Zhang Lingxin: She and her husband insisted on Dink for 18 years and was sad about her mother-in-law, and at the age of 35, she unexpectedly had a happy family
Author: Da Lu Jun
Editor: Zhiyu
On March 1, 2024, a news that Nortel had changed its commander and Hu Qiang was the dean quickly became a hot search, and many people ran to the actor Zhang Lingxin's Weibo to leave a message: Congratulations to my brother-in-law! My sister has a really good eye! I wish my sister and brother-in-law happiness!
Not long ago, Zhang Lingxin just won the CMG Audience Favorite Actor of the Year, and people never doubt her acting skills.
can mention her feelings, it is really a beautiful conversation of a talented and beautiful woman at Beijing Film Academy.
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Speaking of Zhang Lingxin and Hu Qiang's first meeting, it was not very beautiful.
That day, it was the first day of the professional class of lines, Hu Qiang was pacing around in the classroom, his brows were tightly locked, his face was serious, it was already past class time, but only a few students arrived, and the others were still giggling and coming in one after another.
Zhang Lingxin was also late, and when she saw the young teacher with a black face on the podium, she thought that it was over, so she quickly lowered her head and quietly found a corner to sit down. After a closer look, 35 of the 42 people in the class were late, and Zhang Lingxin breathed a sigh of relief.
Unexpectedly, Teacher Hu suddenly spoke: "Those who were late just now, all stand outside!"
This is not over, I saw Hu Qiang take out a thin bamboo board out of nowhere, give each student's palm one by one, and come a few times, and a girl was beaten and cried on the spot.
In the first round, the teacher won! From then on, as long as Hu Qiang took a strong class, no one dared to be late.
Hu Qiang, 27 years old, is a teacher who stayed at the school to teach, and has been received by leaders as a representative of outstanding graduates.
Although he is young, he has a solid professional and has participated in and produced many film and television works, and is well-known in the industry. And he is very strict in class, coupled with a typical Northwest man's face, with his own majesty.
The students were very afraid of Teacher Hu and gave him the nickname "Hu Dadao". said that when he saw Teacher Hu, he turned around and ran 100 meters away, and fell to the ground and pretended to be dead within 50 meters.
But Zhang Lingxin, who has been a maverick since childhood, is not afraid, she knows that strict teachers produce high apprentices, and Teacher Hu's strictness is for them to study seriously, so she often takes the initiative to ask Hu Qiang for professional questions, and even Hu Qiang takes classes in other classes, Zhang Lingxin also listens.
Zhang Lingxin's class is the 96-level star class of Beiying, with stars such as Chen Kun and Huang Xiaoming, she embarked on the road of art completely under the influence of her grandfather, her grandfather Zhang Fa was a well-known actor in the fifties of the last century, according to the current words, Zhang Lingxin is a proper "three generations of stars".
Since childhood, Zhang Lingxin has been very individual and has his own opinions.
In 1996, she gave up the Shanghai Theater Academy close to home and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy alone.
With the increase in contact, gradually, Zhang Lingxin was attracted to Hu Qiang, whether it was his magnetic voice or the manly image that made people feel more down-to-earth, it made Zhang Lingxin's heart ripple.
She kept in mind what her grandfather said, you can't find a boyfriend who is too handsome, and this teacher meets all the rules.
So, she took the initiative and prepared to confess to the teacher.
Once, she blocked Hu Qiang at the door of the dormitory and said bluntly: "Teacher Hu, I like you, you know!"
Hu Qiang was stunned by this sudden confession, and he was always calm, and he was at a loss and fled.
Hu Qiang is 12 years older than Zhang Lingxin, and he is her teacher, he was afraid that the impact would not be good, and after thinking twice, he still politely refused and persuaded Zhang Lingxin not to be impulsive.
Zhang Lingxin, who was rejected, was extremely embarrassed, she no longer chased and fight, but she didn't give up either, she would always appear in front of Hu Qiang in a different way.
In 1999, Zhang Lingxin was about to graduate, she confessed to Hu Qiang again, and she was mentally prepared to be rejected again.
Unexpectedly, Hu Qiang said this time: "Then try it!", it turned out that in the past few years, he has also been paying attention to Zhang Lingxin, this girl who loves to laugh and has a spicy and generous personality has lived in his heart at some point.
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On the first day the two were together, Zhang Lingxin clearly told Hu Qiang that the two of them were only in love and not married, and they would break up if they couldn't get along. Not getting married really surprised the traditional Hu Qiang, but he still agreed, just because that person was Zhang Lingxin, and he was willing to spoil her.
After graduation, the two who are in love work together for their careers, and each of them is climbing steadily.
Zhang Lingxin has starred in many film and television dramas, created roles with different styles, and is known as a versatile supporting actress. There are many dazzling characters, Sun Xiaodie in "Meteor Butterfly Sword", "Jiang Yafei" in "Parents' Love", "Xia Dong" in "Langya Bang", Zhang Lingxin has won the love of the audience with her strength.
In 1998, he was awarded the title of "Young Backbone Teacher" by the Beijing Municipal Education Commission, and in 2009, he was awarded the "May Fourth Youth Medal" by Beijing.
