Recently, Stefanie Sun's sister Yanmei Sun published a long post on social media in response to the controversy about her parents' preference for Stefanie Sun. In the article, Sun Yanmei said that there is indeed a phenomenon of parental preference for her sister, but she believes that this preference is more like a "partial force".
As the diva of the Chinese music scene, Stefanie Sun has always been the focus of attention. And her family life has also attracted much attention, especially the controversy over whether her parents favored her. Sun Yanmei's article is undoubtedly a positive response to this controversy.
In the article, Sun Yanmei first said that she admitted that her parents did have a preference for her sister Sun Yanzi, but she believed that this preference was not simply doting or pampering, but a kind of "partial force". She explained: "This kind of bias does not mean that parents have higher requirements for their sister or have greater expectations for her, but that in their hearts, their sister has a higher status and is more respected. ”
Sun Yanmei also said that this kind of partial power did not exist at the beginning, but gradually formed during the growth of the two sisters. "When I was a child, my sister and I had a very good relationship, and we used to play and Xi together," she said. But as time went on, I noticed that my parents paid more and more attention to my sister, and I was gradually neglected. ”
As for the reasons for the formation of this partial force, Sun Yanmei believes that it may be related to the traditional concept of their family. "In our family, the father has always played a strict role, and the mother is a very gentle person," she said. In this kind of family environment, the older sister often gets more love and attention. ”
In addition, Sun Yanmei also mentioned another possible reason, and that is the success of her sister Sun Yanzi in her music career. "My sister's musical talent has been widely recognized, and her achievements have brought us many accolades," she said. This made her parents expect more and more from her, which gave rise to this biased force. ”
However, Ms. Sun said that although she acknowledged that her parents were biased towards her sister, she did not feel that it was unfair. "Although I didn't get the same attention and love as my sister, I knew it wasn't because my parents didn't love me, but because they had higher expectations for me," she said. ”
Sun Yanmei also said that she would not feel jealous or dissatisfied because of this partial force. "I know my sister's success is not easy, and she has put in a lot of hard work," she said. As a younger sister, I will always support her and encourage her. ”
Finally, Sun Yanmei said that she hopes that through this article, more people can understand the real situation of her family and eliminate some misunderstandings and controversies. "I hope this article will make it clear to everyone that our family is not a place full of contradictions and conflicts, but a loving and supportive family," she said. ”
Overall, Sun Yanmei's article shows her honesty and understanding of the real situation in her family. She acknowledges her parents' partiality, but says she is not upset by it. On the contrary, she chooses to understand and support her sister Stefanie Sun, and also hopes that more people can understand the true face of their family. Such an attitude is undoubtedly worthy of our Xi and respect.