Wang Xiaofei is "crazy" like this, and Zhang Lan has contributed a lot

He was wearing a 4,500 yuan T-shirt, but he looked like a poor reservoir dog.

March 22nd is the wedding anniversary of Wang Xiaofei and Da S, perhaps because it is not what it used to be, and it touches the scene, Xiaofei still can't hold back the heart of "reliving the old dream".

At noon that day, after drinking a little, he first scolded Zhang Yiming, the founder of Douyin, in the live broadcast, and suspected that the platform blocked his account, and finally went off the air after repeated efforts and persuasion by the nanny.

Who would have thought that this was just an appetizer, in the afternoon, the irascible Wang Xiaofei directly made trouble at Da S's residence, twice in a row, but was stopped by the guards. Subsequently, he was so angry that he also posted a Weibo saying: I paid the property fees, which means that this house should not let him in. Later, facing the cameras of the Taiwanese media, he also pointed to Da S's mansion and said: This is what I bought.

Hehe, I feel so childish~

Before it was over, in the evening, Wang Xiaofei appeared at the door of the police station again, and told the media at the door in a menacing and solemn manner that she wanted to report Xu Xiyuan with her real name, first, she illegally detained her children, and second, she abused illegal drugs. It seems that the fish is going to die and break the net to the end.

And just as the melon-eating crowd rubbed their hands and prepared to welcome the "big drama reversal", they were told that after Xiaofei finished his cruel words, he neither submitted specific evidence nor completed the reporting procedure, and after answering a phone call halfway, he left as if nothing happened. Subsequently, the S side also quickly clarified the matter of taking illegal drugs, which is equivalent to another "murderous man and no danger for the woman" after Huang Zijiao.

So, he just symbolically ruthlessly, angrily angry, waved his sleeves, and left no record?

But it's not strange, this is in line with Mr. Xiao Wang's consistent style - a Beijing gentleman with a temperament, with sensual output as the mainstay, supplemented by solving substantive problems, has always been, scolding the dirtiest words and doing the most funny things.

Throughout the process, two points are worth mentioning:

One is the tattered T-shirt that has been following him "crazy", it is said to be from Yves Saint Laurent, priced at 4,500, but looking at the folds and the deformed and widened neckline, it looks like a stall that is too expensive to sell for 30 at night. With Mr. Xiaofei's confused eyes, it was slightly desolate.

The other is that the house he recently rented in Taiwan is only 500 meters away from Da S's residence, and it can be reached within a nine-minute walk.

It's really not impossible, I still remember that in October last year, Wang Xiaofei, who also drank a little, connected with an emotional blogger late at night, and publicly said that she was still in love with Big S with a little drunkenness.

Self-motivation at the moment? Not really.

Two days ago, when I saw the big S long Weibo, I was quite puzzled by one point:

Wang Xiaofei cheated first, and should have felt some problems in the marriage, such as communication problems, separation problems, etc., so when Da S had the intention of divorce, why didn't he agree? and even pushed down Xiao S who persuaded him to leave very angrily? For the sake of the family business, he has that brain?

Moreover, in the very beginning of the divorce and scolding war, he has always deliberately bypassed the big S himself, and even posted a Weibo asking netizens to show mercy to the big S (of course, it has been deleted in seconds), for which he was also awarded the title of "cowardly egg" given by Feng's mother herself. It can be seen that he has mixed emotions for this celebrity's ex-wife.

But this cannot simply be attributed to kindness and dedication.

At the beginning of last year, his ex-girlfriend Zhang Yingying posted on Weibo that she was going to break up with Wang Xiaofei, and Wang Xiaofei also kept the chat records posted in it, as if he couldn't live his life without this woman, looking very clingy.

There is another thing corresponding to it: not long ago, Wang Xiaofei publicly showed off his happiness on Weibo, saying how good his new girlfriend is, good to him and good to his children, beautiful and kind, and he must marry him within this year. At that moment, he was like a child who had found a new home.

To sum up, my impression is that he is not specifically in love with anyone, but that he can't stand being left behind, and he doesn't want to be a lonely person with nowhere to live.

Someone is about to ask: His family has a big business, and his mother is also there, why is he lonely?

