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"I will not choose to get married, marriage will give people a sense of bondage, and love is free, and if you don't like it, you can end it at any time."
"I won't have children either, and children and families will eventually become a burden."
This is what the famous actor Zhang Lingxin once said.
However, it was such a decisive and independent girl, but in the end, she ignored the eyes of others and talked about a vigorous teacher-student love with her teacher.
What is even more surprising is that she was once unmarried and Dink, not only chose to get married, but also gave birth to a child for her husband.
So, why did Zhang Lingxin become an unmarried person?
Why did she break her insistence and register her marriage with her teacher after 16 years of love?
With "Parental Love Fire Out of the Circle"
In 2014, a TV series was released in China, although its plot was dull, it attracted countless audiences to cry for it, this drama is "Parental Love".
Although this drama has been broadcast for many years, it is still loved by the audience every time it is replayed, and various TV stations are also broadcasting the show in turn.
For this reason, many people do not understand why this drama, which is both bland and unoriginal, can firmly attract the attention of the audience.
In fact, the reason is very simple, the reason why "Parental Love" can be popular is because he performs the love that most people envy.
Although there is no vigorous story, it is this bland happiness that people yearn for.
And an important reason why this drama can catch fire is that all the acting skills are online.
However, in addition to Mei Ting, Guo Tao, Liu Lin and many other old drama bones, there is also a supporting actress who adds a lot of brilliance to this drama with her wonderful acting skills.
She is Zhang Lingxin, playing An Jie's daughter - Jiang Yafei.
She is very powerful in the play, she is decisive, full of aura, she will also express her opinions, and as long as it is something she believes, she will not change easily.
And her character is not only reflected in acting, but even more so in life.
Celebrities are not popular
Zhang Lingxin was born in a wealthy family in Shanghai, her parents were intellectuals, and her grandfather was Zhang Va, a well-known actor in the forties and fifties, who has appeared in famous movies such as "Mother and Son", "Long Live the Wife" and "Nightclub".
Zhang Lingxin, who has had a wealthy family since she was a child, is naughty and very playful by nature, and she often plays with little boys with short hair, and is a veritable "tomboy".
In order not to let her be like a boy, her parents sent her to a dance training class to study, and under the long-term edification of the dance class and the influence of her grandfather, Zhang Lingxin gradually embarked on the road of acting.
Surprisingly, when choosing a university, she did not follow the advice of her family and chose the Shanghai Theater Academy, but went further afield to the Beijing Film Academy.
And Zhang Lingxin seems to have inherited his grandfather's artistic cells, which can be described as gifted.
She was easily admitted to her ideal school, Beijing Film Academy, and became a member of the 96-class Beijing Film Star Class.
After that, Zhang Lingxin, with his talent and hard work, was valued by director Zhao Baogang during his sophomore year and starred in his debut film "Never Blind".
Since then, Zhang Lingxin has opened his own acting career.
At first, her acting career was not very smooth, and after starring in her first work, she successively filmed two TV series "Urban Beauty" and "Hard to Give Up True Love".
However, it is a pity that neither drama has received the attention of the audience.
Such an encounter made Zhang Lingxin, who has been talented since childhood, fall into self-doubt, so when he was close to graduation, Zhang Lingxin did not directly enter the acting industry, but chose to go abroad to strengthen his studies.
The kung fu paid off, Zhang Lingxin returned from learning and entered the crew of "Meteor Butterfly Sword", this time, her role as Sun Xiaoflutter impressed the audience.
In this way, Zhang Lingxin officially embarked on the road of acting, and in 2006, she officially became the heroine and starred in the movie "Ink Youth".
And for this role, she also won the Best Newcomer Award at the American International Film Festival and the Most Popular Actress Award at the 5th Guangzhou College Student Film Festival.
Then, Zhang Lingxin continued to play and starred in popular TV series such as "Parental Love", "Langya List", "My First Half of Life", "Elite Lawyer" and so on.
But the strange thing is that Zhang Lingxin did not have much response except for the first film and television explosion, and the dramas he followed afterwards, and even supporting roles.