Acting and excellent directing, Hu Qiang has also become a powerful director. He was nominated for the Director's Debut Award at the 26th Chinese Film Golden Rooster Awards, and the most popular director at the 5th Guangzhou University Student Film Festival.
He and Zhang Lingxin also collaborated together on the movie "Ink Youth", which won the Silver Lei Award at the Honolulu Film Festival in the United States.
However, the parents of both sides were worried.
The two of them are only in love, not married, seeing that they are getting older and older, the parents of both sides are anxious, they keep calling every day, and they are also persuaded in person.
Hu Qiang felt pressured, but Zhang Lingxin was unmoved, and still insisted on non-marriage.
Zhang Lingxin pursues freedom and is not bound by the world, every time she finishes filming, she has to travel for 2~3 months, which is a release of her own heart, in order to better interpret the role, she needs this way to empty herself.
Hu Qiang understood her, supported her, and took the initiative to send her away every time, without any complaints, and would only say one sentence before leaving: "Have fun, come back if you have any problems".
In 2015, the two traveled to Japan, and on the rooftop of the hotel, Hu Qiang said tentatively: I think it may be better for all aspects to get married together.
"Okay, I'll get my certificate when I go back. Zhang Lingxin quickly responded.
This unexpected surprise made Hu Qiang very excited, probably because he had been looking forward to it for too long, and he didn't expect Zhang Lingxin to suddenly change his attitude.
Hu Qiang was afraid that Zhang Lingxin would regret it, so on the second day after returning to China, he went to the field to investigate the entire process of obtaining the certificate, and followed others through, and it only took 15 minutes to complete the procedures on the day of obtaining the certificate.
The two ended their 16-year long-distance love run and entered the palace of marriage, and Hu Qiang's heart was solid.
Later, in a talk show, Zhang Lingxin said that getting married was not because she regretted her previous decision, she was always pursuing happiness, but at that moment, she felt that she would be happier when she entered marriage with the man in front of her.
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The two got married, and the happiest thing was the parents of both sides, it was not easy, they had been looking forward to this day for 16 years.
Thinking that soon there will be a big fat grandson who will call his grandparents softly and glutinously, the hearts of the two parents are happy, and they are looking forward to that moment.
This year, Zhang Lingxin is 34 years old, Hu Qiang is 46 years old, Hu Qiang also longs to have a child in his heart, but he is unwilling to force Zhang Lingxin.
Zhang Lingxin is worry-free, he didn't think about having a child at all, he raised a cat and a dog, as if a pet was a child.
Hu Qiang is not easy to say directly, so he expects the environment to affect Zhang Lingxin, and every time he gathers, he asks his relatives and friends to bring their children together.
Zhang Lingxin saw it in her eyes and understood her husband's intentions, but she still felt that the world of the two was just right.
Until one time I saw two husbands and wives fighting on the street, Hu Qiang rushed up without saying a word, thinking that he was going to persuade him to fight, but it turned out that he was going to take away a child next to him.
Hu Qiang came back and said to Zhang Lingxin: "How cute this child is, if I were a father, I would never quarrel with you, and I would do everything I could to pamper you and the child." ”
At that moment, Zhang Lingxin knew that Hu Qiang was so eager for a child in his heart, and promised Dink just because he loved him, Zhang Lingxin was shaken, and she was willing to make changes for the sake of this man.
In May 2016, Zhang Lingxin, a 36-year-old pregnant woman, was upgraded to become a mother, and a little handsome guy was ushered in at home.
The arrival of the child has brought more joy to this small family.
Hu Qiang even spoiled Zhang Lingxin to the tip of his heart, he said: "I didn't have anything to be afraid of before, but from that moment on, I began to be afraid of everything!"
Zhang Lingxin and the child are his weakness and have become his armor, Hu Qiang secretly vowed to protect this hard-won happiness.
Zhang Lingxin, who has always publicly stated that she wants Dink, doesn't care about being slapped in the face by herself, she has a 360-degree turn, and suddenly becomes a favorite "crazy demon", often sharing the happy daily life of a family of three. She loves to play freely on weekdays, and she rarely participates in even friends' gatherings.
But Hu Qiang has always encouraged her to go out to film and insist on doing what she likes.
Over the years, she has successfully created a number of classic roles, such as "Luo Zi" in "The First Half of My Life", Xiao Yanqiu in "The Sea in My Dreams", and Xia Ying in "Bone Language......
In February 2024, at the 2nd CMG Annual Ceremony, she won the Audience Favorite Actor of the Year with her three hit dramas "The Sea in My Dreams", "Fearless" and "Xiaoman Life".
In the face of honor, she is as Buddhist as ever, in her heart, the pursuit of her own love, serious interpretation of every role is the most important, it is this impatience, patience and perseverance, so that her acting skills are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
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Zhang Lingxin and Hu Qiang have a lot in common, their love for the acting career, and their indifference to honor, but their efforts have been seen.
Although Hu Qiang has now become the president of the Beijing Film Academy and Zhang Lingxin has become the dean's wife, in their eyes, nothing has changed for them.
I look forward to Zhang Lingxin bringing us more works, and I wish her and Hu Qiang eternal happiness!