The reason is that intimacy is not the same as parent-child relationship and ordinary social relationship, and people will show a very "baby" side in front of the other half, that is, when you are a baby, what desires are not satisfied, then in the intimate relationship, these things will pour out. A person's attitude towards a couple is the easiest way to expose his inner self.

And Wang Xiaofei's commonality in love and marriage is obvious: he doesn't want to be alone, he needs companionship. This desire is so strong that he can't have too long a window period, so strong that it doesn't matter if the other party is a remarried ex-wife.

It can be seen that the child in him is super insecure, which is most likely due to the fact that he did not get enough companionship and care from his mother in his early years.

Zhang Lan herself said that when Xiaofei was thirteen or fourteen years old when he founded Alan Restaurant, I sent him away, you leave early, I can do business with peace of mind, and then he lacks that bit of family love.

At the same time, Zhang Lan's own strength has become more and more set off Wang Xiaofei's weakness, or rather, after so many years, Zhang Lan has become accustomed to projecting her weak part to Wang Xiaofei, making it subject to an invisible suppression, as if no matter how hard she tries, she can't swim in her mother's ocean.

So this leads to the fact that, on the one hand, his self-confidence is always lacking, and on the other hand, he will have a faint hatred for his mother, and wants to leave her far away and build a country of his own.

Wang Xiaofei always scolds people after drinking inexplicably, maybe the irrepressible nameless fire is essentially aimed at Zhang Lan.

He always looks for a strong woman as a partner, perhaps because he wants to use a strong external force to brush his sense of existence and escape from his mother's arms.

Zhang Lan is an excellent entrepreneur, but her lack of education and dereliction of duty have been externalized into a Wang Xiaofei that is difficult to repair.

After watching her latest response video, the excitement of more than five minutes actually can't get around these two points: conspiracy theories and calf protection.

"This is a conspiracy, the Xu family and their bald son-in-law are bad people, Xiaofei was framed by them, this child is too simple!"

seems to be angry for his son to beat the bad guys, but in fact, isn't this a reverse depreciation of Wang Xiaofei's personal strength?

Have you ever wondered: He is in his forties, why is he always the poor little boy who has been bullied and plotted? Why can others always succeed in bullying him, is it because he has no martial arts to protect himself at all? Every time he can't beat someone else, he asks your mother to come out and finish it, do you think his face can be bright?

Always kicking him back to the ivory tower on the grounds that "the world is complicated and you are very simple", he will never learn to fight the wind and waves with his own flesh and blood in his life.

Moreover, blindly caring for the calf is not conducive to the establishment of a correct view of right and wrong and values.

As far as the matter of cheating is concerned, the son cheated, the daughter-in-law came to ask, and resolutely refused to admit it, and later asked the third party to take good care of his son, and when the matter became bigger, he turned his face and denied it, and scolded the woman for being a dirty bedbug.

It's good to distinguish between inside and outside, but it's quite misogynistic and loves men, anyway, if there is a problem, you can push it out, anyway, it's good that your son is the beneficiary...... Presumably this is also her consistent way of educating her son, but does this also acquiesce to "it's okay for you to cheat"?

If there is no punishment, there will be no rules, and today my mother will take care of him, so what about tomorrow? Let him, a middle-aged man, grow up slowly and slowly in the cruel and ruthless "social university"?

"He's still a kid. This argument is often interpreted as a weak and ridiculous excuse, and the first thing that comes to mind is that he can do nothing as a child, and can he make mistakes and be irresponsible as a child?

But when I saw Wang Xiaofei "going crazy" with great fanfare, and then turned around and left with a scolding scolding, I could only use "he is still a child" to explain the absurd scene in front of me.

He is still a child, and he does not have enough wisdom and perseverance to deal with real problems, so he can only go on a rampage driven by emotions;

He is still a child, but he has long been forced to shoulder the burden of adulthood, and whenever he is unable to do his best and the result is not as he wants, he can only divert his sense of powerlessness through external anger;

He is still a child, although he is a little rebellious, but he really can't get rid of his mother's heavy and useful right-hand man;

He is still a child, and his children are not young anymore, but when will he grow up?