It can be said that her debut is the peak, the drama is not popular, and the audience remembers her role, but knows very little about herself.
It stands to reason that with Zhang Lingxin's acting skills and background, how can there be no role to play?
It turns out that Zhang Lingxin doesn't care about the so-called fame, she really loves her acting career.
She once said in an interview: "Now I don't care much about whether people are popular or not, I just want to interpret the roles I play, and I really want to be an actor rather than a star." ”
For this reason, many netizens praised his acting skills: "Born to be an actor, it is incomparable to those so-called stars." ”
So fresh and vulgar, her treatment of love life is naturally different, in fact, Zhang Lingxin has long claimed to the outside world: she is an unmarried and Dink.
However, when she met Yaozhi, she changed the vow she had always held.
Destined lover
Zhang Lingxin and Hu Yaozhi met at the Beijing Film Academy, and Hu Yaozhi was Zhang Lingxin's teacher.
Although Hu Yaozhi is not handsome, his reputation at the Beijing Film Academy is well-known, and his strict teaching style spreads throughout the academy, and everyone in the academy avoids it.
For this reason, many classmates named him "Hu Da Dao", and Huang Lei called him the two "bullies". ”
Coincidentally, Zhang Lingxin was assigned to Hu Yaozhi's class that year.
At the beginning of the school year, many students were late, but when Hu Yaozhi came to the class and saw that there were few students coming to class, he was immediately furious.
He then called all the late classmates to the podium, lined up, and then gave them a handboard.
After experiencing this, Zhang Ling felt in her heart that Hu Yaozhi was a difficult person to contact, but she did not expect that in the subsequent relationship, her reflection of Hu Yaozhi slowly changed.
Hu Yaozhi is actually the kind of person who has clear rewards and punishments, he will not deliberately target a student, nor will he deliberately favor a student, he is strict and serious in his work, but he has a gentle and funny side in private.
And Zhang Lingxin was deeply attracted by him, she felt that Hu Yaozhi was very manly, in addition, Zhang Lingxin did not care much about his appearance due to the influence of his grandfather.
Therefore, Zhang Lingxin, who has been independent since childhood, adhered to the principle of doing what he liked, and began to boldly pursue Hu Yaozhi.
And Hu Yaozhi's pursuit of this girl, but not cold, he felt that Zhang Lingxin was still a student and did not know what feelings were, so he rejected Zhang Lingxin's kindness.
However, what Ling Yaozhi did not expect was that Zhang Lingxin's heart was very firm, and in the face of Hu Yaozhi's ruthless rejection, she not only did not give up, but also became more and more courageous, in her eyes, what she identified must be done.
Therefore, Zhang Lingxin chased after Hu Yao every day, chatted with him after class, and brought him food from time to time to help him sort things out.
Over time, Hu Yaozhi was touched by Zhang Lingxin's approach and spirit, so he said to Zhang Lingxin: "Then let's try." ”
Fall in love with your own teacher
In this way, Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin were immersed in a happy love, and began a long-distance love run that lasted for more than 20 years, and Zhang Lingxin also changed because of Hu Yaozhi.
In fact, Zhang Lingxin is an unmarried person, she was born a free person, and anything that can bind her will make her feel uncomfortable.
She feels that marriage is just a formality, many times it is done for others to see, and love is the real norm.
Hu Yaozhi also understands Zhang Lingxin's thoughts, he respects Zhang Lingxin very much, after learning the other party's thoughts, he said that he did not like others to control him, and he felt that he was "stupid" to want to restrain or control a person.
Therefore, the two have remained in love for more than ten years, until later it changed.
After a long time of getting along, Zhang Lingxin already trusted this man very much, and Hu Yaozhi was also dead set on this woman.
However, with the passage of time, Hu Yaozhi is 36 years old, you know, long-term non-marriage will inevitably become the handle of others, and the parents of both sides still have more or less opinions about this state.
In this way, under the influence of all parties, Zhang Lingxin's idea of not getting married began to waver a little, and it was not until 2014 when the two traveled to Japan together that they confirmed their marriage relationship.
