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Text|Yahara Yanagi
This article declares: This story is purely fictional, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please do not sit in the opposite number!
Every time I was about to kill the pigs, I lost a lot of my hair.
In particular, my mother-in-law gave all the lean meat and ribs to my eldest sister's family in front of my husband and me.
If there is any leftover fat and pig's head meat, my mother-in-law will serve it to me, and it is even called a good thing.
At this time, I had become embarrassed because of the work of killing pigs, and even the dinner party after that was embarrassed and was respected.
So every time I go back to the Chinese New Year, I can't wait to get as far away as possible!
01
"Why don't you go back to my house for the New Year this year?"
When I mentioned this, my husband was just silent, unable to say a word.
After a long silence, he just slowly spit out: "If we don't go back, my mother will be unhappy." ”
When I heard this, my heart sank involuntarily.
My husband and I have been married for more than 20 years, but I still have resistance to going home, not for anything else, but simply because of my mother-in-law!
My husband's hometown is far away in the countryside, and even the surrounding environment can be said to be terrible, and even when I first stepped into his house, the family lived in an adobe house.
The first time I saw such an environment, I was completely stunned, and I couldn't believe what was in front of me.
My husband and I were in free love, and even when we finally talked about marriage, we both firmly chose each other.
But when I saw the place where he had lived since childhood, I couldn't help but stop.
My husband may have seen my hesitation and looked at me worriedly, after all, he had never told me this before.
I thought about it, what kind of person my husband was who I chose, the royal family knew very well, and the future days would depend on the two of us to go through together.
At this moment, a small, wrinkled woman approached me and tried to take my hand as she spoke.
"Oh, you're here, come inside!"
And this woman is my future mother-in-law, and the source of my pain in the future.
When we first met, everything went well, until it was time to say goodbye, my mother-in-law secretly pulled me over, wiped tears with one hand and dragged me with the other.
"Child, you have also seen the situation of my family, it is really not easy for me to confess my son. ”
I was still wondering what kind of play this was going on, and then the rest of the words came out.
"Child, you are a good boy, go back and ask your parents how much the bride price is more than 30,000?"
At that time, I hadn't discussed the bride price, but the specific figure of "30,000" still confused me.
I even asked my husband if he had decided privately, but when I heard that it wasn't, my heart sank involuntarily.
On the way back, I was in a sullen state, and my husband saw that I was unhappy, and hurriedly assured that the bride price was as much as I wanted, even if it was the stars in the sky.
When I heard this, my mood instantly improved.
But when I got home and told my parents everything, my parents were surprisingly opposed!
In fact, when I was about to talk about marriage, my parents were very happy with my husband.
But after I told everything I had seen and heard, my parents said that they would not approve of my marriage.
But looking at my husband's face and remembering the environment in which he lived, I made an important decision.
That is, don't bride price, and fight for a future with your husband!
Knowing what I was thinking, my hungry parents almost fainted, but my husband was smiling.
Even my future eldest sister personally ran over to hold my hand, saying that we would be a family from now on.
But although I don't want a bride price, I also have other requirements, that is, I will not live with my mother-in-law, but move out and live alone.
My mother-in-law did not object to my request, and agreed with her mouth.
And my parents saw that I was determined, so they didn't object, but said lightly that I would regret it in the future.
On the day of the wedding, all my relatives and friends were present, and my parents saw me off with tears on their faces, while my mother-in-law was smiling.
Even at the beginning of the ceremony, she took my hand and told the relatives in the audience that she would be her own daughter in the future.
But I never thought that when I got married for less than a month, this person who said that I would be my own daughter completely changed.
My husband and I rented a small house where we worked, just to make a better living.
But my mother-in-law intervened into my life without objection, although she didn't live in directly, but she entered every once in a while.
He even said that he came to take care of me, but this care was to loot all my things.
This includes my jewelry, as well as the supplements my parents gave me.
It wasn't until later, when I saw my bracelet from my eldest sister's hand, that I realized that my mother-in-law had given my belongings to my eldest sister.
I didn't complain about this operation, and even quarreled with my husband, but my husband's mouth was just "this is my mother".
Over time, I no longer had any expectations, and even when my mother-in-law arrived, I hid my precious things.
