Preamble:
Why did she give up her insistence on "not marrying and having children"?
What kind of "tomboy" did she be? Why was she slapped in the face when she later swore that she would "never marry and have children"? How did she manage to balance between career and love?
A woman named Zhang Lingxin, her life story is magnificent, with ups and downs, and her character has changed from rebellious and stubborn to open-minded, which is simply a living legend.
The "tomboy" of the wandering skeleton
Zhang Lingxin was born in a literary family, his grandfather was a famous movie star, and his parents were intellectuals.
The influence of her family environment has made her full of enthusiasm and yearning for art since she was a child.
She has a lively and cheerful personality, likes to dress up as a boy and play around, and is called a "tomboy" by her neighbors.
In order to guide her on the right track, her parents let her learn Xi dance, hoping to adjust her natural active personality through dance.
Although Zhang Lingxin's personality is somewhat restrained, unlike other little girls who wear skirts, she still goes her own way, wearing shorts and playing among a group of brothers.
When Zhang Lingxin was a child, his personality can be described as "sunny and cheerful".
She is simply a little sun in the neighborhood, always bringing infinite joy and vitality to everyone.
Even after school, she doesn't go straight to the house like other girls, but changes her ways to tease her brothers and sisters.
Once, she wore a tank top and shorts, with two small tugs on her head, and followed a group of older children to learn them to play a game of tree climbing, and she was a "little heel bug".
The brothers and sisters in the neighborhood love this lively little girl.
At one point, they pulled out their savings and excitedly planned a weekend trip to the playground.
Zhang Lingxin looked at it from the side, with eager anticipation in his eyes.
After discussing it, everyone decided to take this little naughty ghost with them to have fun.
In middle school, Zhang Lingxin's personality became more flamboyant and debauched.
After school, she often takes a group of friends of the opposite sex to hang out on campus, shopping malls, and sometimes even goes shopping until late before returning home.
She always likes to play tricks on her female classmates, pretending to be well-behaved and old-fashioned, which makes everyone laugh.
And when they need help with a plan or science exhibition preparation, the girls will also find her as soon as possible, because she is unexpectedly very good in this regard.
Parents were helpless, so they could only try to enlighten themselves, but Zhang Lingxin still went his own way.
One day after school, she mingled with a few boys and swaggered to an Internet café.
Her parents called to urge her to come home for dinner, but the cacophony on the other end of the phone was the excitement of the game.
In desperation, the parents had to go to the Internet café to bring people home.
In the face of his parents' nagging, Zhang Lingxin not only had no intention of repenting, but also took it for granted that he had done nothing wrong.
The original intention of the opera dream has not changed
Although she has a rebellious personality, Zhang Lingxin's dream since childhood is to be an actor.
Whenever relatives and friends come to visit, she likes to volunteer to perform programs, from poetry recitations to drama performances, and give full play to all the acting skills she has learned.
She always makes adults laugh and praises her talent as an actress.
In Zhang Lingxin's heart, the job of being an actor seems sacred and lofty, and it is her lifelong pursuit.
She often follows her parents and listens to them talk about anecdotes and anecdotes about popular stars.
also pestered her parents to take her to the cinema, and as soon as a new film was released, she sat excitedly in her seat, staring at the screen with glowing eyes, for fear of missing any wonderful shots.
Her parents wanted her to be a teacher or a dancer, but she didn't give up on her ideals.
Zhang Lingxin insists that only by being an actor can her personality and talent be revealed.
After the college entrance examination, under the repeated obstruction of her parents, she still chose to be admitted to Beijing Film Academy, bent on making a career in acting.
The results of the college entrance examination that year were also very good, and she could choose some popular majors.
But for Zhang Lingxin, these are gradually drifting away from her dreams.
In order to convince her parents, she made a beautiful PPT, detailing the development prospects of the film industry and the highlights of her admission to a star university.
In the end, under her stubborn "bombardment", her parents could only reluctantly agree.
A tumultuous teacher-student relationship
During college, she became classmates with Huang Xiaoming and Zhao Wei.
When she was working hard for her dream, a stern teacher Hu Yaozhi appeared and changed her fate.
Teacher Hu is notoriously unkind, often punishing students with corporal punishment.
Everyone avoided it, and only Zhang Lingxin admired him as a person.
In the daily contact between the two, she developed a love for this teacher.
Teacher Hu is tall and talented, with a mature and steady charm between his eyebrows.
What's more, he treats his students harshly, but fairly.
This was in stark contrast to other teachers, which deeply attracted Zhang Lingxin's attention.
Realizing that his emotions were deviant, Zhang Lingxin took the initiative to confess to Teacher Hu, but he was lost.
She can only bury this unrequited love deep in her heart.
Actually, Mr. Hu was also moved.
It's just that considering the teacher-student relationship between the two, he had to endure the pain and refuse.
Zhang Lingxin couldn't sleep all night, and his mind was full of Teacher Hu's figure.
She even had the idea of dropping out of school, but she couldn't bear to give up her dream for many years.
Finally, in an acting class, Zhang Lingxin's wonderful acting skills won the recognition and praise of Teacher Hu.
As a result, the distance between the two has been shortened.
