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Who would have thought that a simple incident of joining the queue could delay the discussion for so long, and it seems to be constantly reversed in the middle, I think it is quite interesting, through this incident we can reflect on it and get a lot of lessons.
Let's talk about it first, in fact, it's not too big, a few days ago someone suddenly posted a video on the Internet, according to the publisher, a middle-aged man driving a Mercedes-Benz car wanted to forcibly plug it, squeezing a white Chery car next to him, Chery car didn't seem to let him, and then the middle-aged man was very angry. He got out of the car, pointed at the driver of the white car, and muttered, "Why don't you let it go for a minute?" and he seemed to get more and more excited, and finally slammed his fist into the lid of the white Chery.
To be honest, when we first saw this scene, we were all worried about the driver of the Chery car, that person was so brutal, not only did he say it, but he also did it, and the next second he was about to rush into the cab to pull out the driver of the Chery car and beat him up. But of course, then we knew that the video had stopped here, and the contradiction did not continue to develop, but even so, everyone was very indignant, especially since the publisher of the video was still an Internet celebrity grandmother in her 70s, although she was quite old, but people liked to travel by car, so many people immediately understood this matter as bullying.
You see that the middle-aged man driving a Mercedes-Benz car should be quite rich and status, and on the other side is a 70-year-old lady driving a domestic Chery car, she was originally on the weak side, but the middle-aged man was still unrelenting, not only did he give up but also pointed and scratched at others, and smashed other people's cars, and everyone unanimously condemned this middle-aged man. The police responded quickly, the police intervened quickly, and a notice told everyone that the middle-aged man had made a mistake, so he was happy to mention 10 days of detention and a fine of 500.
According to this notice from the police, this middle-aged man is going to spend the Chinese New Year's Eve in the detention center, and his lesson is really profound enough. Some people even dug up the information, saying that the Mercedes-Benz driver and his wife were employees of a certain university, and everyone was even more angry, saying that you are a model teacher, how can you do such a thing? Some netizens even suggested that the university expel the couple as soon as possible, but just when we feel that everything is settled, after all, the police have intervened, and the people's police must have been very meticulous when handling the case, and the investigation has been investigated, and there has been a conclusion, and there is nothing to talk about.
In the past two days, there have been many reversals in a row, first someone has released the on-board video of the Mercedes-Benz car, the on-board video of the toll station, let us see that there are so many points, the first person said that it seems that it is not this Mercedes-Benz car plugged, but two rows of cars and a road. Then according to the international general rules, it should be a left side to go to the right side of the road, the left side and the right side to go again, the Mercedes-Benz driver felt that he had just let a car in the side lane pass, then according to the relevant guidelines should be the next one is his pass, the result of the white Chery car did not know if it was careless, and the car in front was too tight, did not give way to him, which made the Mercedes-Benz driver very angry, he jumped down to accuse her, he said that it was not just a matter of more than a minute, he meant to say that you see I gave way to the front car, this is your time to let me, why don't you let meWhy do you want to grab this minute or so?
On the other hand, some people said that the Internet celebrity grandmother was not the driver, the driver at that time was not her, she was sitting in the back seat, this matter actually had nothing to do with the characterization of the case, after all, the middle-aged driver really went to smash the car, no matter who the white car driver was, the Mercedes-Benz driver was at fault. But on the other hand, the publisher of the video at the beginning misled everyone, making everyone think that it was really the grandmother who was driving, and this middle-aged male Mercedes-Benz driver was so disrespectful to the old and loved the young, and he was able to scold and do it in the face of a gray-haired old man in his 70s.
In other words, the party that released the video also deliberately concealed some truths in order to seek the support of public opinion for themselves, and even some netizens picked up that this Internet celebrity grandmother seems to have suffered similar things before, how can she always encounter the matter of being robbed by others, is she not wrong? Some people even said that the Internet celebrity grandmother's family seems to have two white Chery cars, which look exactly the same, netizens judged whether she may have a suspicion of a deck, and netizens have now handed over the relevant information and clues to the police, in other words, there are more melons to eat in this matter, so who is right and wrong in this matter?
I think that by clarifying the whole process of this matter, we can learn at least two points: first of all, the first is that you must not be too short-tempered, resulting in reasonable becoming unreasonable, and many netizens today feel sorry for this Mercedes-Benz owner after seeing the video. To be honest, the relevant video shows that it is possible that he did not add a stopper, why did we have such a big opinion of him in the first place? It is because everyone thinks that you have violated the public norms, and as a result, you are still a wicked person who sues first, and you still scold others, you still go to beat people's cars, your behavior is too arrogant and domineering, so we pointed the finger at him at the beginning.