But it was far from over, and every time I went to the family dinner, I was the target of criticism.
The reason is that I don't support the elderly, and with the addition of my mother-in-law in the village, I have become a bad daughter-in-law who does not want to live with the elderly.
There are even many elderly people who use me as a role model to admonish their daughters-in-law at home.
But when I got married, I clearly said that I didn't live together, and my mother-in-law's inconsistency made me stunned for a moment.
When I was about to ask for an explanation, the short woman on the other side burst out with great strength, screaming and crying in her voice, so that the surrounding neighbors came to hear her grievances.
Looking at the accusations of the people around me, I can't say what I have suffered.
I understood that all this was a ploy by my mother-in-law who wanted to live with his son, and I would not agree to any false accusations.
Perhaps seeing my resolute attitude, my mother-in-law slowly rested her thoughts.
But the humiliation I suffered was far from over, and I was the one who was left out every time I had a New Year's dinner.
Even when my mother-in-law pulled my eldest sister to ask for warmth, I could only squat on the stove and smoke the fire.
Even after a busy day, there was not much food left on the table, only leftovers waiting for me.
When I saw this scene, my heart was extremely cold.
Even her husband would only say "let it go".
So every time I go home for dinner, it becomes my nightmare, which also means that I can't finish the work and can't stand the endless white eyes.
At this time, I gradually understood what my parents meant when they sent me to get married.
It wasn't until this time, when the Chinese New Year was approaching, that my mother-in-law was about to kill the New Year's pig, and she called me over again.
When I wasn't married, I didn't do any heavy work at all, and I didn't even see a pig like this a few times.
Until the first time I killed a pig, my mother-in-law couldn't help but say that she took me off, and when I saw the urging of everyone, I could only bite the bullet.
That time almost revealed all my embarrassment, and the fishy smell of my whole body couldn't stop coming out.
And when I went home, I couldn't help but cry on the spot.
And this time the pig killing was even more so, after coming to my mother-in-law's house, she handed me a knife without saying a word, and pushed my husband, who wanted to stop talking, into the warm house.
At this time, the pig has been processed, and only the cleaning steps are left, but the people who help around have been invited into the house by the mother-in-law, leaving me alone to clear up, and the outdoor in winter can be said to be biting.
When I washed the pork, my hands had become red, and my eyes were numb.
At this time, the eldest sister had already walked slowly to my side, and I was speechless when I looked at this person who once said that he regarded me as a sister.
This eldest sister can be said to be beautiful when she got married, and there are even a lot of things that have been taken from me.
Even when I was harassed by my mother-in-law, I did a lot of things to add fuel and vinegar!
"Sister-in-law, you can't wash this pork, you have to soak your hands and pork in water. ”
When I heard this, my heart was completely cold, and I no longer had any expectations for my family.
I didn't have a bite of a hot meal until the end of the dinner, and I was left with leftovers.
Even when it was time to divide the meat, the eldest sister took the ribs and lean meat, and all that was left for me was the disgusted fat, and even stuffed the terrifying and ugly pig's head to me.
In my mother-in-law's mouth, this pig's head meat can be said to be the best part of the pig's body, just to keep it for me.
Listening to the sound of laughter and joy of the people around me, I couldn't stand it anymore, and threw the meat in my hand to the ground.
Seeing their stunned looks, I just felt that I had found myself at this time.
At this time, I stunned my eyes and saw the flowers and branches worn by my eldest sister, and ran quickly in front of her.
Xu is that my face is too terrifying, the eldest sister was stunned for a moment, and at this time I took advantage of the gold bracelet she was wearing to take it off.
"This is my thing, and it is considered to be returned to its original owner!"
When my mother-in-law saw what I had done, she immediately scolded her, and dirty words came out without money.
Seeing them jumping on their feet, I just felt bored, and everything I had endured before seemed to be small.
I looked at my dumbfounded husband and silently left a sentence of "I'm going back".
Maybe the scene was too outrageous, but the husband just silently comforted his mother-in-law a few words, and then turned around and left.
After this incident, I deleted all the contact information of my mother-in-law and eldest sister, and even changed the door lock.
My husband watched what I was doing, and he didn't say anything more, but went home alone to comfort my mother-in-law.
Maybe from today, I can finally start having a good year.