At that time, the long-term high-pressure work made Zhang Lingxin feel very tired and unfree, so she proposed to go out for a while, and just like that, the two put down their work and came to Japan to recuperate.
One night, the two talked about work and life while drinking wine on the top floor, chatting and chatting about the relationship between the two.
Hu Yaozhi said to Zhang Lingxin: "You see that we seem to be quite good in all aspects of work, life, and relationship now, I think now is a good time, we marry once, it may be better in all aspects." ”
Zhang Ling thought about it and felt that it seemed to make some sense, after all, the two had been getting along for so many years, and they knew everything about everything, and it didn't matter if they got a certificate.
After learning that the other party agreed to his suggestion, Hu Yaozhi was very excited, and then he packed a ticket to Zhang Lingxin: everything will be the same as before, it will not change, and the certificate is just to have an explanation with his parents.
In this way, as soon as the two returned to China, they issued a marriage certificate, and the fact was that after marriage, he loved Zhang Lingxin more than before.
Good wife and mother
As the saying goes, it's a great fortune to meet the right person at the right time.
After Zhang Lingxin met Hu Yao, she not only changed from an unmarried to a virtuous wife, but also changed from a Dinker to a good mother of a child.
After finally passing the hurdle of marriage, Hu Yaozhi encountered another hurdle, that is, having children.
At this time, Hu Yaozhi was more than half a hundred years old, and if he still wanted to have children, he had to hurry, but he knew that Zhang Lingxin would not give in easily to this matter.
For this reason, she also released cruel words to Hu Yaozhi, I have already given up a step to marry you, but children are absolutely impossible.
In fact, Hu Yaozhi respected his wife's thoughts very much, and after understanding the other party's attitude, he rarely mentioned this matter.
But Zhang Lingxin's heart is difficult to say, after all, when a man reaches this age, it is normal to have the idea of starting a family, so Zhang Lingxin added two "children" to the family - a cat and a dog.
Although cats and dogs can bring happiness to the two, animals are still animals after all, and human emotions cannot be expressed and replaced.
Hu Yaozhi still wanted a child, so he launched a violent "attack" on Zhang Lingxin, and in the days that followed, he took Zhang Lingxin to dinner with friends with children from time to time.
He also often shared various stories about children with her, and took good care of Zhang Lingxin's daily life and work.
Under the soft and hard bubble of Hu Yaozhi, Zhang Lingxin's solid shield appeared cracked, until once, Zhang Lingxin's inner shield was finally broken by Hu Yaozhi again.
One day, Zhang Lingxin and Hu Yaozhi were walking in the square, and suddenly encountered someone in front of them arguing, and Hu Yaozhi rushed over without saying a word.
Zhang Lingxin also thought that Hu Yaozhi was going to pull a fight or do something, she just wanted to stop it, but she didn't expect that Hu Yaozhi came out with a child, and said: "I don't dare to care about fighting, there is another child, it's not good to hurt, I have children I don't have the heart to quarrel." ”
This practice made Zhang Lingxin realize that Hu Yaozhi really wanted a child, and remembering the various past events of the two, Zhang Lingxin's mentality also changed.
I thought: I am married to him, and I am not bad at having children. So, when Zhang Lingxin was 35 years old, the two gave birth to the crystallization of love.
After giving birth, Zhang Lingxin did what he liked as usual, and the work was still going on.
epilogue
Zhang Lingxin once commented: "Lao Hu is a very reliable man, he is also very attentive to work and friends, he gives people a very comfortable feeling, she is very grateful to heaven for letting herself meet such a person with fate." ”
Hu Yaozhi also commented: "Ling Xin is a very kind person, very righteous, and very gentle with himself, I am content to meet such a good woman in this life." ”
And the child, not only did not bind Zhang Lingxin's free heart, but also added a color to the lives of Hu Yaozhi and Zhang Lingxin, whenever Zhang Lingxin was tired, the child became her spiritual comfort.
I also hope that she can bring more and better works in the future.