Tongali was born in Hefei, Anhui Province, and her parents were very strict with her. Tongali's father was a war veteran with an extremely tough personality and no mercy in disciplining his daughter.
Tongali's gentle and virtuous mother pays more attention to the gentle and earnest teaching of her daughter's upbringing. Under the strict requirements of her father and the careful care of her mother, Tongali has shown unusually well-behaved and obedient qualities since she was a child.
When she was 9 years old, the Tang family's parents decided to send her to a dance school to learn Xi dance out of consideration for their daughter's growth. The teacher immediately took a fancy to Tongali's Peugeot appearance and agile posture, and asserted that she had the potential to become an excellent dancer.
Under the careful cultivation of the teacher, Tongali really showed amazing talent, and she must live up to the expectations of the teacher.
In order to realize her dream of becoming a big star, Tongali chose to go to a dance school to study Xi in high school. In many performances in the school, Tongali has attracted a lot of attention with her outstanding dancing posture and is also well-known in the school.
However, Tongali understands that this achievement is still far from realizing the vast acting career in her heart. So she began to take the initiative to make friends with directors and sell herself everywhere, hoping to get a chance to perform.
But after all, Tongali's talent is still immature, and she has no strong background support, and many auditions have ended in failure, her acting skills cannot break through the bottleneck, and her acting career is struggling.
Tongali gradually realized that to stand out in the entertainment industry, it is difficult to achieve without a magnificent trek.
A chance shooting opportunity allowed Tongali to meet director Shen Dong. The two fell in love at first sight and naturally entered the palace of marriage. Tongali hopes to use Shen Dong's connections in the circle to help her acting career take off.
In order to support his wife's dreams, Shen Dong tried his best to help, but because Tongali's acting skills were not yet mature, the TV series she participated in was still tepid, failing to make her a household name.
Tongali is deeply anxious about the current progress, and she realizes that to quickly break the status quo and achieve her dream of rapid popularity, she needs to take some more extreme measures along the way.
In 2002, Tongali met Zhang Xulong, who was already a master photographer at the time. Under the persuasion of Zhang Xulong, Tongali took a series of large-scale body art photos.
As soon as this set of photos was released, it immediately set off a heated discussion across the country, and Tongali's name became famous overnight. However, her photo has also attracted huge controversy and criticism.
In the eyes of conservative public opinion, Tongali's actions are only for the sake of fame and hype. Tongali's father was even more furious at the moment he saw the photo, and he strongly demanded that his daughter immediately destroy these unsightly photos.
However, Tongali stubbornly claimed that she was pursuing art, and the father and daughter had a heated quarrel. Eventually, Tongali's father kicked her out of the house.
Tongali's bold photoshoot also made it difficult for her husband Shen Dong to accept. As the other half of Tongali, Shen Dong hopes that his wife can teach her husband and children with peace of mind and live an ordinary family life.
However, Tongali is determined to develop an acting career and has little interest in family life. The two had serious disagreements over the direction of their lives, and the contradictions became increasingly acute. In the end, Shen Dong persuaded Tongali to make a choice, whether career was more important or family was more important.
After careful consideration, Tongali decided to leave Shen Dong to continue chasing her acting dream, and the two finally divorced peacefully. After the divorce, Tongali invested in more daring and controversial photo shooting, hoping to continue to set off topics and heat.
After the enthusiasm that Tongali brought to the photo gradually subsided, her acting career still did not improve. Fame, fortune and success can't really fill the emptiness and loneliness in Tongali's heart.
Now that Tongali's family and marriage have broken down, she has to face up to her mistakes that she made desperately to achieve her dream. Tongali began to reflect, and after experiencing life, she realized that having a stable and down-to-earth life happiness in middle age is actually more valuable.
Everyone's definition of success and happiness is different, and you shouldn't give up your family for fame and fortune. Now Tongali just wants to rebuild her family, but it's too late, she can only learn to cherish and protect everything she has Xi, live in the moment, and stop thinking nonsense.
Tongali's life experience makes us think deeply, when we are young, we all have ideals and pursuits, but we must not only focus on the present, but also learn to imagine for our families. You also need to understand yourself correctly, and some dreams are difficult to achieve after all.
Tongali is obsessed with her dream of stardom, but her acting skills are limited, and her photo can only be a sensation for a while. We must look at fame and fortune rationally, because external success cannot truly satisfy the heart.
In addition, you should be grateful to the people who have always supported you in your life, and when fame and fortune fail, family and friendship are the most valuable treasures. There is still a long way to go in life, and we can strive for spiritual pursuits, but we should also learn to savor the ordinary joys in life.
By understanding what is most important, we can live our lives without losing our way.