Yang Yangyang is so good, my sister cried to her father Yang Wei: I'm not as good as my brother, so I'm not your child?
Every time Olympic champion Yang Wei mentions his son Yang Yangyang, he can't hide his pride!
Yang Wenchang, nicknamed Yang Yangyang, has been precocious, sensible, gentle and kind since he was a child. At the age of 14 this year, he has grown into a handsome little guy with four-pack abs and looks like 1.8 meters long legs.
Not only did he excel in Xi and all his homework, but he also excelled in sports, starting to train as a professional golfer at an early age, and he was interviewed by the media on behalf of the school several times - it is no exaggeration to say that Yang Yangyang highly embodies the results of children from elite families and receiving top educational resources.
The youngest daughter caused Yang Wei and his wife to worry
In addition to Yang Yangyang, Yang Wei and Yang Yun also have twin daughters, the elder sister is called Huanhuan, and the younger sister is called Lele.
Huanhuan is as good as her brother Yang Yangyang, and even surpasses it, but Lele has an obvious gap with her brother and sister, which once made Yang Wei very annoyed: Why is the gap so big between the children produced in the same batch?
According to Yang Wei's description, Huanhuan and Lele wrote homework together, and when Huanhuan finished writing, Lele did less than half of it; when Huanhuan was 6 years old, she began to teach herself to sketch, but she could teach Lele to pronounce pinyin "d-ao, dao" 5 times, but she still couldn't remember it......
Because she is not as good as her brothers and sisters, and her parents are stricter in her discipline, it has caused Lele a lot of psychological pressure. One night, she cried and said to her parents, "Am I not as good as my brother, am I not your child?"
Saying this sentence from the mouth of a 6 or 7-year-old child was like a slap in the face, waking up Yang Wei and Yang Yun and his wife, "Yes, when the child is born, the only thing parents expect is that she is a healthy child."
Since then, Yang Wei and his wife have changed the same education strategy for their three children, and completely adopted "encouragement education" for the third child: it doesn't matter if you learn slowly, you can't learn, but you must finish your homework seriously, and even remember the initials and finals, and don't be picky when eating, they will immediately give encouragement.
In Yang Wei's words: Yang Yangyang's future goal is not only 985, but also Stanford; when Lele grows up, she may be better than her brother, or she may be an ordinary person all her life, but now she only hopes that she will enjoy the encouragement of her parents and the fulfillment of every small progress.
Netizens came forward to say
Yang Wei said frankly: It is not a shame to admit the ordinariness of your own children.
His education strategy for his youngest daughter Lele has also been supported by the majority of netizens, and some people have come forward to say:
When the excellent children grow up, they all fly high, who will take care of you for the elderly?
Our dragon and phoenix fetus, one is the first in the class, the other is the first from the bottom, there is a head and a tail, which is very good.
It was also suggested that:
You can know that the child is ordinary, but don't tell the world that she is ordinary, let alone put a hat on her. Maybe she's just ordinary in some way at the moment, but if you put a hat on her, she'll really be seated......
Parents, please make an effort
With the liberalization of the national two-child policy, there will be more and more families with multiple children in the future, which will test the ability and education methods of parents even more.
Dong Yuhui said: Don't worry that your apples ripen later than others, that's because your apples are sweeter than others. Let the tree become a tree, let the flower become a flower.
Personally, I think that if the child is excellent, let him fly, and if he is ordinary, let him accept the joy.
Of course, the premise of all this is that parents try their best to create a good environment for their children to grow up. Just like Yang Wei and Yang Yun, even if the children are ordinary, they have the ability to shelter them without worrying about food and clothing for the rest of their lives.