#冬日生活打卡季#
01
Unexpectedly, the first "breakup letter" in the entertainment industry in 2024 belongs to Yanzi Sun.
It's just that she's not the one who broke up, she's the one who was broken up.
Just a few days ago, Sun Yanzi's sister Sun Yanmei posted the day before her birthday:
I was no longer sisters with someone.
I believe that fans of Stefanie Sun will be familiar with who "so-and-so" here is.
As for the reason for the sisters' breakup, Sun Yanmei also explained:
I have been living in the shadows for the past 20 years, it is not easy, and now I just want to release.
I wasn't a celebrity before, but I don't seem to be a private person when I live.
I don't want to get involved in fan discussions, all kinds of speculation, it's not easy for everyone.
I just want to live a peaceful life, the first half of my life is not easy, the second half of my life please allow me to live for myself.
Finally, she also apologized to Stefanie Sun:
I apologize for what I've done inappropriately as a sister in the past 40 years.
It can be seen that Sun Yanmei's words were not a whim, but accumulated in her heart for a long time, and finally said it desperately.
You must know that Yanzi Sun is a star and a diva, although there has been less news about her in recent years, she is still alive in the entertainment industry and has a star halo.
Sun Yanmei suddenly staged this "breakup drama", which not only turned out all the ugliness of the family, but also made Sun Yanzi carry everything hard.
Especially after her small composition, she didn't forget to explode Sun Yanzi's black material.
In the comment area, someone kindly reminded her that it was best to delete these harsh remarks to avoid being used by people with intentions, but she said:
If someone stops her little movements, I stop.
But even so, Yanzi Sun didn't say a word, presumably she didn't want her private affairs to occupy the public space, and she didn't want her broken relationship with her sister to be more intensified.
Sun Yanmei said in her essay that the relationship between the two sisters has been very weak since 2019, and she has tried to communicate with Sun Yanzi in some way in the past three years, and she feels tired.
This reminds me of another thing she complained about on the platform 2 years ago:
My dad has been with my sister, and I'm a little envious.
On the whole, the reason why Sun Yanmei insists on severing the sisterhood with Sun Yanzi should be:
The pressure from the outside world, the preference of her parents, and the situation of being talented all made her feel that she was a stand-in for her sister outside and a transparent person at home, which made her feel that if she didn't have a sister, she would also be the most shining one in the crowd.
is like the sentence she once complained about with netizens:
Before my sister became popular, I was also popular, but that's another story......
To be honest, I understand Sun Yanmei, but at the same time sympathize with Sun Yanzi.
It's only to blame the creation of people, and the children living in such excellent families can only sigh "both Yu and Liang".
02
Even if Yanzi Sun doesn't become a singer, her starting point is higher than the average person.
She is the second daughter in the family, and there is an eldest sister named Sun Yanjia and a younger sister Sun Yanmei.
Both parents are teachers, and my father is a professor at Nanyang Technological University. Born into a Kochi family, they have enjoyed excellent family conditions since they were young, but their parents are also quite strict with their education.
Such a family atmosphere makes the three sisters all trained to be outstanding.
Especially Sun Yanzi's eldest sister Sun Yanjia.
After graduating from a prestigious school, he successfully worked in an investment bank and served as a vice president
Sun Yanmei is not inferior.
He was admitted to the National University of Singapore for a Master of Medicine and then a Master of Economics and a Law Degree.
In the eyes of outsiders, he is also a proper student and a proper top student of a prestigious school.
Only Yanzi Sun can't compare with the two sisters in her studies, and her grades are so bad that her parents were worried that she would not be able to graduate from high school.
In addition, she likes to sing and dance since she was a child, and her parents have a headache in order to discipline this daughter, and I believe that when she was a teenager, she often lived in the shadow of her sister and sister.
Sun Yanzi once revealed in an interview that from childhood to adulthood, her sister Sun Yanmei is the child who is much loved.
One is because she is the youngest child in the family, and the other is because of her good academic performance.
Every time my parents mentioned their sister, they were proud and their eyes lit up.
It wasn't until 2000 that Stefanie Sun's fortunes changed dramatically.
Her first album sold 30w+ as soon as it was released, and even Jay Chou, who was gaining momentum at the time, bowed to the wind and won the crown of the best newcomer in one fell swoop, becoming the darling of the times in the Chinese music scene, and was even named a diva-like figure by netizens.
Since then, Yanzi Sun's family status has been greatly improved, and it must have been from this time that the gap between her and Sun Yanmei slowly began to widen.
The parents transferred their praise and love for Sun Yanmei to Sun Yanzi. In front of outsiders, Sun Yanmei is no longer the darling and pride of this family, Sun Yanzi is.
Dad even let go of everything at home and stayed by Stefanie Sun all the year round to help her.
From that moment on, Stefanie Sun's dazzling star halo seemed to overshadow everything in this home.
even overshadowed the "aura of a scholar" of his sister and sister.
This may not be anything for her sister Sun Yanjia, who has long been accustomed to seeing strong winds and waves, but this is very hurtful and even "humiliated" for her sister Sun Yanmei, who has been held in the palm of her parents' hands since she was a child.
She always feels that she is a dignified high-end talent, but she is not as good as a singer.
Therefore, the break between the two sisters has a lot to do with the change in their parents' attitudes.
And the last straw that broke the camel's back was probably the lack of affection between sisters under the pressure of fame.
03
People who have seen Sun Yanmei's photos have all sighed:
She and Yanzi Sun really look too similar.
If you haven't seen it yet, just take a look at the photo of the two sisters below to see how similar they are.
But for a person who has lived in the same environment since he was a child and is equally good, being like a public figure who is more famous than himself is not necessarily a good thing, or even a source of trouble.
