me, she bought a slow train
Before my dad and aunt got together, they both had families, and they were involved in each other's marriages.
When my mother took me to her house to scold her, I followed suit. My aunt came from a very good background, so no one in the family agreed to her divorce, but she still divorced her husband and married my dad despite everything.
When I was in middle school, I always felt that she was jealous of me because my father loved me so much. I was also jealous of her because she had big breasts. When she's not at home, I would sneak her bra out of the closet and put it on myself to see who was bigger.
Later, I slowly felt that my aunt was a very good person, and in the whole year of high school, she got up early every day and made me more than 300 breakfasts. She just does it, never gossips, and the women who don't gossip in this world are really rare animals.
I have always had severe depression, but my aunt never gave up on me and went everywhere to find a psychiatrist. During a chat, she said, "I think you should shift your attention and fall in love at this stage." ”
My sophomore year left home for an internship, and she sent me. She could have bought a plane ticket, but instead she bought two sleeper trains. Later, I found out that she was trying to talk to me at night.
Mingshan
I threw her cosmetics and she backhanded me to teach me how to capture people's hearts
How to be a likable girl, most people learn from their ex-boyfriends, and I learned it from my aunt.
In the winter of the second year of high school, the last trace of her parents' feelings was broken because of her appearance. My father and mother divorced, my mother moved to my mother's house in Henan with my sister and me, and my father and her stayed in Shanxi to live.
In a fit of anger, I went from Henan to Shanxi, knocked on the door of my former home, and my aunt was home alone. I rushed in and threw her clothes and cosmetics out of the window, and my aunt was very calm, neither humble nor arrogant. During the whole process, she didn't speak, she didn't stop her, just quietly waited for my dad to come back.
When my dad came back, I cried and insisted that she go, because I wanted a whole family so badly. Dad hugged me and was silent, and finally said to her, "Why don't you go back first?" and she began to cry, did not speak, and did not leave. Eventually, my dad sent me to a relative's house.
Later, she took the initiative to call me, did not mention the incident of that night, and picked me up with my dad for dinner. Dad is like a little child in front of her, and even coquettish. The biggest difference between her and my mom is not in her appearance, but in her gentleness. In my memory, my dad and my mom have never been so harmonious.
I still didn't call her mother, and as a child, I can't forget the scene of my mother holding me and my sister crying at home on the day of the Chinese New Year's Eve. But from their feelings, I also understood that marriage can't bind anything, and love still has to be fought for by yourself.
Zhu Da ran
Stepmom and I play King Glory together
When I was 12 years old, my father couldn't stand my mother's messing around all day and divorced her. I was very rebellious throughout middle school, smoking, drinking, fighting, and was expelled from school. After a year of idleness at home, I moved to another city and became more and more withdrawn.
In March of that year, he had no money on him, so he had no choice but to ask his father for money. That day, he asked me to add a strange woman's WeChat, and she transferred money to me. I asked her, "What do you have to do with my dad?" and she didn't answer directly, but said, "We'll get along well in the future." ”
Since then, I've been following her circle of friends. There is a selfie of a chubby black woman grinning and posing with the scenery behind.
On the way home for the Chinese New Year, I kept thinking about how to greet her, how to get along, and what to call her. Finally I saw them sitting on a bench under the bus stop sign waiting for me, and I plucked up the courage to walk over and call "Auntie". Then the three of them walked upstairs together in embarrassment.
My aunt is very hardworking, cooking, doing laundry, mopping the floor, and also cooking some meals to my liking, and taking good care of me. I was a little caught off guard by the sudden mother's love, I didn't know how to accept this love, and then I didn't know whether to call my mother or my aunt, so I simply didn't call anything at all.
Although she is a stepmother, she unexpectedly has a lot of common hobbies with me, such as liking spicy food and fighting kings. She often asks me to take her, and she only plays with Daji, and she plays very well.
Later, I quit my job and went home, playing at home every day, and I didn't know what I could do in the future. She came to me and cooked me my favorite food and asked me what I liked. I casually joked, "I like to play with computers", but she took it seriously, asking her friends and colleagues every day what computer-related work she had.
Now I've learned a bit about PS and AI, and although it's very basic, I've finally found a job.
Hua Shuai
She competed with me for the inheritance and also made me breakfast at five o'clock in the morning
The first time I met my stepmother was in the fourth grade of elementary school. I was playing downstairs, my dad called me upstairs, there were two guests in the house, one of them was her, my dad introduced me to them, she said "every day is so good". A month later, she moved into my house.
My father was a drinker and would beat me up if I didn't agree with me, so I had to be a smart kid from an early age. I quickly understood what was going on with her arrival, and I didn't dare to ask more. After that, they didn't get a marriage certificate, but simply invited relatives and friends to hold a few tables of banquets, during which my father said to me, "This will be your mother from now on." The desire to survive made me change my voice and shout "Mom" on the spot.
When he lived with his father, he was almost never drunk. But since I had a stepmother, he began to indulge himself, often getting drunk, and my stepmother was responsible for my diet and daily life. Many times, my dad wanted to beat me because of something, and my stepmom would use her thin body to stop me in the middle. When I was in middle school, I caught up with the explosion of online literature, which also evoked my literary dream. After my stepmother secretly looked through my works, she found my dad and said, "Every day he writes something like he became an emperor or something", and I was criticized by my dad at that time, which also blocked my literary dream.
I once told my biological mother that I wanted to live with her, but she always sent me away with the phrase "I can't support you". In contrast, my stepmother took care of me more meticulously, and the reason why I can grow so tall now is because of the breakfast she makes me every day.
But in my junior year of high school, my dad died.
At this time, my stepmother seemed to be a different person and began to compete with me for the inheritance. Dramatically, my own mother suddenly stood up at this time, drove away my stepmother strongly, and fought for all the property. Since then, I have had no contact with my stepmother.
I still remember that one morning, my stepmother made breakfast and told me to get up and go to school. When I went out, it was still dark outside. My wall clock is Roman numerals, which people without certain "literary skills" can't read, and that day she saw 6 o'clock as 7 o'clock, and I set off a whole hour early.
When I walked to the school gate in the night, I suddenly heard someone calling me, and when I looked back, I saw that she was behind, "Tiantian, I misread the time, and I am a little worried about you."
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