But then everyone found out that there was still a certain reason for his anger and anger, that is, he felt that he was being plugged, and he was still a reasonable person, but what he did later was wrong, so we especially want to remind you good friends that we need to understand the existence of a road rage. I don't know if there is such a person around you, there are many people who never lose their temper, he is always polite and polite when he interacts with people, you feel that he is the kind of person who has no temper, and as a result, this kind of person sometimes drives on the car like a different person, Sensei said that when he encounters this kind of thing, some people drive a little slower in front of the car, he is going to scold the three-character scripture, and some people even have a little more red lights that affect his speed, and he will scold.
I don't know if you have seen such a person in your life, especially this middle-aged Mercedes-Benz driver, he himself works in a university, and even after the incident, many people around him said that this person is usually very polite, not the kind of high-flying state at all, why did he suddenly become so irritable? To tell the truth, even if you are reasonable, even if you really add your plug, then you either bear with it or you can be angry but you can also come down and tell others calmly, according to the international general rules, one on the left and one on the right, just now I put a car on the left, I should have passed, this time you are not right, but you just go over and remember it later, you calmly explain the words, in fact, this matter is not over? Why don't you come down and make a big fuss, not only verbally attacking, but even angry that you can't do it, and you have to smash people's traps with your fists.
On the one hand, being angry to be honest is not good for your health, and when people are angry, they are prone to suffer from all kinds of internal organs, you know? On the other hand, if you are so angry that you can't get rid of your hatred, you still go to smash it, and as a result, you suddenly smash the cover of someone's car and smash it out of a pit, which is deliberately damaging public and private property, so up to now, although the whole thing seems to have been reversed many times, there is one thing that has not been reversed, that is, the police report has not been reversed at all.
Why did the police sentence this person to be detained for 10 days and fined 500, not because of who added the plug and who didn't, nor because who was the driver and who was not the driver, the root cause was that you committed road rage, and you went to smash other people's organs and damaged public and private property, so people want to detain you, and this matter cannot be reversed at all. Therefore, I think this one of the lessons for all of us is that no matter how reasonable you are, you don't need to be angry, if you feel that you are reasonable, you can have a friendly communication with the other party in a formal way, and even if the other party is not willing to communicate with you, you can call the police, at any time, everyone remembers who does it, who suffers, who does it, who is responsible, can speak well, why do you have to do it?
On the other hand, a very important reason why this matter has been fermenting on the Internet for so many days is that many people feel that they have been deceived, what does it mean? At the beginning, the news we saw seemed to tell us a story of bullying, a rich Mercedes-Benz owner deliberately went to plug the plug, and after the plug failed, he was very angry and blamed the relatively poor Chery car owner, I think everyone has this feeling, Chery is a domestic more than 100,000 cars, Mercedes-Benz is so bad that there are hundreds of thousands or even millions.
Especially in this story, there are two protagonists, one is a middle-aged man in his 40s with a big waist and a round tiger, and the other is a gray-haired grandmother in his 70s who is on the weak side, so the majority of us who eat melons feel why you are so arrogant? Why do you disrespect the old and love the young so much? You make mistakes first, you have to blame others, so the crowd is angry, and everyone's spearhead is pointed at this Mercedes-Benz driver.
But then one by one by everyone exposed the things made us feel that we were deceived at the beginning, it turned out that the person who drove the Chery car was not an old grandmother, and the original one who added the plug may not be the owner of the Mercedes-Benz, it turned out that there were still so many problems in this, so when people felt cheated, he wanted to explore the truth of the matter, and then make a new judgment. This reminds us that in the era of online media, information is spread very quickly, everyone is self-media, and everyone can speak out, which is a good thing.
But on the other hand, sometimes we really have to let the bullets fly for a while, and sometimes when we see a breaking news, we don't immediately judge whether it is right or wrong, but think about what the objective truth is, and even wait, and whether there is more news to be discovered. Especially in a situation like this, where there are two parties and three parties, we should listen to both the situation, we should give people the opportunity to speak, we should listen to what Party A says, then listen to what Party B says, and then listen to what Party C says.
And we must be wary of some people who are accustomed to manipulating public opinion, they actually know very well where everyone's pain points are, for example, this incident bullying, Mercedes-Benz does not respect the old and loves the young for Chery, and middle-aged men do not respect the old and love the young, middle-aged men do not respect the 70-year-old Internet celebrity grandmother, someone may have grasped every pain point of this video, which made it spread very quickly, and also made many people misjudge at the beginning. Therefore, this incident also reminds us that when we encounter any unexpected things in the future and see a message on the Internet, we really recommend that you think about it carefully, and learn more about the other party to the incident, so that I think our society can be more just, and will not be led astray by some people with ulterior motives in the direction of public opinion.