Giving my mother 2,000 yuan for the New Year was scolded: With this kind of mother, who wants to go home?

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As we all know, the Chinese have four major forgivenesses:

The New Year's Eve is coming, the children are still young, and the people are dead.

During the Chinese New Year, I didn't want to write about these negative energies, but I couldn't help it.

Manic like my mother, when I broke the bowl during the Chinese New Year when I was a child, I wouldn't be beaten. was angry again, and she only gritted her teeth and said viciously, "Broken peace".

But some parents, as if they have a bubble in their brain, are very good at blocking their children on this kind of New Year's Festival.

Let's take a look at a few posts and videos I've swiped these days, which make people's blood pressure soar:

In the first bullet, netizens didn't want to go home during the New Year, and they were cursed by dozens of messages sent by their mothers.

"You're going to die?"

"You're short-lived"

"I don't think you will live long"

"Read yourself like a fool"

"If you don't come back this year, don't come back, just say you're dead in Guangzhou"

"You were hit by a car and died"

"Raise two white-eyed wolves"

"Let your dad delete your WeChat, I'll ask your high school homeroom teacher, is this how you teach students?"

"Send me every penny you make next year"

So why didn't my daughter come home? From these unscrupulous words, you can see how much pain she has had since she was a child. With such a vicious mother, what home do you go back to?

I didn't see that she had a little love for her daughter, only hate. didn't give birth to a son, gave birth to two daughters who she thought were "money-losers", and there was nowhere to pour hatred, so she had to find her daughter to vent.

What is a daughter to her? an investment product.

If it were me - you would tell me not to go home anyway, just WeChat phone call to evaporate among the blacks. Just give money when you're old.

Filial piety does not exist.

Originally, family affection is lighter than water, when you are a mother, you can only endure you, who will watch you play a boring monkey show after tearing your face?

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The second bullet, "I was scolded for giving my mother 2,000 yuan for the New Year".

Please see the VCR.

In the video, the mother sat on the bench and counted a few words over and over again:

"Two or three thousand yuan, enough for your living expenses?

Every year, give a little money for the New Year. What's the use of raising you? Why are other people's children so useful, marrying a wife, building a house, buying a car, you are so useless.

I now say, don't come back next year for the Chinese New Year! I won't recognize you from now on!"

The video ends.

I don't know how her son feels when he hears these words, but I feel heartbroken as an outsider. Is 2,000 pieces a lot?

This 2,000 yuan, he may have saved it for a long time.

How many parents are afraid that their children will have no money to spend outside when they grow up and be wronged, and they also take advantage of the Chinese New Year to give them a death subsidy, and they feel moved when they receive a bouquet of flowers, and they feel happy with a box of fruits.

And she, a sentence of "useless" is enough to shatter all her son's illusions about family affection.

What kind of parents would despise their children who take 2,000 yuan home so much? I paused the video to look at the background behind her:

Concrete floors with no tiles, 80s-style wall paint, a tattered glass shelf littered with steamers, paint buckets and vegetables, a dusty bamboo bench, and a typical ash bucket on a construction site.

Don't call me mean. In her tone, I thought the family had to be at least an A8.

The co-author can't fly by himself, so he expects the child to fly by himself. If the child can't take it, blame him for being useless?

Why don't you blame yourself for the dish?

Some parents with superior family backgrounds and high quality don't want to be chickens, so they work hard to chicken themselves. It doesn't matter if the child has no income, anyway, the money he left is enough for him to worry about food and clothing without working hard.

If you want to have a chicken baby, start from the starting line of the child. The high tuition fee is sent all the way to a famous school, and the extracurricular hobbies are taught by famous teachers, and the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting are all understood. Parents are in business, children have a sense of financial management and investment since childhood, parents are in politics, children are alive and well, even if their parents can't give them shade one day, they can also have a green light all the way in the jungle society.

Parents should not blame their children for being snobbish, and don't blame their children for being useless.

And you, with all due respect, are thankful that the children you raised don't dislike you. also gave the New Year's money back, and it was like kowtowing to the ancestors and burning incense.

Since you said that you will break off the relationship, please be sure to count when you speak, and he will save 2,000 next year.

The third bullet: "Our minds are full of these bad negative energy things, how can we have such children? Can you (get married) and be a normal person?"

Listening to this girl's voice sobbing and retorting to her parents, my whole heart trembled.

I would like to ask the parents:

If you don't get married, you're wrong? If you're married, you're a normal person? Who told you?

Otherwise, look in the mirror. You two are married and have children. How normal does it look?

The strange kid's head is full of negative energy. Isn't it just to list the details of your love for children one by one to remember, and you were stabbed and embarrassed and angry, so you directly attacked with your hat?

- Why do they say she has negative energy?

- Because she told what they had done.

"I'm cold-blooded, I'm a monster. Say no more" - so familiar. This is on the verge of being driven crazy, and I would rather poke myself than hurt my parents with ugly words.

It's ridiculous that they hurt you with impunity.

It's pitiful to think about. A person, crawling around in society, facing no matter how disgusting the leader is, no matter how rogue the colleague, can practice a King Kong incorruptible body, but he may cry a mess when facing his parents who don't love him at all.

There is no child who does not expect the love of their parents, but not every parent loves their children.

If I see my son once a year, I can't wait to rub it into my heart. How can he be in the mood to think that he gives little money and scolds the child for crying?

03

I originally thought that the Spring Festival should be the most relaxing time of the year for everyone.

After being away from home for many years, isn't what I am most looking forward to is getting together with my parents and relatives at the end of the year, chatting and talking around the fireplace?

After looking at the more, I found that people are different, and families and families are also different.

Other people's parents, because they love the house and Wu, will give their children's puppies New Year's money and sew quilts.

Your parents kicked you out of the house because you did a manicure for the Chinese New Year.

Some parents have very poisonous mouths, because they know you and know where the knife hurts you the most.

Some parents are obviously running their marriages in a mess, and their children are in a mess, and they have to urge marriage and birth, "you can get married and leave" for fear that there will be one less of you in the fire pit.

Parents only scold you for not going home for the New Year and being unfilial, and never examine why they make their children not want to go home. If you don't have love at home, what will you go back to?

It's so strange to think about human beings. Even if you have a child, no love is still no love, hollow is still hollow, and a bad seed is still a bad seed.

Parents who love their children have the ability to have more children, so that they are fortunate enough to come to the world to feel the most selfless love, and raising mentally sound adults is also contributing to society.

If you don't love your child, don't give birth, and if you give birth, you will love to commit murder. What you are like, what is the probability of a child, the child is useless, and the old child will naturally think you are useless. If you are sick and weak, the child will naturally stumble and beat you.

The worst thing is not the life of many "failures", but being born by selfish and cold-blooded parents.

Many people have been healed by a happy family of origin all their lives, and many people have been tormented by the pain brought by their family of origin all their lives.

About the author: Rattle, Changsha shooter female, wild emotional writer.