Since Stefanie Sun became popular, Yanmei Sun's life has also undergone earth-shaking changes.
In the eyes of her classmates, she was the most dazzling star, and everyone was willing to make friends with her.
But after my sister became popular, everyone loved to make friends with her more, not only the people around her, but also many strangers who came out of nowhere.
And these people who made friends with her all had different thoughts, but they had only one purpose, that is, to find out about Stefanie Sun's private life through her.
Gradually, Sun Yanmei also discovered that she not only became a stand-in for her sister, but she didn't even deserve her name.
Stefanie Sun herself once said such a thing on the show.
Because she and Sun Yanmei look too similar, once, Sun Yanmei went to a restaurant to eat, but was mistaken for herself by the waiter.
Sun Yanmei tried to explain, and kept firmly saying that she was not.
The waiter not only didn't believe it, but also forced her to admit it, and said, "If you're Stefanie Sun, this order is free."
In order to avoid the waiter from continuing to entangle, Sun Yanmei had to reluctantly admit it.
It is conceivable that this incident has really hit Sun Yanmei very hard, as a top student of a prestigious university, as a person whose social status is not lower than that of his sister, why does he not even deserve his own name?
What makes Sun Yanmei even more intolerable is that her private life has also been exposed under the lens of the puppies.
She didn't dare to make friends easily, nor did she dare to go out on the street alone, let alone speak freely on social platforms.
Even those fans who pay attention to her just want to see her photos to relieve the "pain of lovesickness" when they can't see Stefanie Sun's latest photos.
If she doesn't post selfies for a while, she'll lose her followers.
To be honest, empathize, and really don't blame Sun Yanmei for living a suffocated and depressed life, so much so that she transferred this emotion to the relationship between the two sisters.
The more outsiders think she looks like Stefanie Sun, the more she hates Stefanie Sun;
The more Stefanie Sun became intimate with her, the more she hated her identity.
So, she went abroad, and even this little essay was written abroad.
04
Of course, if you want to say that Stefanie Sun doesn't feel anything about this, then you have indeed wronged her.
In fact, she has been working very hard to maintain her relationship with her sister.
It can be seen from the news she posted a long time ago that the relationship between the two sisters is still very harmonious, and Yanzi Sun also accompanied her sister to celebrate her life.
After Sun Yanmei achieved academic results, she was also quite proud and sent her blessings as soon as possible.
Even, Stefanie Sun has taken her sister to attend many events, wanting to introduce her sister to the people around her and expand her interpersonal relationships.
He also collaborated with her on the design of a trench coat.
But it is true that as Sun Yanmei wrote, since 2019, there has been very little interaction between their sisters, and there is almost no news about her sister in Sun Yanzi's dynamics.
Just after Sun Yanmei's small essay insisting on drawing a clear line with Sun Yanzi was on the hot search, a netizen who claimed to be an insider said that Sun Yanmei went abroad because of conflicts with her family, although her parents persuaded her many times, but still did not solve the problem.
What's even more embarrassing is that Sun Yanmei can escape from her family and stay away from Sun Yanzi, but she still hasn't escaped the cage of her heart in a foreign country.
As Mr. Table, a new media writer, said:
The jealousy between sisters is deeper than the jealousy of outsiders.
Because it is in the same lineage, because blood is thicker than water, because it is intimate, whenever I see my parents like my sisters and ignore myself, I can't help but ask: Why does she get so much, but I get so little?
In addition, when you are equally good, but you still don't get the attention of your parents, sisterhood is more likely to turn into jealousy and resentment.
This kind of affection is even more lasting than those who resent you for money, power, or fame.
Therefore, when we like a star, we always dream of becoming a relative by her side, but when the filter is removed, is it really as good as a star's relatives?
In recent years, we have seen too many examples of celebrities and relatives opposing each other.
Whether it is Zhang Weijian's younger brother Zhang Weiyi, who died at home after a manic outbreak after he turned against Zhang Weijian because of money, or Zhou Huajian paid money to repay his brother's debts, but he could never fill this bottomless pit.
Whether it was Andy Lau who was grateful to his sister for nurturing her when she was a child, she always supported her, and even bought her a house to improve her life, but her sister got carried away, and actually gambled more and more, and finally treated Andy Lau as a bank, and finally the two sisters and brothers went farther and farther......
There is an old Chinese saying that "if one person attains the Tao, the chicken and the dog ascend to heaven".
When you become the most dazzling child in the family, perhaps the person who backstabs you the hardest is not someone else, but your loved one.
But because of the identity of this celebrity's relatives, it seems to have become a tight spell for relatives, in addition to jealousy, greedy human nature has also grown wantonly.
Therefore, since identity cannot be chosen, then learn how to be consistent under this identity.
Wang Baoqiang's brother has done a good job at this point.
Although the suffering from snacks is not less than that of Wang Baoqiang, the family does not agree to have a star brother, so he should lie down, or find a position next to his younger brother, just by virtue of his brother's identity, he must have a lot of money and ease.
But he didn't.
No matter whether Wang Baoqiang is a small actor or a big actor, no matter whether the movie he starred in has received a box office of several billions, he still gets up early and is greedy to set up his pancake stand.
Moreover, I didn't even go to the big city, just in my hometown.
Wang Baoqiang sometimes gives his brother some money, and he will gladly accept it, but he knows in his heart that it is love for others to give, and it is normal for others not to give it.
He said that the money he earns can only be spent with peace of mind.
Look, this is the sobriety of the world, which can maintain a good brotherhood.
So, many times, it's not your family that limits you, let alone your identity, but your words, deeds and heart that limit you.
You can be an eagle flying in the sky, but you will be trapped under the eagle's wings and become a chick underground.
This pot, the star does not carry it, only you carry it.
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