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Text: Interpretation of microhistory
Interpretation of microhistory
Milk tea girl, a female star who was whitewashed by the "filter of the times".
01
If the milk tea girl makes her debut in the current domestic entertainment, then she may be the most criticized female star in the circle.
The reason is nothing more than that she has too many slots.
First, there are few masterpieces.
There are many popular works, but what is less known is that a large part of these songs are covers of classic Japanese old songs.
"Later", "I Love You Very Much", "Harvest", "So You Are Here" ......
Second, he has an affair with a male star with a family.
The first to bear the brunt is Chen Sheng.
Because he always tries to give her good resources, she can't help falling in love with him.
Bold show of love,
Unabashedly.
In the same way, he also has a crush on her.
But because he has a family, every time the public asks about the milk tea girl, he will emphasize that the two are just a simple "teacher-student father-daughter" relationship.
The public believed it, thinking that he really had no other thoughts on her.
But what happened later proved that it was all.
In 2002, the milk tea girl was 32nd birthday.
She invited him to her birthday party as a guest, and he said a sentence to avoid suspicion:
"It's my business. ”
But unexpectedly.
He just refused one second, and the next second he appeared at her birthday party.
Chen Sheng's arrival made her overjoyed.
She took his hand and slowly stepped onto the stage, then smiled coquettishly and fell on his shoulder.
This action, this look, anyone who sees it thinks they are a young couple in love.
But look at what Chen Sheng said:
"Thank you all for sharing my daughter. ”
Whether it is really what he says it is, we don't know yet.
The only thing that is certain is that the relationship between Milk Tea Sister and Chen Guoqiang is completely over-beautified, and it has not existed for 10 years.
The milk tea girl has been married for 11 years, and if she has waited for ten years, then it means that the two have been together since 01.
But Chen Guofu's girlfriend at that time was Su Huilun.
Once this ten-year wait is established, it shows that the milk tea girl is involved, and the most important thing is that during this period, the milk tea girl also shouted Huang Lei at the concert.
It's playing pure love,
Or is it a joke?
Everything speaks for itself.
Fortunately, the milk tea girl has the filter of the times, not only has she not been criticized, but now she has also gained an enviable marriage.
02
In 2011, the milk tea girl met the right person in her life.
His name is Zhong Xiaojiang, ten years younger than her, he is low-key, likes photography, and his literary and artistic style coincides with the milk tea girl.
The two have been in love for half a year, and they have stepped into the marriage hall together.
As for whether the two are suitable to be together again, the milk tea girl only gave him a test:
Take a long trip.
In one of her favorite novels, there is this sentence:
"Travel is the most important test of a person's character. ”
It is most likely to be impatient during the journey, and if it is not disgusted with each other for a long time, then it is the most suitable to be together again.
Facts have proved that Zhong Xiaojiang is as she wishes.
So, after half a year of dating, they registered their marriage in Beijing.
No flowers,
No diamond rings,
Even the groom's picture is almost non-existent.
There are only two photos that are open to the public on the whole network.
One is a photo of him and the milk tea girl.
The other is a candid photo of the media.
There are very few photographs of him, but there are many of his photographs.
Animal.
Scenery.
Among them, the most photographed are his wife and children.
Having a husband who is willing to record is not unhappy.
But in fact, at the beginning of this marriage, it was not favored.
03
There are two reasons why the marriage between Milk Tea Sister and Zhong Xiaojiang is not optimistic.
On the one hand, the age difference, on the other hand, the milk tea girl is free and easy by nature and does not like to be bound.
Long before she got married, she put the ugly things in front of her.
Don't do housework, don't be a full-time wife, sleep in separate rooms after getting married, and have your own independent space.
The first two points can be understood.
But the latter two points are incomprehensible in any case.
If you don't sleep together, why get married?
In response to the public's questions, she answered them like this:
"You can only make the other person comfortable if you make yourself comfortable. ”
This is the case, but there are still many people who disagree.
After all, in the context of East Asian culture, the wife has always been the one who cooperates.
Married women are not qualified to make demands, and they are not so much members of the family as they are described as an object, an object that is put wherever it is needed.
So when she made these requests, many people thought that Zhong Xiaojiang would not agree.
But unexpectedly, he agreed.
As she wished, they remained independent after marriage.
When they go out, they go their separate ways, do what they love to do, and watch their favorite movies.
When the "mission" is completed, the two meet at the agreed location, and then go home together.
When you get home, go back to your field and do your own thing.
After everything was done, the two nested on the same sofa, reading books, magazines, and talking and laughing.
has been separated, not divorced, this kind of life, they have lasted for a long time, and they are still very happy.
It was also at this time that the public understood her sentence:
"Later, I finally learned how to love. ”
How to love?
Be independent enough to get along well with others.
Enough self-love to make your life easy.
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