Text | Utopia in the clouds
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2023 has passed, the new year has arrived, but at the end of 2023, a very surprising thing happened.
One family converted the space they used as a toilet into their daughter's room. The revelation of this incident really made many families face the most realistic situation.
At the beginning, this matter was said by the mother in the family herself, and she said on the Internet that she stepped on the pit when she was decorating the house.
Many people are very curious about what causes them to step on the pit, and they also want to accumulate some experience in decorating their own houses in the future.
Later, they clicked in to see the specific situation, and then they realized that they wanted to convert a toilet into a children's room for their daughter.
At this time, people are more curious, and they want to know what makes this family have such an unusual approach.
Is it because the house is so small that they have to do it?
Otherwise, why would they let their daughter go to such a room, but when people really read the post she made, these netizens were not calm.
The cause and process of the incident
In fact, this family's house is not so small, and the layout of his house still has four bedrooms, two living rooms and two bathrooms, which is a very large house, but his family has three children, the eldest is a girl, followed by a pair of twin brothers.
His family saw that the space had become very small after the birth of his younger brother, so they thought about changing to a newer house, which would be more convenient for the family to live in.
So he went to a decoration company for design, and when the decoration company saw the layout of his house, it gave him two sets of plans.
The first plan was to let his two sons live in the two rooms facing north, and his daughters could also live in the two rooms facing south.
This room also has an en-suite bathroom and can also have its own storage room, while the master bedroom also has its own bathroom.
But at the same time, this plan has a significant disadvantage, that is, there is no balcony, and the original balcony will be opened up in order to better use the space in the living room, so that it can also be better, so that the whole family can move in the living room.
At the same time, the second plan was also given, the second plan will reserve a balcony for the family, but the area of the living room will become correspondingly small, and the family will feel very dissatisfied when they see these two plans.
The first option was because there was no balcony, and they felt that the balcony was a must, so they could relax on the balcony.
After seeing this goal, he also said that he wanted to get a separate tea room so that he could drink tea in this tea room, but if he did so, his daughter's room would be occupied.
If so, where will his daughter live?
Because the designer had questions, he took the initiative to ask the family, and his mother took the initiative to explain to the designer that her daughter only needed a sleeping space.
He felt that the toilet space in the master bedroom was very sufficient, and it could be separated independently, and the separated space could be used as a bedroom by his daughter.
After hearing this, the designer actually did not recommend that the family decorate it like this, because he felt that the toilet was originally a place with more sewers.
If you install another room there, there will be a lot of noise, which will also cause serious damage to sleep.
And if the sewer above leaks, it will cause serious damage to the room below, if he insists on changing another room.
In fact, you can use the balcony to add a room, and the lighting of the balcony itself is excellent, so that it can better meet the needs of everyone.
Designers have proposed this, and most people will choose to consider it carefully when they hear such suggestions.
Some people even gave up on that plan, but the family actually said that their purpose was to add a tea room, and they had already decided to add a space in the toilet, so they didn't plan to change the original plan.
The opinions of netizens themselves
The reason why she posted this matter on the Internet was actually to solicit the opinions of netizens and get some solutions to the problem.
When netizens saw this, they also expressed some of their opinions, and took the initiative to ask them, why do you want to add tea rooms and balconies? Isn't their daughter's room important?
And he also knew that the family had twin sons, but these two children were not that old, and they were only a few months old, so why couldn't the two of them live in the same room first.
Besides, his daughter is already four years old, and girls of this age are just in the important period of forming three views, if he is allowed to live now, how can that kind of toilet place meet his normal needs?
Or their house is not small, with four rooms? Why can't his daughter have a room? And some netizens are saying that this mother has a bit of a patriarchal impression, and she is a girl herself.
Why do you have to work hard for your son and not think about your daughter?
Among them, some netizens who know him also said that in fact, their house does not only have four rooms, but five rooms, two rooms are specially prepared for his son, and one master bedroom is prepared for himself.
And in order to satisfy his hobbies, he also specially prepared a tea room, which is to meet the needs of work, and there is an office room, even if there are two restaurants, why can't he take out one of the rooms to change it for his daughter's bedroom?
Even if they are for their own hobbies, they can't sacrifice their daughter's normal life, even if it is to satisfy their hobbies, one of the two dining rooms can be converted into their daughter's bedroom.
And you can also change this material into a small tea room, which was originally planned as a tea room, and can also be used as a daughter's bedroom.
I don't know what his daughter will think when she sees this situation, if she really grows up, what will her three views develop into in this kind of environment and life.
How does she feel when she sees that her two younger brothers have their own rooms?
They were guessing that the reason why his mother did this was actually because she thought that the room was relatively large the day before, and she had to give it to her two younger sons, because she felt that her daughter did not deserve to be in such a large room!
I don't know why she thinks about it like this.
And those netizens also made it clear that this mother is not trying to solve the problem that the toilet can't live in, but thinking about how to properly reduce the noise, so that his daughter can live in this room.
What kind of arrangement did Mom do?
When this mother saw netizens accusing her like this, in order to avoid more scolding, she also took the initiative to say it.
The reason why this arrangement is actually because of her daughter's personal requirements, if her daughter does not ask for professional requirements, she will not do this at all.
But this reason is indeed a bit far-fetched, many people said that they don't believe in this reason at all, and even some more radical netizens also said that why was this daughter born in such a family?
This is not the best choice at all, maybe this mother is not even as good as a stepmother!
In fact, a considerable number of netizens said that they had refreshed their perception of the idea of patriarchy, and many people also said that when they heard this, they thought of something similar to what happened recently.
There is a girl who was deceived by her mother and paid a down payment of 100,000 yuan for her brother's house, she worked very hard in Japan alone, and in this, her mother didn't care at all, just thinking that she could work outside to make money.
Her mother called her and said she wanted to open a barbecue stall, but the barbecue stall and the required materials cost 150,000 yuan.
She wanted her daughter to contribute a little money so that she could start the business, and when she heard the news, she didn't plan to send money to her mother.
But her mother said that this matter is a matter of human life, and for such a mother, she can live with peace of mind.
The girl took the initiative to borrow money from her friend, hoping that her mother could get through this difficulty.
But after she sent money, when she contacted her mother again, she found that her mother did not reply to her message, so she was worried that something had happened to her mother, so she hurriedly contacted her relatives.
She wants to know the specific situation of her mother, and she is also preparing to return to China in a hurry, to see what is the situation of her mother?
Later, when she returned to China, she found out that her mother had lied to her, and his own 100,000 yuan and the 100,000 yuan he borrowed were all left in the hands of his mother and brother.
In fact, 100,000 yuan was also used to buy a house, and when he learned the news, he felt that his mother was very unfair to do so.
She complained on the Internet about why her mother did this, and after her mother saw her posted on the Internet, she continued to slander her, saying that she was her mother, and it was natural to spend her money, and asked her to delete the messages posted on the Internet.
From this incident, we can see that if the girl who is going to live in the toilet grows up, she may also face this situation, and the outcome may be worse.
epilogue
After seeing the scolding on the Internet, this mother couldn't stand the scolding of netizens, and took the initiative to destroy the account.