In his senior year, Zhang Lingxin mustered up the courage to confess again, and Mr. Hu unexpectedly accepted it.
Time may wipe out many things, but the sincere waiting will eventually bear fruit.
Zhang Lingxin was so excited that she couldn't control the excitement in her heart, and hugged Teacher Hu and cried bitterly.
The young and frivolous Zhang Lingxin expressed to her boyfriend the idea of "not marrying and having children" in this life.
Maybe it was because of her sincerity, or maybe Teacher Hu, who had a strange mentality, readily agreed to her request.
Since then, the two have started a teacher-student relationship that worries their families.
Zhang Lingxin's parents had a big headache when they learned about it.
How could an intellectual family within the system accept the fact that their daughter was in love with her teacher? They couldn't sleep at night, full of complaints and anxiety.
Intellectually, they objected to the existence of the relationship; But emotionally, I can't bear to hurt my daughter's sincerity.
Her mother had secretly talked to her in the middle of the night, hoping that she would think twice.
Zhang Lingxin intensified her efforts and said that it would be useless for her family to oppose her in the face of true love.
She even claimed that if her family forcibly obstructed her, she would elope with Teacher Hu.
Hearing her daughter's determination, the mother could only shed tears of sadness.
In the end, under Zhang Lingxin's stubborn stalking, her parents could only let her go.
Perhaps, this is also a kind of spoiling of his daughter.
Wake up to the wrong thoughts during the trip
After Zhang Lingxin entered the showbiz, although he has been in the entertainment industry for many years, he has always been tepid.
But she doesn't care about fame and fortune either, she just wants to enjoy life to the fullest.
When I have free time, I travel to Japan with my boyfriend to see the beautiful scenery of thousands of lights.
The two were lying in the hot spring pool, and Mr. Hu sighed with emotion, it would be nice if they could get married and have a home of their own.
Zhang Lingxin suddenly realized how ridiculous and wrong his previous ideas were.
She recalls the bits and pieces of the two over the years.
Teacher Hu has a deep affection for her and takes care of herself meticulously.
And when she falls into a trough and is confused, there is always a pair of big hands that gently pull her up.
Over the years, Teacher Hu has never made any requests, just to grow old with her.
His previous vows of "no marriage and no child" seemed ridiculous at this moment.
Teacher Hu sighed again that when she returned from traveling around the world, she would take her back to her hometown.
There are vast wheat fields and vast grasslands, as well as the warm hospitality of the old folks.
Zhang Lingxin was excited after hearing this, and tears came out of her eyes.
For the first time, she truly realized that the taste of "home" was so beautiful, and she had been ignoring it before.
Married life
After returning to China, they couldn't wait to register their marriage.
Her married life was happier than she imagined, and this small home became the warmest harbor in her life.
Soon after their marriage, their first child was born.
After experiencing the baptism of life, Zhang Lingxin understands that the warmth and happiness of family reunion is the true meaning of life.
With her husband's meticulous care and the innocence of her lovely child, Zhang Lingxin is immersed in an atmosphere full of happiness every day.
Sometimes, she pulls out old photos and looks back on the glorious days with her children.
"Mom is also very nay!" The little guy flipped through the photos and sighed from time to time.
Zhang Lingxin smiled heartily after hearing this, and rubbed his little head affectionately.
She is glad that she finally made the right choice and has such a happy family.
Today's Zhang Lingxin shares the happiness of her family on the Internet, and it can be seen from her radiant spirit that she is in a good state now, and I hope that she can continue to bring more wonderful works to everyone while she is healthy.
Epilogue:
Life is like a drama, and the first half of Zhang Lingxin's life can be described as "ups and downs": from an unruly "tomboy", to being admitted to a star university for his dream, and then to a sweaty teacher-student love.
From the strong resistance to marriage, to finally breaking the vows to form a warm home......
However, when she entered middle age, her experience of life also changed a lot.
We often say that forty is not confused, and fifty knows the destiny of heaven.
Perhaps, the fifty-year-old Zhang Lingxin will show a more mature and stable side than before.
She once laughed at herself in a variety show: "I'm like an old lady now, chattering all day long, and the children are impatient with me."
In the ordinary days, she began to reminisce about the glamorous youth of the past.
As Zhang Lingxin, who was born in the 80s, she can be regarded as the "eldest sister" among her peers in this age group.
Many artists of the same period have long faded out of the public eye and lived a retired life.
And she is not only happy in marriage, but also persevering in her career, which can be described as the best among her peers.
She recently posted a group photo with her daughter on her social account.
Two generations dressed as a couple, like sisters.
Zhang Ling in the photo is full of energy, and she doesn't feel like a middle-aged sister at all.
This can't help but make people sigh that the years are regretting while walking, she is really getting younger and younger.
Zhang Lingxin will also share some life bits and pieces on Weibo.
Fans were pleasantly surprised to find that she was not only so good at acting, but also so simple and moving in life.
Unlike most celebrities, she did not deliberately create the "brilliance" of life, which also made people see a real her.
Joy and sorrow are the flavors of life.
Either way, as long as it's a good time.
I believe that Zhang Lingxin's long career will bring us more wonderful works!