Many years ago, I had a very bad time, everything was not going well, as if the gears of fate were stuck. At that time, I always felt an invisible force stopping me from moving forward and getting me into trouble. Until one day, I happened to hear an old man say to me, "When things don't go well, it's better to throw away three things." "At first, I didn't think it was just superstitious. However, as time went on, I discovered that there was some truth to this saying.
The first thing is negative emotions. During those bad days, I was often surrounded by negative emotions. Whether it's because of frustrations at work or relationship problems, I can't get rid of the depression and resentment in my heart. However, when I realized that this negative emotion would further weaken my willpower and ability to act, I decided to let go of this burden. So, I started to actively adjust my mindset and learn to find the positive in the difficult situation. Gradually, I found that having a good mindset in the face of setbacks allowed me to deal with problems more calmly and find solutions with a positive attitude.
The second thing is the obsession of the past. During those unpleasant days, I often drowning in memories and regrets from the past. I'm always dwelling on my past mistakes and mistakes. However, when I realized that the past could not be changed, only my attitude towards the past, I began to let go of my obsession and let myself start anew. I've learned to accept past experiences, learn from them, and stop dwelling on negative emotions. As a result, I began to re-examine my behavior and decision-making, actively looking for possibilities for improvement. Gradually, I found myself thinking more clearly, acting more decisively, and feeling more confident to face the challenges ahead.
The third thing is the people and the environment that are closely related to negative influences. During those bad days, I was often affected by the negative energy around me. Whether it's a colleague at work or a friend in life, they always instill negative energy in me and keep me in trouble. However, when I realized that this negative influence would hinder my progress, I began to look at the people and environment around me and actively chose to distance myself from them. I started to actively seek out some positive people and activities, and slowly changed my social circle. Gradually, I found myself surrounded by positive people and events, and my mood became clearer and more actionable.
When I look back on those bad days, I deeply feel the meaning of the saying "When things don't go well, it's better to throw away three things". Letting go of negative emotions, past obsessions, and the people and circumstances associated with negative influences helped me regain my courage and self-confidence and get out of the predicament. While this proverb may still be controversial, it is a true and powerful guide for me personally.
In today's society, we can also see some similar phenomena. Many people are physically and mentally emaciated, caught in the predicament of work exhaustion, interpersonal strife and psychological stress. Therefore, it is necessary to think about how to deal with these dilemmas, and not just stick to the old ways. Perhaps, letting go of negative emotions, past obsessions, and the people and circumstances associated with negative influences can also help us get out of our troubles and regain our confidence and strength for a better future.
In this diverse, fast-paced era, we need to learn to adapt to change and face challenges bravely. Although this is not easy, only by maintaining a positive attitude and action can we find our own happiness and success in the complex world. Therefore, I recommend everyone to collect this saying and always remind yourself to let go of negative emotions, past obsessions, and people and circumstances associated with negative influences in order to welcome a better tomorrow!