#头条创作挑战赛#
Yanzi Sun, who has not appeared for a long time, is on the hot search.
This time, it was not that she had any new developments, but that her sister posted an article announcing the severance of relations with Stefanie Sun.
This news immediately sparked heated discussions on the Internet.
Two sisters born from the same root, why did the relationship break up?
In the statement issued by Yanzi Sun's sister, it can be felt that the relationship between the two has fallen to a freezing point.
In the statement, she called Stefanie Sun "someone."
"Since 2019, the relationship with someone has been very weak, and I have been tired of trying to communicate with her in some way in the past three years. ”
We don't know what happened in between, but at least the message is that the two people had an unpleasant affair and couldn't reconcile.
She also said, "I lived in the shadows for 20+ years. It was not easy in the past, but now, from today, I just want to find a release. Since I'm not a celebrity, but I didn't seem to be a private person before, I just want to say that I and someone else are no longer sisters.
In the past 40 years, I apologize if I have done something wrong as a sister. For my hurt, whether intentional or not, I also hope that one day, the person who hurt me will be able to learn from it and find peace...."
From these words, it seems that she is very tired of the identity of "Sister Sun Yanzi".
In fact, a few years ago, the two sisters also posted photos of each other on social platforms, looking happy.
Why did it suddenly fall apart publicly?
After carefully looking at their previous events, I found that today's "sisterhood" is not accidental.
According to public information, Sun Yanzi's sister is called Sun Yanmei, and she is a master of medicine from the National University of Singapore.
In the eyes of outsiders, she is a proper top student, in addition to her medical master's degree, she also took law and economics electives.
Stefanie Sun revealed in an interview in the early years that from childhood to adulthood, her younger sister Sun Yanmei was the child who was much loved.
She has great grades in school, and she is the least worrying of the sisters.
When her parents mention her, there will be light in their eyes.
Stefanie Sun is different.
She loves to sing and dance, she always can't sit still, she is often punished by her teacher, and her grades are so bad that her parents are worried that she will not be able to graduate from high school.
This made Yanzi Sun's father, who is a professor at Nanyang Technological University, a headache.
However, the gears of fate began to turn in 2000.
Stefanie Sun's first album sold 30w+, beating Jay Chou, who was gaining momentum at the time, and won the crown of the best newcomer.
Yanzi Sun, who became famous with an instant hit, has changed from the child who made her parents "lose face" to the pride of her family, and the focus of the family began to shift to her.
Mom praised her whenever she met people, and Dad Sun took care of all of Stefanie Sun's daily life.
The dazzling star halo brought too much shock to this family, and it overshadowed her sister's "academic halo".
This makes the gap between her sister Yanmei and her sister Yanmei very big.
She was originally the "proud daughter of the sky", she should be envied by everyone and looked up to by everyone, but at this time she had to be in the shadow of her sister Sun Yanzi's aura.
And if you are under the halo for too long, it will inevitably gradually become unbalanced.
Because she looks too similar to her sister, she is often mistaken for Stefanie Sun.
Maybe this is nothing in the eyes of others, but in fact, these have brought some trouble to Sun Yanmei.
Stefanie Sun also said one thing before.
My sister went out to eat and was mistaken for Sun Yanzi by the waiter, and Sun Yanmei always insisted that she was not.
But the waiter kept forcing her to admit that she was Stefanie Sun, and said: If you are Stefanie Sun, I will give you free.
In order to avoid being entangled by others, she had to reluctantly admit it.
This incident hit her very hard, she is a top student, but she always has only one name - Sister Sun Yanzi.
She must have grievances in her heart.
She once confided in the fan group late at night:
Before her sister became famous, she was popular.
But now, she is not even known by her own name from that popular girl.
She has no friends, and her social circle is affected because of her sister.
Even, the people close to her were all to inquire about some gossip about her sister Sun Yanzi.
This made her proud heart unbearable.
In order to let herself have a normal social network, she opened Weibo.
But what makes her even more angry is that many people know her and pay attention to her because she looks like Yanzi Sun.
If she doesn't post selfies, she'll lose her fans.
No one appreciates her fun, no one goes to see her inner world.
As a result, in such a delicate atmosphere, people's hearts often produce some waves.
In fact, Yanzi Sun has been pulling her back, introducing her sister to outsiders, affirming her, and praising her, but because Yanzi Sun's fame is too great, her sister keeps falling into her own halo.
So, after many years, a kind of hatred and jealousy for her sister will gradually rise in her heart.
And the jealousy between sisters is deeper than jealousy of outsiders.
Because we take it for granted that you were born to the same pair of parents, why did you get so much? And I don't have anything?
It's all the children of parents, why do they favor you more? and I'm the one who is ignored?
What's more, outsiders have filters for celebrities, but sisters have grown up together since childhood, and there is no filter.
Then she will think, you are so ordinary, why do you get so much money, fame and fortune, and even overshadow me?
This kind of questioning constantly gnaws at people's hearts, and in the end, it erodes the former warmth little by little, and finally leads to a rupture.
The stars in the casino, with money and fame in their hands, are clothed in halo and glory.
