There are many places to enjoy freedom, but don't let our children choose the "toilet"!
Nowadays, many children are strictly disciplined by teachers at school, and their personal freedom is "restricted" by their parents at home.
Who would have thought that toilets, with their pungent smell and cramped, are now becoming little corners for children to enjoy a moment of freedom? Parents must be vigilant, "toilet socialization" is eroding our next generation!
Understand the heartache of parents who "want their children to become dragons", but many parents do not pay attention to their children's mental health, which has caused so many "teenagers are depressed and jump off the building"!
What exactly is "toilet socialization"?
Now the children of the post-00s and post-10s are generally under pressure, and they have been "rolled" by school before they have even stepped into the society, and the childhood of many young people can even be described as "dark".
In order to increase the admission rate, some schools have set up a lot of rules on campus, not allowing students to leave their seats during class time, and need to make a report when they go to the toilet, and children go to school like robots on an assembly line!
Children don't have a lot of freedom at school and the pace of learning is accelerating, so the 10-minute break between classes is precious!
CPPCC members: We can't let a generation's childhood stay in the toilet-Xinmin Evening News-2024-03-05
However, in recent years, in order to improve the quality of teaching, schools in many places have adopted "coherent classrooms" to compress recess time, and students have no time to rest and play.
In order to allow themselves to take time to breathe, "toilet socialization" began to quietly spread among students.
In order to relieve stress and maintain a friendly relationship with their classmates, children can only use the time to go to the toilet to socialize, which is called "toilet socialization"!
Because there is not enough time to relax, the children take advantage of the opportunity to go to the toilet to have a short exchange with classmates and friends, share new things, and even share small snacks in the toilet.
Anyone who has ever gone to school should know that in the toilet in the public environment of the school, the environment is not good, and when you walk into the toilet, there will be a very unpleasant and pungent spicy smell.
But in order to have a short period of happiness, children are still willing to socialize in such an environment, which shows that the pressure of children going to school needs to be relieved, and it has indeed become an urgent problem!
Why is "toilet social" happening?
I don't know if you have seen a photo: a child who is not tall, but carrying a schoolbag that is almost taller than himself, dragging heavy steps and leaving only a lonely back.
Since when did it start, it seems that the current "flowers of the motherland" have difficulty seeing the vigor and vitality that belong to their age.
Instead of seeing the playground and activity room as a paradise to release their nature, children in school communicate and play with their classmates in the toilet, which is really inexplicable.
The reason why there is "toilet socialization" has a lot to do with the school and parents.
Don't let "toilet socializing" become the protagonist of recess-Shandong Education News Network-2024-04-17
Today's children, most parents are more spoiled, and when they send their children to school, there is no way to allow their children to have a little bump and injury.
Therefore, many schools are generally worried about the safety accidents of students during recess activities. Because any accident occurs at school, the school will be liable for compensation.
In order to mitigate the emergence of safety hazards, schools will gradually become more strict in the management of recess activities, and some schools simply "one size fits all", and children are not allowed to leave the classroom between classes except for the toilet.
There are also parents who mistakenly believe that their children do not participate in extracurricular activities between classes, which can help them make better use of their time to study, which will greatly help them improve their grades.
Although the school and parents are very considerate of the safety and academic performance of their children, they ignore their youthful and energetic personality at this age.
What are the pros and cons of "toilet socialization"?
Because the after-school time is constantly compressed, the children's rest time is greatly reduced.
But for them who are growing up, it is the nature of children to be lively, and "toilet socialization" has become a trendy way for children to release stress!
Although this way of socializing may not seem very formal, it does build a bridge of communication for children in many "too restrictive" schools.
Sometimes when the bell rings at the end of class, children rush to the toilet, where they can speak freely, the campus of the University is bound by "rules", but in this small space, there are no "constraints".
For many children nowadays, it seems that they have their real "childhood" in the toilet. Here, children can reduce the stress they are carrying on their hearts and have a chance to breathe.
But in fact, toilet socialization is not a suitable way to socialize, after all, the environment of the toilet is too poor, and children communicate here and breathe dirty air, which is very harmful to physical health.
In addition, playing in a small space such as a toilet and having too many children will increase the risk of personal safety accidents due to crowding.
Please give back the laughter and laughter to the children-China Economic Net-2024-03-06
Excessive "toilet socialization" by children is likely to affect their learning efficiency, and even lead to unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts.
In general, toilet socialization is not a very reasonable way to socialize, so for the healthy development of children's physical and mental health, what is the right way to do it?
How should the problem of "toilet socialization" be solved?
In fact, children are definitely not willing to move their natural environment to the toilet, so the main solution to the problem is to find a breakthrough from parents and schools.
Since parents and friends are always worried about their children's vulnerability to injury at school, schools should strengthen safety education to reduce the probability of safety accidents.
The most direct way to stop children from "toilet socialization" as soon as possible is to manage a reasonable recess activity management system in the school.
With enough free time and space for the children, they won't be going to the toilet anymore!
Whether it is parents or schools, in addition to academic performance and children's life safety, they should work harder on the issue of caring for children's mental health.
The solution to the problem of "toilet socialization" is not a matter for parents and schools, whether it is the relevant departments or individual students, everyone should work together to provide a good environment for children to have recess activities.
If you want them to have a better childhood, we need the joint efforts of the whole society to create a good atmosphere that is more conducive to their growth for the future flowers of the motherland!
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Resources:
CPPCC members: We can't let a generation's childhood stay in the toilet-Xinmin Evening News-2024-03-05
Don't let "toilet socializing" become the protagonist of recess-Shandong Education News Network-2024-04-17
Please give back the laughter and laughter to the children-China Economic Net-2024-03-06
Text/Editor: Lucky Chubby