Introduction: When people get old, they long for a happy old age. But whether you are happy in your later years or not, you have to rely on yourself to fight for it.
After the age of 60, do these six things well, and your life will be happier in your later years.
1. Don't treat yourself too badly
As we all know, today's elderly people almost grew up in bitter water when they were young.
For their generation, I don't know how much hardship they endured and how tired they suffered when they were young. It can be said that only they know the taste of hardship. For these children who have grown up in honeypots now, they will never be able to experience it.
So, in adulthood – into middle age – and into old age, they have always been frugal. There are a lot of delicious delicacies, they are too expensive to eat, and there are a lot of useful items, they are reluctant to use.
It is necessary to mention that for 60-year-olds, their children are basically already married. That is to say, they have all completed the tasks that should be completed. After working hard for most of my life, now that the conditions are good, it's time to enjoy life.
That is to say, on weekdays, don't boast too much about yourself. In a word, you should eat when you should eat, drink when you should drink, and play when you should play.
In fact, the life that is bitter first and then sweet is the best life.
2. Take care of the children's family affairs, do not drag the children back, and do not affect the children
Seeing through but not explaining it is a kind of life wisdom.
It can be said that it is very important for the elderly to see through it or not. That is to say, if you know the affairs of your children, you can know them in your heart, and you must not say them!
Why don't you say it? You know, if you say too much, you will lose. In real life, the reason why many elderly people have a bad relationship with their children is because they fail to control their mouths.
It can be said that they will take care of the big and small affairs of their children's families. As a result, because they manage too much, their children will annoy them and not want to see them.
So, don't run to your children's house all day long. Don't explain anything to your children. Learn to keep your distance from your children.
If you have time, just call them and tell them if they're safe. You can also share your happiness with them, but don't tell them about your frustrations, lest they worry. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is to report good news and not bad news.
In a word, when you get old, take good care of your body, take care of your children's family affairs, don't drag your children back, and don't affect your children, which is the greatest support for your children.
3. Be kind to your wife and cherish your wife
When you get old, if your wife is still alive, it proves that you are very blessed.
As the old saying goes, "The sons and daughters of officials are far inferior to their husbands who beg for food." This means that for older couples, the spouse is more important than the children.
Therefore, when you are old, in addition to yourself, you must put your wife first, live a good life with your wife, protect your wife, take care of your wife, don't quarrel with your wife, and especially don't make your wife angry often!
You must know that for the elderly, your wife is in good health, free of illness and disaster, which is your greatest blessing.
This is mainly due to the fact that when people get old, their children are basically not around. This is mainly due to the fact that they have their own families and their own lives. They want to earn money to support their families and help their children start a family.
It is said that since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been in a dilemma. This means that work and filial piety cannot be balanced. Therefore, it is impossible for them to be there for you all the time.
So, at home, only you and your wife are left. It can be said that in this world, I am afraid that no one wants to die alone.
For the elderly, as long as the wife is alive, they will not die alone. This also means that when you get old, the person who can accompany you to the end is not a son or a daughter, but a wife.
There is no doubt that when a person is old, treating his wife well and being good to his wife is actually equivalent to being kind to himself and himself. Cherishing your wife is equivalent to cherishing yourself. From this point of view, the wife must not be lost. Otherwise, it's like losing yourself.
It can be said that I am not happy in my later years, and I have a lot to do with my wife. That is to say, when a person is old, he must be good to his wife. Otherwise, you can't be happy.
Fourth, don't "slap a swollen face and become fat"
In real life, some old people regarded face as more important than anything else when they were young, and as a result, they suffered countless dumb losses. But when you get old, if you still want to save face too much, then your later life is destined to be miserable.
As we all know, life in the world is inseparable from interpersonal communication. In interpersonal communication, the vast majority of relationships are maintained through human sophistication. When we were young, in order to work and make money, we inevitably did whatever we shouldn't.
But when people get old, they don't need to work, and they can't make money. Therefore, for those gifts that are not necessary, do not follow them. You know, for the elderly, there is no money left. It can be said that it is only in and out.
This old book in hand is to spend a penny less. For those who have to follow the courtesy, don't compare with others, that is, you can follow as much as you have.
For example, if an old friend's family has a happy event, you only have the strength of 200, but when you see another old friend with 800, you also want to follow 800. But you don't have enough strength, so you borrow 600 from relatives and friends to make up 800. This is the legendary "slap a swollen face and fill a fat man!"
Needless to say, this is an irrational act. If you want to save face too much, it will make your old age miserable. Therefore, you can only afford 200, then follow 200, don't "slap your swollen face and become fat," and don't be afraid that the other party will think you have less. You know, courtesy is light and affectionate.
If the other person is your true friend, then he will be happy as much as you want. Even if you don't pay a penny, as long as you go, he will be happy.
If the other party dislikes you and follows you less, it proves that he is not your true friend. For such a friend, try to have less contact with him in the future.
Fifth, we must serve the elderly
When you get old, you have to serve the old. If you don't accept old age, you will be the one who suffers in the end.
This means that after the age of 60, you are not as reckless as you were when you were younger. No matter how strong you are, don't overdraw your body.
For those who are too tired, just leave it to the children. Don't think you're in good health and just do it. When you are exhausted, you will have to bear it.
This is mainly due to the fact that when people get old, the functions of all parts of the body and organs are degraded. At this age, you have to take it easy. If you don't accept old age and blindly be strong, maybe one day you will be completely tired.
It is worth mentioning that if the young man is tired, it may be good to recuperate for a while.
But if the elderly are tired, if they want to recover, it is difficult, and they have to match parts.
The problem is, this part can be said to be super difficult to match. No matter how rich you are, I'm afraid you may not be able to match it.
Therefore, after the age of 60, you must learn to serve the old. Whatever you do, don't be too pushy. Otherwise, once the body is exhausted, the gains outweigh the losses.
Sixth, there is a hobby
Once, when I saw the figure of a 69-year-old grandmother on an entertainment show called "Beautiful Grandma Beauty Pageant", I was instantly stunned.
You know, her ,,。 It can be said that such a figure is perfect for a 69-year-old lady.
According to her, the main reason why she is in such a good figure is that she likes to dance.
Because of her good figure, she is very confident. Because of self-confidence, no matter where she goes, she is full of pride. Because of her pride, she lived happily. Because she lived happily, she lived young.
Therefore, for the elderly, there is a hobby, which can be said to be crucial.
It can be said that when you get old, your hobby is the stage where you leap with the sea and the sky is high and the birds fly.
In this way, not only will you be happier, but you will also be able to make like-minded friends, so why not?
Write to the end: After the age of 60, do the above six things well, and you will be happier in your later years. Do you think it makes sense? Do you have anything to add? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.