Their existence is in itself a test of family affection.
Therefore, we will see many brothers and sisters of celebrities, and in the end they turn against each other, and their relatives become enemies.
reminds me of the story of star Ouyang Nana.
She has an older sister named Ouyang Nini.
The sisters of other families all love their sisters, but Ouyang Nini seems to be Ouyang Nana's "number one black fan".
When she celebrated Ouyang Nana's birthday, she wrote a thousand-word article, which seemed to express her blessings to her sister, but it was actually full of irony.
She first complained that her sister played the cello like a pig, and later said that her sister was too competitive and loved to cry......
After Ouyang Nana's Vlog became popular, Ouyang Nini followed suit.
Speaking of a mask, she said that she didn't fit it, and it was looser to put on, so let's leave it to Nana, her face is bigger.
Although the two sisters have not reached the point of breaking up, netizens are well aware of these secret pokes and pokes.
In her early years, Ouyang Nini was a key training object in the eyes of her parents.
But later, Ouyang Nana's talent in music completely crushed Ouyang Nini and became the most shining star in the family.
Coupled with the later development, Ouyang Nana's momentum is also more fierce than that of her sister, almost single-handedly driving the whole family, Ouyang Nini's star dream is so bleak against the backdrop of her sister.
I debuted before her, why does everyone like her?
Obviously born in the same family, why can she be pampered in a thousand ways, and I can only be left out in the cold?
Under such suppression for a long time, any person will be psychologically unbalanced and jealous.
That's human nature.
The brotherhood of celebrities is actually more difficult to maintain than ordinary people.
They live in the spotlight, and the disharmony between relatives and the darkness in human nature will also be infinitely magnified.
In fact, in addition to jealousy, human nature among celebrity siblings is greed.
Andy Lau's father died before, but he did not communicate with his sister during the funeral.
Many people think it's strange that Andy Lau is a phenomenal king, why does he turn a blind eye to his sister's poverty?
It turned out that Andy Lau's family was poor in the early years, and there were many brothers and sisters in the family, and his sister was forced to drop out of school to take care of his younger siblings.
And Andy Lau also sees his sister's contribution in his eyes and is very grateful.
Later, he finally became famous and began to help his sister.
originally thought that this family would be thriving, but I didn't expect that in this world, the easiest thing to move people is people's hearts, and the most untestable thing is people's hearts.
When she was poor, her sister was willing to stay poor, take care of her family, and take on the responsibilities of the eldest sister.
After developing, in the face of her younger brother's gift, her sister's heart began to swell.
She was hooked on gambling.
At first, it was just a small pastime, but later it developed into a bankruptcy, and even his own villa was lost.
But my sister felt that Andy Lau should help her.
Andy Lau filled in the accounts for his sister many times, and advised his sister to stop and stop indulging in gambling.
My sister said yes and played bigger at the same time.
In order to make more money, she sold fake concert tickets to fans in the name of Andy Lau.
At this time, Andy Lau really realized: unlimited connivance will only make my sister go further and further down the wrong path.
He publicly stated: He will not take care of his sister's gambling debts in the future.
But this decision led to the break between the siblings.
My sister was very angry: I worked hard to pull you to grow up, and as a result, you became famous, so this is how you repay me?
Andy Lau, who stopped supplying blood, has never had any contact with his sister's family since then.
You can support each other in times of trouble, but after being rich and rich, you are like strangers, which is really embarrassing.
In the end, it's all people's hearts.
Greed can eat away at the warmth and goodness in human nature.
There are many more such stories.
Zhang Weijian and his brother helped each other in the most difficult times, but later his brother became his agent.
He was dissatisfied with the share Zhang Weijian gave him, and accused Zhang Weijian of giving him less money, and later he broke out mania and wrote three words "I hate money" when he committed suicide.
Fei Yuqing's sister publicly broke with her younger brother a few years ago, and scolded her younger brother for not pulling out a dime and having a small belly, which discredited her and ruined her Dharma Body and Wisdom life.
But in fact, her younger brother has been sponsoring her for many years, and she has long been overwhelmed.
Human nature is so deep and dark that it makes people sigh.
Even between siblings, it is difficult to avoid those greedy desires.
These stories reminded me of Wang Baoqiang's brother.
After Wang Baoqiang became famous, he was worth more than 100 million, but his brother still stuck to poverty, set up a pancake stall in his hometown, and got up at four o'clock every day to make noodles.
Wang Baoqiang wanted help, he accepted a little, but he never thought about relying on Wang Baoqiang how brilliant he was, he said: The money he earns can be spent with peace of mind.
Although the words are simple, they are words and proverbs.
It is precisely because there is no material involvement and entanglement between brothers that this brotherhood is clean and precious.
That's how it should be between siblings.
You are brilliant, I sincerely bless you, I will not have jealousy or hatred because you have helped more or less, nor will I feel that my destiny will also change dramatically because you have developed, after all, everyone has their own way to go.
We have lived in the same most expensive house, and we have the same blood in our bodies, which should be the deepest fate in the world, and it is also something more important than money, fame and fortune.